FabSwingers.com forum: How many ladies would date a cross dresser

By *hirley147 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

How many ladies would date a cross dresser? I would like completely honest answers, no political correctness. If not why not? I am really curious to know the reality. I do accept bi sexuality coming in to this to but bisexual people can do manogamy to. And yes I know some are straight blah blah.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

Probably a very tiny minority

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)

Totally, but I wouldn’t date someone just because they were a cross dresser. We’d have to gel together, obviously.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

I think they'd much prefer a happy chilled out dresser rather than a cross one..

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I wouldn't _not_ date someone just because they crossdressed.

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I would, and have.

But that's not what attracted me to them In the first place. They are funny, kind, considerate and the cross dressing was just a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm attracted to gender conforming men.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"How many ladies would date a cross dresser? I would like completely honest answers, no political correctness. If not why not? I am really curious to know the reality. I do accept bi sexuality coming in to this to but bisexual people can do manogamy to. And yes I know some are straight blah blah. "

What a great question !

I WOULD date a cross dresser but CD's are no different to other PEOPLE. What I mean by the caps is .....it's always 'seeing the person' that matters to me.

I just love Grayson Perry's creativity and uniqueness. Similarly I'd love some time in the company of Eddie Izzard ( is she sue now ? )

So it's not just any cross dresser. Just the cross dressers who are interesting PEOPLE.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Caveat....

Not if he acted in a stereotypical , feminine , mysoginistically constructed mis representation of what a woman is ......

If it's just his personality in his choice of clothes then yes...... if he's constantly trying to channel Marilyn Monroe and hides behind someone else ...... then no.

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I have a wonderful lady friend I occasionally see. I sometimes stay with her and she has sooo encouraged me to go out to dinner on dates. I’m always as nervous as hell beforehand but she sees it as girly night out. I couldn’t wish for a better ‘wing woman’

R xx

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No.

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By *hirley147 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

What reason if any,? Please feel free to be honest

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"What reason if any,? Please feel free to be honest "

Me? I just find it a turn off.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

If I was guessing I'd say about 16,678 in the UK

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

Sitting on the table

There are women who are into cross dressers in a sexual way, but I would doubt many are looking for a relationship with one if I'm honest.

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By *rishcuriosityWoman
over a year ago

Derry

Definitely not. Usually look cheap and tacky. Not attractive to me at all.

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By *ellaboo400Couple
over a year ago

Gorebridge

Definitely a no for me

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By *alm_one4Man
over a year ago

RM16

"If I was guessing I'd say about 16,678 in the UK"

Sir, you have miscounted, I think you’ll find is 16,677.5

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"If I was guessing I'd say about 16,678 in the UK

Sir, you have miscounted, I think you’ll find is 16,677.5"

I’ll go higher I think

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"If I was guessing I'd say about 16,678 in the UK

Sir, you have miscounted, I think you’ll find is 16,677.5"

I rounded up to be safe

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

It’s not for me.

I don’t find a male in female role attractive.

I prefer masculine presenting partners

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

No but I would date a trans person.

Ms Dot

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By *hirley147 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

"It’s not for me.

I don’t find a male in female role attractive.

I prefer masculine presenting partners "
what about as a friend to go to clubs with who wants to be a cuckold.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've found quite a few are happy to go out with me because of me, not because of the fact I cross dress. It really does depend on the person and if we gel.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's not for me.

I'm not attracted to femininity at all.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Not for me, I'm afraid.

Sexually - a complete turn off.

Friendship - absolutely!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes I would with certain reservations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was guessing I'd say about 16,678 in the UK

Sir, you have miscounted, I think you’ll find is 16,677.5

I’ll go higher I think "

About 1 in 10 men throw panties on I know I do and full dress too

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By *ACOLCouple
over a year ago

limerick

"I have a wonderful lady friend I occasionally see. I sometimes stay with her and she has sooo encouraged me to go out to dinner on dates. I’m always as nervous as hell beforehand but she sees it as girly night out. I couldn’t wish for a better ‘wing woman’

R xx"

Love this for you, I have a friend that I have encourage to be themselves, and they just a date with a Fabber, so very happy for them. But yes I think we still far away from us going out for drinks or anything really.

Lina.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Some of these replies have been an interesting read. It seems there is a huge assumption that all cross dressers are role playing women... some remain very masculine and are straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of them

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Just men who cross dress? No.

Actual trans male to female yes.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I have done. He didn’t do the wig and makeup but he got off on women’s clothes and underwear. He was super hot and fascinating.

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Totally, but I wouldn’t date someone just because they were a cross dresser. We’d have to gel together, obviously. "

You hit the nail on the head for me here!

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

But why is he so cross?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, love a dominant guy but if he’s wearing a dress and stockings it’s not going to happen.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"But why is he so cross?"

Laddered stockings.

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