FabSwingers.com forum: Wanking and regular sex

By *wist my nipples OP Couple
44 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

When you're having regular sex, do you wank less?

Is your partner involved with the wanking?

Is this different for men and women?

Mrs TMN x

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By *ife NinjaMan
44 weeks ago

Dunfermline

No wanking with regular sex

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I guess it’s gonna be different between everyone regardless of our sex.

I tend to get horny more when I have a partner, or someone is in my head. And I want to do it with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

No not less.

I wank when I fancy I wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Men love a cheeky tactical wank

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By *amie HantsWoman
44 weeks ago

Atlantis

I would say I probably wank just as much but if there’s someone around more, I’ll just have an audience for it.

I don’t think having a wank is purely about being horny. I wank to kill time, to help fall asleep, because my hands are always in my pants and I can’t help myself sometimes

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By *wist my nipples OP Couple
44 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Men love a cheeky tactical wank "

#notallmen

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I completely stop if I’m in a committed relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"Men love a cheeky tactical wank

#notallmen"

God I LOVE that hashtag

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I completely stop if I’m in a committed relationship "

Cap of the day:^

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By *ittlebirdWoman
44 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I wank when I want to wank and fuck when I want to fuck. It’s all good by me

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By *ife NinjaMan
44 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Men love a cheeky tactical wank "

As you get older, the tactical wank is unnecessary

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By *weetiepie99Woman
44 weeks ago

cardiff

I'm not a wanker

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"Men love a cheeky tactical wank

As you get older, the tactical wank is unnecessary

You mean you just… last long?

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I wank when I want to wank and fuck when I want to fuck. It’s all good by me

Look at us! Snap

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By *ilverjagMan
44 weeks ago

swansea

50 50 really because, even when having regular sex I invariably cum first time inside, but then as I recover and we fuck like minx, until she is fully sated, I hold her close and wank so as she can see my second load cum just for her.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
44 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I wank when I want to wank and fuck when I want to fuck. It’s all good by me

Look at us! Snap

Are you fluttering your eyelashes at me?

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I wank when I want to wank and fuck when I want to fuck. It’s all good by me

Show off.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I wank when I want to wank and fuck when I want to fuck. It’s all good by me

Look at us! Snap

Are you fluttering your eyelashes at me?

Yes, I’m fluttering eyelashes

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
44 weeks ago

Hell

"I'm not a wanker"

I am. I had an unfortunate incident with the electrics in my house last year and had to use 2 extension cords to plug my doxy wand into a socket downstairs because all the upstairs ones were fucked. I did get the issue fixed after a few days but I couldn’t go a few days without a service

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By *ememberTheNameMan
44 weeks ago

barnsley

"When you're having regular sex, do you wank less?

Is your partner involved with the wanking?

Is this different for men and women?

Mrs TMN x"

I don’t get regular sex

So wanking is a must

If someone was willing to let me put my hot dog in their bun then possibly wouldn’t have to pump my own sauce

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By *ife NinjaMan
44 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Men love a cheeky tactical wank

As you get older, the tactical wank is unnecessary

You mean you just… last long?

Yep

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By *ittlebirdWoman
44 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I wank when I want to wank and fuck when I want to fuck. It’s all good by me

Show off.

Why is that showing off?

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By *ememberTheNameMan
44 weeks ago

barnsley

"I'm not a wanker

Problem solved house like spaghetti junction with wires but who cares you got your O that’s all that matters

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
44 weeks ago

Inverness

Both of us fuck very regular but we also enjoy wanking, sometimes we wank together and sometimes on our own.

As long as the wank isn’t substituting the sex then there’s no problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"Men love a cheeky tactical wank

As you get older, the tactical wank is unnecessary

You mean you just… last long?

Yep

Can’t wait!

Anyway. I’m off to have my tactical

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I completely stop if I’m in a committed relationship

Cap of the day:^"

It’s the truth. I save myself for the person I love, because I know that wanking reduces my natural feelings that come from sexual energy

I think it’s disrespectful to have a girl im meant to love fully available to me, but choose to hurt myself with thoughts of other women

Wanking in those situations to me is inconsiderate. It’s greedy and she deserves more than that

But I think wanking and porn isn’t good for guts anyways so I have weird views on it

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By *ife NinjaMan
44 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Men love a cheeky tactical wank

As you get older, the tactical wank is unnecessary

You mean you just… last long?

Yep

Can’t wait!

Anyway. I’m off to have my tactical

Don't forget the lube. You don't want rough skin

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I completely stop if I’m in a committed relationship

Cap of the day:^

It’s the truth. I save myself for the person I love, because I know that wanking reduces my natural feelings that come from sexual energy

I think it’s disrespectful to have a girl im meant to love fully available to me, but choose to hurt myself with thoughts of other women

Wanking in those situations to me is inconsiderate. It’s greedy and she deserves more than that

But I think wanking and porn isn’t good for guts anyways so I have weird views on it "

So much to unpack here but it’s Sunday and I cba. So I’ll just say this:

Cap

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Regular sex I will abstain for because I love the feeling of desire and to hold onto it and the energy and let it loose with whoever I'm sleeping with. It depends on how regular and what point in my cycle I'm in though. At ovulation point I can be insatiable for example. If it's regular enough I will only do anything sexual with them and no one else if they are involved with me enough, it needs to be weekly at least, any longer and I'll give into myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Don’t knock it till you’ve tried it guys

If you seriously can’t no fap for a month just to see if it brings out extra passion in your relationship, you probably have an addiction.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"Don’t knock it till you’ve tried it guys

If you seriously can’t no fap for a month just to see if it brings out extra passion in your relationship, you probably have an addiction. "

Normalise people doing things because they want to and not diagnosing everyone on the internet

People don’t need to do some kind of experiment because you said it or anyone says it. When it becomes an addiction there are clear signs. People just enjoying pleasuring themselves is not that deep

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
44 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

More sex = more masturbation for me.

If I'm not having any, if no-one is exciting me, I've not got anything to masturbate to.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
44 weeks ago

Reading

I wank more. When I'm not having regular sex i tend to turn that side of me off. When I'm having regular especially when it's been add good as its been lately, i tend to do it more aa its now on my mind as i relive it.

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By *ick_man_88Man
44 weeks ago

hartlepool

Sex or no sex I always senf relif

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By *oubleswing2019Man
44 weeks ago

Colchester

More often than not, I can achieve a stronger orgasm via wanking than regular vanilla sex. And a stronger orgasm overall via kinky sex.

Kinky sex --- Best Orgasm

Wanking --- Second Best Orgasm

Vanilla Sex ---Scratches an itch, but that's all

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By *stellaWoman
44 weeks ago

London

I always have been and always will be a wanker regardless of my relationship status. It’s the one co start in my life, and I’m always there for me when I’m horny, no let downs.

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By *estYorkshireGentMan
44 weeks ago

Leeds

It depends really. Having regular sex increases my sex drive but I wouldn’t say I wank more. It’s probably about the same but I don’t on the days I’ve had sex for the most part.

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By *stellaWoman
44 weeks ago

London

"I always have been and always will be a wanker regardless of my relationship status. It’s the one co start in my life, and I’m always there for me when I’m horny, no let downs.

*comstant

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By *stellaWoman
44 weeks ago

London

"I always have been and always will be a wanker regardless of my relationship status. It’s the one co start in my life, and I’m always there for me when I’m horny, no let downs.

*comstant"

FFS *constant

Must stop wamking while typing!

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By *stellaWoman
44 weeks ago

London

"I always have been and always will be a wanker regardless of my relationship status. It’s the one co start in my life, and I’m always there for me when I’m horny, no let downs.

*comstant

FFS *constant

Must stop wamking while typing!"

WAMKING?!!

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By *hriscooperMan
44 weeks ago

Warrington

I definitely don't wank as much if I'm having regular sex.

Sex once a week, I still wank a couple of times a week maybe.

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By *ea monkeyMan
44 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

It depends on the day and situation. Sometimes after a heavy intense session I will wank, others I won’t for days and not realise. It’s no reflection on the person or the interaction, just how I’m feeling.

Ultimately, masturbation isn’t a bad thing and it’s not dirty or a reflection of feelings for a partner. It’s about releasing and maintaining endorphins, connecting with your own body and if you choose; a partner too

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I always have been and always will be a wanker regardless of my relationship status. It’s the one co start in my life, and I’m always there for me when I’m horny, no let downs.

*comstant

FFS *constant

Must stop wamking while typing!

WAMKING?!!

You're hilarious, would you like the typos crown from my head?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
44 weeks ago

Leeds

I've lost my wanking mojo I can't remember the last time I had a wank alone, no idea why.

If I do it's usually while watching the Mr do the same otherwise I've no interest in it, it's not just when the sex is regular too even on a dry week I still don't get the urge.

Mrs

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By *stellaWoman
44 weeks ago

London

"I always have been and always will be a wanker regardless of my relationship status. It’s the one co start in my life, and I’m always there for me when I’m horny, no let downs.

*comstant

FFS *constant

Must stop wamking while typing!

WAMKING?!!

You're hilarious, would you like the typos crown from my head?"

Please. That was a truly horrific car crash of a post!

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"More often than not, I can achieve a stronger orgasm via wanking than regular vanilla sex. And a stronger orgasm overall via kinky sex.

Passionate sensual sex. —- best

Kinky sex --- Best Orgasm

Wanking --- Second Best Orgasm

Vanilla Sex ---Scratches an itch, but that's all

Passionate sensual sex. —- Best.

Kinky sex --- second Best Orgasm

Wanking --- Empty orgasm, if I can even call it one.

Vanilla Sex --- nothing is vanilla anymore.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
44 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I always have been and always will be a wanker regardless of my relationship status. It’s the one co start in my life, and I’m always there for me when I’m horny, no let downs.

*comstant

FFS *constant

Must stop wamking while typing!

WAMKING?!!

You're hilarious, would you like the typos crown from my head?

Please. That was a truly horrific car crash of a post! "

It really wasn’t. It was utterly brilliant

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By *stellaWoman
44 weeks ago

London

"I always have been and always will be a wanker regardless of my relationship status. It’s the one co start in my life, and I’m always there for me when I’m horny, no let downs.

*comstant

FFS *constant

Must stop wamking while typing!

WAMKING?!!

You're hilarious, would you like the typos crown from my head?

Please. That was a truly horrific car crash of a post!

It really wasn’t. It was utterly brilliant

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By *d4fun73Man
44 weeks ago

Shipley

"When you're having regular sex, do you wank less?

Is your partner involved with the wanking?

Is this different for men and women?

Mrs TMN x"

What's regular sex?!

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By *ad NannaWoman
44 weeks ago

East London

I don't masturbate, regardless of how much sex I'm having.

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By *wist my nipples OP Couple
44 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"More sex = more masturbation for me.

If I'm not having any, if no-one is exciting me, I've not got anything to masturbate to."

This chimes with me. The more I have, the more I want.

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By *wist my nipples OP Couple
44 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Don’t knock it till you’ve tried it guys

If you seriously can’t no fap for a month just to see if it brings out extra passion in your relationship, you probably have an addiction. "

I find the opposite is true. If I'm not in a sexual headspace, I just don't. If I'm having lots of sex, I'm likely to wank more. I don't have a finite amount of sexual desire that can get used up or wasted by wanking rather with a partner.

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By *wist my nipples OP Couple
44 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I always have been and always will be a wanker regardless of my relationship status. It’s the one co start in my life, and I’m always there for me when I’m horny, no let downs.

*comstant

FFS *constant

Must stop wamking while typing!

WAMKING?!!

Actual snorting here. WAMKING

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By *wist my nipples OP Couple
44 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"It depends on the day and situation. Sometimes after a heavy intense session I will wank, others I won’t for days and not realise. It’s no reflection on the person or the interaction, just how I’m feeling.

Yes, this sounds like me too! Sometimes if there's lots going on in the rest if life it just goes on hold for me. It's very much related to my hormonal cycle too, much more so these past few years than ever before.

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By *wist my nipples OP Couple
44 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I have a friend whose partner gets annoyed if she has a wank cos she could have been shagging him. I don't get it. To me they are two totally different things; connecting with a partner or connecting with yourself. It's been really interesting getting different takes on it, thanks all.

Mrs TMN x

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