FabSwingers.com forum: Looked at me

By *ntrigued888 OP Woman
44 weeks ago

Beds

Do you use the feature or not?

When I first joined I didn't realise you could turn it off, so used to get alot more messages from people I looked at.

Only awkward part was if you wasn't interested in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I don’t want women to see that I look at them. They might be like ‘ew’ and block me

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By *naswingdressWoman
44 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't show on looked at me. When I first joined, I'd fat finger and end up on profiles, who'd then get mad that I didn't want to meet them.

I fumbled my phone dude, calm the fuck down.

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By *elix SightedMan
44 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I’m always in stealth mode. I never look at who’s looked at me because there’s no point. If they liked what they saw and wanted to interact, they’d have sent a message. If they didn’t, they weren’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

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Only awkward part was if you wasn't interested in the first place

You make me look at you, op. And I don’t have mine switched off…..

It’s not awkward for you, you look hot, and now I’m interested

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By *avexxMan
44 weeks ago

cheshire

tbh its not something thats really bothered me,,

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By *ntrigued888 OP Woman
44 weeks ago

Beds

Some days I get hundreds of looked at me and only a handful of messages.

Guess that's why we have preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I've mine turned off. It's a fairly useless feature.

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By *hunky GentMan
44 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'd happily swap 100 views per day for a couple of nice friendly messages.

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By *imply DeeWoman
44 weeks ago

Wherever

Mine is off (I think).

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By *reya73Woman
44 weeks ago

Whitley Bay

I'm stealth.

I'm a curious cat and there's not always a black and white reason why I'm perusing profiles. Sometimes curiosity, sometimes perving pics, sometimes reading veris and generally just having a flow about the site and it's humans.

If I wasn't stealth, those people might all think I'm fancying them and give a wrong impression.

I never bother with who looked at me. I forget to hotlist and I almost never reply. I forget to invite friends.

I'm a very bad fabber

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By *ogk9Man
44 weeks ago

worksop

I’ll look to see who’s viewed me. If they don’t send a wink or message assume they’re not interested.

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By *ogk9Man
44 weeks ago

worksop

"I'm stealth.

If I wasn't stealth, those people might all think I'm fancying them and give a wrong impression.

I never bother with who looked at me. I forget to hotlist and I almost never reply. I forget to invite friends.

I'm a very bad fabber

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By *ogk9Man
44 weeks ago

worksop

"I'm stealth.

If I wasn't stealth, those people might all think I'm fancying them and give a wrong impression.

I never bother with who looked at me. I forget to hotlist and I almost never reply. I forget to invite friends.

I'm a very bad fabber

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By *ogk9Man
44 weeks ago

worksop

Bad girl

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
44 weeks ago

Leeds

I've turned it off, the amount of messages because you looked drove me crazy - if I looked and didn't message or wink then I wasn't interested.

I'm unsure why people think just because you look you are interested in them, obviously you wouldn't know if you was until looking.

Mrs

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By *oppet22TV/TS
44 weeks ago

huddersfield

Yes i see who as looked at me

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Some days I get quite a few 'looked at me' and some days zero.

Doesnt really bother me tbh, if they look and are interested then they'll either wink or message.

I don't chase up 'looked at' as there's no point unless they follow it up.

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By *ogk9Man
44 weeks ago

worksop

"Some days I get quite a few 'looked at me' and some days zero.

Doesnt really bother me tbh, if they look and are interested then they'll either wink or message.

I don't chase up 'looked at' as there's no point unless they follow it up."
ditto

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By *ogk9Man
44 weeks ago

worksop

A hell of a lot of straight men look at me ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I never show on looked at me....I'd come across as a Stalker on some profiles if I did....

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By *ogk9Man
44 weeks ago

worksop

"I never show on looked at me....I'd come across as a Stalker on some profiles if I did....

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By *TG3Man
44 weeks ago

Dorchester

Yes i use it

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
44 weeks ago

IPSWICH

I flirt with ninja mode occasionally but generally I'm visible. As for who's looked at me generally no one. Unless all my suitors are particularly stealthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I was so outraged that some couples looked at me when I'm not meeting couples that I turned it off. The audacity!

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
44 weeks ago

Inverness

We get multiple messages a day of people saying that we have looked, we don’t even remember looking and obviously weren’t interested. It can get quite awkward

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
44 weeks ago

Reading

I never ninja

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By *ogk9Man
44 weeks ago

worksop

"We get multiple messages a day of people saying that we have looked, we don’t even remember looking and obviously weren’t interested. It can get quite awkward

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all personal choice. I’ve no problems. Used to rejection maybe

lol

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By *eyond PurityCouple
44 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Look now and again but people will message if they wanted to chat so don’t really see the point.

Does become a little scary if someone’s looked loads during the day

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By *oss25Man
44 weeks ago

Flitwick and Fakenham

I’ve looked at you OP and fabbed your photos, a very sexy woman but I’m way outside your age pref so it’s just a way of showing appreciation.

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By *inkylipsWoman
44 weeks ago

Debauchery

I’ve turned that off as sometimes I just like to have a nose but people take it as an invitation that I’m interested

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By *ora the explorerWoman
44 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Mines always been turned off

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Can't see the point in it if I'm honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I can’t see at the moment nit being a site supporter but it doesn’t mean anything anyway. Someone checked out your profile?

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By *ogk9Man
44 weeks ago

worksop

"I’ve turned that off as sometimes I just like to have a nose but people take it as an invitation that I’m interested "
if interested they would message. I’m not in your preferences so I don’t Read profiles the thing

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By *he LsCouple
44 weeks ago

East Midlands

Ours is off at the minute, fabs for window shopping surely? Plus we would get loads of messages starting with "You looked at me" xx

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
44 weeks ago

Southampton

"I’m always in stealth mode. I never look at who’s looked at me because there’s no point. If they liked what they saw and wanted to interact, they’d have sent a message. If they didn’t, they weren’t. "

I have

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By *ife NinjaMan
44 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Ninja by name.....

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