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By (user no longer on site) OP   
44 weeks ago

Hi i’m new to fab swingers, any tips as every single female i’ve messaged either doesnt read it or doesnt reply haha

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Sure lots of people will say the same, no profile pic and your profile doesn't say a great deal about you.

Also no veris and you've been here for a while, pop on chat and cam and get to know people, like some photos da de dah..

Just don't force it

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"Hi i’m new to fab swingers, any tips as every single female i’ve messaged either doesnt read it or doesnt reply haha "

Message them all again, but this time get really angry.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
44 weeks ago

Southampton


"Hi i’m new to fab swingers, any tips as every single female i’ve messaged either doesnt read it or doesnt reply haha "

Try going in the forums and get chatting to people

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place and I don’t care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it.

You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard ya hit. It’s about how hard you can get it and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done!

Now if you know what you’re worth then go out and get what you’re worth. But ya gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you wanna be because of him, or her, or anybody!

Cowards do that and that ain’t you! You’re better than that!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
44 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Don't call us "females"

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By *allySlinkyWoman
44 weeks ago

Leeds

You need a profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Dunno if you’ve tried be really really ridiculously good looking? Heard that helps

Also looking into those herbs that make your penis bigger. If you have the thyme

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
44 weeks ago

Southampton


"Dunno if you’ve tried be really really ridiculously good looking? Heard that helps

Also looking into those herbs that make your penis bigger. If you have the thyme "

Only if you're minted though...

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By *adyBugsWoman
44 weeks ago

cognito

Respect. Think before you type, do I fit the details the person is looking for? Do they fit my criteria? Then decide if you still want to message.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place and I don’t care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it.

You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard ya hit. It’s about how hard you can get it and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done!

Now if you know what you’re worth then go out and get what you’re worth. But ya gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you wanna be because of him, or her, or anybody!

Cowards do that and that ain’t you! You’re better than that!"

Workin hard there

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By *ellhungvweMan
44 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Dunno if you’ve tried be really really ridiculously good looking? Heard that helps

Also looking into those herbs that make your penis bigger. If you have the thyme

Only if you're minted though..."

And your name is Basil.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
44 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place and I don’t care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it.

You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard ya hit. It’s about how hard you can get it and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done!

Now if you know what you’re worth then go out and get what you’re worth. But ya gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you wanna be because of him, or her, or anybody!

Cowards do that and that ain’t you! You’re better than that!"

Did you thank Adrian for your speech?

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
44 weeks ago

Southampton


"Dunno if you’ve tried be really really ridiculously good looking? Heard that helps

Also looking into those herbs that make your penis bigger. If you have the thyme

Only if you're minted though...

And your name is Basil."
Or rosemary

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Try to imagine fabs like that scene in finding nemo. The guys are the seagulls and the girls are Dori and Marlin

https://youtu.be/H4BNbHBcnDI?feature=shared

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By *ellhungvweMan
44 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Dunno if you’ve tried be really really ridiculously good looking? Heard that helps

Also looking into those herbs that make your penis bigger. If you have the thyme

Only if you're minted though...

And your name is Basil. Or rosemary"

That’s very sage advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place and I don’t care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it.

You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard ya hit. It’s about how hard you can get it and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done!

Now if you know what you’re worth then go out and get what you’re worth. But ya gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you wanna be because of him, or her, or anybody!

Cowards do that and that ain’t you! You’re better than that!

Did you thank Adrian for your speech? "

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
44 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Remember that you're in the majority looking for absolute minority - FF couples (no chance) and single females (slightly better than no chance).

Read the FAQ's.

Read the forums - most of your questions and tips for you have already been discussed.

You cannot accommodate, so people will assume that you're in a relationship and cheating.

Dig in for the long haul. It's a tough gig for single guys.

If you can't take rejection, delete your account ASAP.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
44 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Put some graft in, strap in tight it'll be a bumpy ride, or no rode at all

Mr

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By *ittlebirdWoman
44 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Check out some of the other threads on the forum with advice OP. Make your profile exactly how you want it. If you were a woman/couple would you reply to you? If not, change it. It’s your shop window…

Then pray… chat on the forums… make friends and most of all have some fun

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
44 weeks ago

Central

Give us what we want

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
44 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Buy a wig & a dress

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By *adyBugsWoman
44 weeks ago

cognito

Replies should be kept to the thread please unless the thread specifically says you can contact a person outside of the conversation.

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By *oveChavvMan
44 weeks ago

weymouth

Welcome then typical mate sooner you get used it better for you

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By *iss My AxeMan
44 weeks ago

Durham


"Hi i’m new to fab swingers, any tips as every single female i’ve messaged either doesnt read it or doesnt reply haha

Try going in the forums and get chatting to people "

This. I've had a couple of Fab profiles over the years, and probably 75% of the connections I've made on here have been through the forums

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
44 weeks ago

Southampton


"Hi i’m new to fab swingers, any tips as every single female i’ve messaged either doesnt read it or doesnt reply haha

Try going in the forums and get chatting to people

This. I've had a couple of Fab profiles over the years, and probably 75% of the connections I've made on here have been through the forums"

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By *hrimper36Couple
44 weeks ago

Central France dept 36


"Hi i’m new to fab swingers, any tips as every single female i’ve messaged either doesnt read it or doesnt reply haha "

You’re not new and you’re not doing well or even semi well so you are thinking that the forums can help you get your cock wet which is fair enough I guess but you are you and we are not you so you have to put yourself and your personality in the shop window for people to see and think mmmmm he’s nice.

Fab is a swingers site and not an instant fuck site but I think a large percentage of cock on here think it’s a fuck site and get nowhere very fast/slowly.

Look within for guidance op and look at your shop window.

Best of luck.

T

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By *outhern man.Man
44 weeks ago

Weymouth


"Dunno if you’ve tried be really really ridiculously good looking? Heard that helps

Also looking into those herbs that make your penis bigger. If you have the thyme

Only if you're mdillthough...

And your name is Basil. Or rosemary"
or dill

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