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Casual Fun or Being Watched?

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By *edditch Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Redditch

I recently visited Xtasia and had some great fun with a cool lady, but as much as I was into it, I was very put off by seeing random heads watching us.

I realised, that though I am a swinger, I am not an exhibitionist.

I wondered how many of you were similar or is this something I need to get over?

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

If you’re not into it, you’re not into it. There are private rooms you can elope to

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Nope I'm a definite exhibitionist

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By *edditch Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Redditch

We did elope to them but at the top is a mirror effect so you can see all the guys outside watching you. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure I might visit a club one time, but generally and respectfully it's not for me. Too many humans in one place for me.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I'm sure I might visit a club one time, but generally and respectfully it's not for me. Too many humans in one place for me. "

I went once. Purely as I was so intrigued. Was interesting and not as bad as I thought it would be. Shan’t be returning in a rush though.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

The first time I was watched in a club room it was a huge turn on. Never done it since but definitely would again

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I think I'd like to watch... Definitely wouldn't want to be watched!

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

No issue being watched and hopefully have some extra guys invited to join in, limited experience in clubs but hope to expand this soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure I might visit a club one time, but generally and respectfully it's not for me. Too many humans in one place for me.

I went once. Purely as I was so intrigued. Was interesting and not as bad as I thought it would be. Shan’t be returning in a rush though. "

It's more to do with me disliking being in crowds, as I'm a little germaphobe. Not to germs, but to humans

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I am but i have partners who are not so i always use a private lockable room with them. I think you have to default to non watching if one of the people isn't into that.

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By *zeroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

In a room with the door closed and a viewing window yes. In a room with everyone standing nearby no.

I've had instances where the people standing by get too close or get grabby.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I'm sure I might visit a club one time, but generally and respectfully it's not for me. Too many humans in one place for me.

I went once. Purely as I was so intrigued. Was interesting and not as bad as I thought it would be. Shan’t be returning in a rush though.

It's more to do with me disliking being in crowds, as I'm a little germaphobe. Not to germs, but to humans "

Bet you’d love it in the hot tub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure I might visit a club one time, but generally and respectfully it's not for me. Too many humans in one place for me.

I went once. Purely as I was so intrigued. Was interesting and not as bad as I thought it would be. Shan’t be returning in a rush though.

It's more to do with me disliking being in crowds, as I'm a little germaphobe. Not to germs, but to humans

Bet you’d love it in the hot tub "

Oh Jesus, imagine the plethora of gut dropping from others in that thing

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Only ever been to a few clubs only because they seem impersonal. People watching doesn't bother me, you get the same with some couples, group settings or gangbangs. I've always preferred 1-2-1 as people are more relaxed, you can get more involved with each other and there's the basic idea of leaving when each other say so rather than upping an leaving as someone fancied someone else or started up an hour long chat

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