FabSwingers.com forum: Is having no sex after 7 month dating normal?

By *hagTonight OP Man
44 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I watched liar liar yesterday and it was very fun, there was a scene in the movie where jim asked his wife if she had sex with her new partner? She said no, not yet, it have just been 7 months.

I was just as surprised as jim was, when she said that it is not a rush, although having said that. I agree with her that it is nothing one need to rush into even when first starting dating if they dont the connection with them yet.

What is your view about it, is it normal to not to have sex when dating in the beginning? Is there a time period where you feel you should have sex or not?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
44 weeks ago

Reading

Is very normal for demi sexuals and people work low libido. It wouldn't happen to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

It's time to move on. Much earlier than seven months.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

It’s a film…….it’s not real….

I’m sure there’s lots of relationships that started off slow, and I reckon the people involved alright with it, or they wouldn’t stick around.

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By *a LunaWoman
44 weeks ago

South Wales

7 months?!?!?!?!

7 minutes and their y-fronts are off

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By *stwo2023Couple
44 weeks ago

Worcester

It would depend on how many times they have seen each other in that 7 months I guess.

Plus sex isn't as important for a lot of people. I reckon you'll get a slightly biased opinion on here lol

Evie

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By *hrimper36Couple
44 weeks ago

Central France dept 36

Shag it’s so sweet that your view on life seems to be through movies tv videos and coach Greg..

I’d wait at least two days.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
44 weeks ago

In the clouds

Wouldn't know..don't usually make it to 7 months

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"7 months?!?!?!?!

7 minutes and their y-fronts are off

This is why I don’t wear undies…. I can save you valuable seconds

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By *a LunaWoman
44 weeks ago

South Wales

"7 months?!?!?!?!

7 minutes and their y-fronts are off

This is why I don’t wear undies…. I can save you valuable seconds

good man!

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By *pandjMan
44 weeks ago

Sparkford

Dating Is usually a first date in public then you usually get asked over theirs for the second.

I did date a Christian for 18 months with no sex but she would dry hump me to her clitoral orgasm. Lovely girl and a busty redhead which is what I love. She was very much a unicorn chaser dating wise and I had enough of the ever changing goal posts and hoops I felt like I was jumping through. Reckon she's still a virgin at 42 as well.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
44 weeks ago

Southampton

"7 months?!?!?!?!

7 minutes and their y-fronts are off

This is why I don’t wear undies…. I can save you valuable seconds

Oh !

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Jeez 7 months?

If we don’t fuck by the 3rd date I’m out. Can’t be that interested

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
44 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

It's very usual for people to wait sometime before having sex especially if they are looking for a marriage partner and intend on having children.

One of the reasons that youngsters think they HAVE to have sex is this idea that there must be something wrong with you if you don't. That and the fact that society sells you sex sex sex all the time and that's only so they can capitalise on your needs.

I tend to think that people who say ...... well if we haven't fucked in the first week I get outta there , just PROVE that they have no interest in the PERSON just the sex and that's fine but takes me back full circle to the idea that people wanting something meaningful are seeking someone who values THEM and not just a regular fanny

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
44 weeks ago

Leeds

I've had relationships I haven't had sex for a while probably 4-6 months before doing the deed, it's not the most important thing in a relationship.

Mrs

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By *adCherriesCouple
44 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

When we met we waited before sex. It was important that we got to know each other and build trust. It was actually the longest 22 minutes of our lives. If I could go back in time I definitely wouldn't have waited that long

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
44 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"When we met we waited before sex. It was important that we got to know each other and build trust. It was actually the longest 22 minutes of our lives. If I could go back in time I definitely wouldn't have waited that long

ffs

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By *edditch ManMan
44 weeks ago

Redditch

If you are going to make someone wait seven months, then you better bring your A-Game when you do it.

Imagine the anticipation. I would be expecting a gold lined pussy and beer flavoured tits

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By *ellinever70Woman
44 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"If you are going to make someone wait seven months, then you better bring your A-Game when you do it.

Imagine the anticipation. I would be expecting a gold lined pussy and beer flavoured tits "

Is pussy just the prize?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
44 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"Dating Is usually a first date in public then you usually get asked over theirs for the second.

A Christian you say ....... wasn't she a woman first and foremost ?

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By *pandjMan
44 weeks ago

Sparkford

"Dating Is usually a first date in public then you usually get asked over theirs for the second.

A Christian you say ....... wasn't she a woman first and foremost ?"

Well yeah. What's your point?

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

You gotta wait 90 days minimum

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By *rispyDuckMan
44 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"I watched liar liar yesterday and it was very fun, there was a scene in the movie where jim asked his wife if she had sex with her new partner? She said no, not yet, it have just been 7 months.

What is your view about it, is it normal to not to have sex when dating in the beginning? Is there a time period where you feel you should have sex or not?

Could be normal in the vanilla world, or she was just lying to protect his feelings lol

If dating someone & you not done it in 7months I would guess:

1) one of you is getting sex somewhere else

2) might be waiting for marriage

3) could be for religious/cultural/ medical reasons

4) someone has a very low sex drive & again other partner must be getting done somewhere else lol

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Try 22 months

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By *TG3Man
44 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Wouldn't know..don't usually make it to 7 months

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relationships or sex?

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
44 weeks ago

Hell

I can’t even make it to 7 dates never mind 7 months

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By *icecouple561Couple
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44 weeks ago

East Sussex

It depends what you mean by sex, I'm guessing the penetration bit. If I was dating someone for seven months before there was physical intimacy at all it would be a platonic relationship for all time unless there was a sudden drastic change. Going from nothing to full sex after 7 months would seem odd to me

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I can’t even make it to 7 dates never mind 7 months

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
44 weeks ago

Hell

"I can’t even make it to 7 dates never mind 7 months

Don’t laugh Pickles I’m being serious

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I can’t even make it to 7 dates never mind 7 months

Don’t laugh Pickles I’m being serious

Why yous laffin for,

I’m being serious! I’m being serious!

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I can’t even make it to 7 dates never mind 7 months

Don’t laugh Pickles I’m being serious

There’s no trick to it. It’s just luck I feel sadly

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
44 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

My wife and I dated 9 months before we had sex, worried that we were rushing it, and we were together 32 years.

It depends on the couple.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
44 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"Is very normal for demi sexuals and people work low libido. It wouldn't happen to me."
Yes, you are right there, it is normal for them too

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By *hagTonight OP Man
44 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"It’s a film…….it’s not real….

I’m sure there’s lots of relationships that started off slow, and I reckon the people involved alright with it, or they wouldn’t stick around.

"
Yes. I also think that some relationships starts of slow too

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By *erichol17Man
44 weeks ago

Liverpool

When you say sex it’s totally different from kissing touching fondling foreplay

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By *oss25Man
44 weeks ago

Flitwick and Fakenham

Film or otherwise if there isn’t an almost instant attraction then what’s the point in carrying on? Also if there is the attraction I’m not waiting 7 months to satisfy it!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
44 weeks ago

Central

Make your own normal.

I'd probably not be around after 7 months without action

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
44 weeks ago

Hell

"I can’t even make it to 7 dates never mind 7 months

Don’t laugh Pickles I’m being serious

Why yous laffin for,

I’m being serious! I’m being serious! "

I don’t do ifs buts or maybes… I do ABSOLUTES

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I can’t even make it to 7 dates never mind 7 months

Don’t laugh Pickles I’m being serious

Why yous laffin for,

I’m being serious! I’m being serious!

I don’t do ifs buts or maybes… I do ABSOLUTES

I thought I was too young for you

But you get me

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By *hagTonight OP Man
44 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"It would depend on how many times they have seen each other in that 7 months I guess.

Plus sex isn't as important for a lot of people. I reckon you'll get a slightly biased opinion on here lol

Evie "
Yes, you are right there, it would also depend on that, of how many times they have seen each other during those months and as well, as you say there, sex isnt as important to everyone, lol yes, it would be biased opinion here

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By *hagTonight OP Man
44 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
44 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"I've had relationships I haven't had sex for a while probably 4-6 months before doing the deed, it's not the most important thing in a relationship.

Mrs "
That is good and you are right there, sex is not the most important thing in a relationship

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By *ddie1966Man
44 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

"7 months?!?!?!?!

7 minutes and their y-fronts are off

This is why I don’t wear undies…. I can save you valuable seconds

Even faster if you wear a kilt.

I have 3 should something come up....

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By *hagTonight OP Man
44 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"It depends what you mean by sex, I'm guessing the penetration bit. If I was dating someone for seven months before there was physical intimacy at all it would be a platonic relationship for all time unless there was a sudden drastic change. Going from nothing to full sex after 7 months would seem odd to me"
Yes, it depends what they mean by sex too and I agree with you there, that it do seem odd as well

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By *uri00620Woman
44 weeks ago

Croydon

I prefer sex then dating. Most of my rships began this way including the one I'm in now. If it's dragged out the liklihood it's I'll just end up seeing them as friends.

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By *uckowskiMan
44 weeks ago

edinburgh

"7 months?!?!?!?!

7 minutes and their y-fronts are off

Wait...you're fucking men who wear y-fronts???

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
44 weeks ago

little house on the praire

In the old days they didn't live together before marriage let alone have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

In modern days if I haven’t laid them in seven hours, I get ghosted. Lo

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I watched liar liar yesterday and it was very fun, there was a scene in the movie where jim asked his wife if she had sex with her new partner? She said no, not yet, it have just been 7 months.

What is your view about it, is it normal to not to have sex when dating in the beginning? Is there a time period where you feel you should have sex or not?

Fab rule of thumb.. Never get under her thumb

Fab is a factory for hens and stags to mate.. Sex might help feeling faithful

Not tried liar liar sex

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I watched liar liar yesterday and it was very fun, there was a scene in the movie where jim asked his wife if she had sex with her new partner? She said no, not yet, it have just been 7 months.

What is your view about it, is it normal to not to have sex when dating in the beginning? Is there a time period where you feel you should have sex or not?

Fab rule of thumb.. Never get under her thumb

Fab is a factory for hens and stags to mate.. Sex might help feeling faithful

Not tried liar liar sex

Or as Sally said.. The sex part gets in the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"7 months?!?!?!?!

7 minutes and their y-fronts are off

Wait...you're fucking men who wear y-fronts???

You not seen the fab Y front club

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"In the old days they didn't live together before marriage let alone have sex"

Modern day they live together fuck each other have babies before marriage

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By *uckowskiMan
44 weeks ago

edinburgh

"7 months?!?!?!?!

7 minutes and their y-fronts are off

Wait...you're fucking men who wear y-fronts???

You not seen the fab Y front club "

They have a club???

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By *eyond PurityCouple
44 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I'd need to know - or friend zoned.

Imagine waiting that long, then finding out you're not compatible in that way

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By *oshnbex30Couple
44 weeks ago

yorkshire

We waited a year before having sex was well worth the wait

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

7 months?!! I didn't even wait 7 hours

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By *hagTonight OP Man
44 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"I watched liar liar yesterday and it was very fun, there was a scene in the movie where jim asked his wife if she had sex with her new partner? She said no, not yet, it have just been 7 months.

What is your view about it, is it normal to not to have sex when dating in the beginning? Is there a time period where you feel you should have sex or not?

Fab rule of thumb.. Never get under her thumb

Fab is a factory for hens and stags to mate.. Sex might help feeling faithful

Not tried liar liar sex

Or as Sally said.. The sex part gets in the way. "
Hi becs and yes, you are right there, sex might help feeling faithful too

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
44 weeks ago

Leeds

Depends how picky you are.

The mr

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