FabSwingers.com forum: Free use

By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

This term is completely new to me, but it basically means that you are always there to use for your partners sexual needs, whenever and wherever they want.

This is something I have been all my life, and would love to meet somebody simular, somebody who's always ready.

I never knew there was a term for this "kink"

Would anyone else consider themselves this?

I thought I was very rare being this way but apparently its becoming quite a big thing.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
44 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

No. But funny username

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By *naswingdressWoman
44 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

It sounds not far away from a controlling relationship tbh. It wouldn't be for me.

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By *ellinever70Woman
44 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Where is it becoming quite a big thing?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
44 weeks ago

Reading

Sounds like a 24hr dom sub relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

"It sounds not far away from a controlling relationship tbh. It wouldn't be for me."

No, from what I've been told it's not something you try to coherce somebody into. It's like you defining yourself as a swinger, you're not being forced into it. It's something you enjoy.

I am always open to being sexual with my partner whenever they need, that's my thing, my partner isn't trying to control me to make me that way.

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By *naswingdressWoman
44 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It sounds not far away from a controlling relationship tbh. It wouldn't be for me.

No, from what I've been told it's not something you try to coherce somebody into. It's like you defining yourself as a swinger, you're not being forced into it. It's something you enjoy.

I am always open to being sexual with my partner whenever they need, that's my thing, my partner isn't trying to control me to make me that way."

I'm not saying it is controlling, I'm saying it sounds not far away from it.

Sometimes I'm exhausted, sometimes I have a migraine, sometimes I caught some horrific pukey bug, and no matter how much my (hypothetical) partner wants it, I am not going to be there for them.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
44 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I find it an odd one, and not something I'd agree to.

If my partner is in the mood and I'm not, and they want to rely on a free use agreement rather than actually excite me. I think I'd just leave

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By *onameyet2Man
44 weeks ago

chorley

It’s a genre made up by the porn makers based on adolescent fantasies of shagging your mum and sis whenever you want

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"Sounds like a 24hr dom sub relationship."

It always someone’s idea of heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"Sounds like a 24hr dom sub relationship."

I thought this. master (mistress)/sl@ve

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By *stwo2023Couple
44 weeks ago

Worcester

I do enjoy being available and when the mood takes him. I like being his toy to use.

Evie

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By *imi_RougeWoman
44 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Aren't most men like this anyway?

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By *ellinever70Woman
44 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Aren't most men like this anyway?

I'm gonna say no

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By *ora the explorerWoman
44 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Actually. Thinking about this more and reading the op properly I wouldn’t mind one of these people. Do they have to drop everything when I want sex? I think I could work with this kink

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

There's also an "ignore" fetish as well. Where one partner, usually the female, shows no interest in, or reaction to the activity taking place. Sometimes even reading a book or playing a video game.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

"I find it an odd one, and not something I'd agree to.

If my partner is in the mood and I'm not, and they want to rely on a free use agreement rather than actually excite me. I think I'd just leave

Well I think its geared to a different type of person. I don't think it's an agreement people make as such, it's wether you are that way inclined or not.

So for me for instance..

I don't think I've ever turned any of my partners down for sex, on a single occasion, whether im tired, stressed, feeling rough, if I don't feel horny at the time, I'm still always open to sex.

I'm not implying that you should have a partner that makes zero effort to get you in the mood and just expects sex.

All im saying is whatever partner I have there's never a no from me, regardless of how I feel, because as soon as there's some physical contact, I'm in the mood.

I didn't know if anyone else associates with this?

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
44 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

I think it’s hot, and the ignore one also sounds hot. I wonder if you should start this thread again in the ‘Swingers Chat’ forum, i bet you people there with experience of this

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
44 weeks ago

Lincoln

Don't believe everything you see on porn sites OP

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Within the realm of kink, it can be fun

Obviously people tend to take things too literally on here and think a free use kink means you can start using them as they are driving on the motorway and cause an accident, or other weird examples

As with all kinks, there’s a level of nuance that many on this forum choose to ignore for the sake of disagreeing

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By *parkle1974Woman
44 weeks ago

Leeds

I'd never want anyone to be available just because I was in the mood as I wouldn't want the same expectation placed on me.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
44 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"I find it an odd one, and not something I'd agree to.

If my partner is in the mood and I'm not, and they want to rely on a free use agreement rather than actually excite me. I think I'd just leave

Well I think its geared to a different type of person. I don't think it's an agreement people make as such, it's wether you are that way inclined or not.

So for me for instance..

I don't think I've ever turned any of my partners down for sex, on a single occasion, whether im tired, stressed, feeling rough, if I don't feel horny at the time, I'm still always open to sex.

I'm not implying that you should have a partner that makes zero effort to get you in the mood and just expects sex.

All im saying is whatever partner I have there's never a no from me, regardless of how I feel, because as soon as there's some physical contact, I'm in the mood.

I didn't know if anyone else associates with this?

In terms of moods generally I'm pretty much never a no. But if I'm in a situation where I feel its inappropriate, or if I'm in the middle of processing something emotionally, I would not expect my partner to be trying it on with me to say no to.

At all appropriate times, I am available to my partners.

This is normal, not free use, no?

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