FabSwingers.com forum: I'm looking at you 0.o

By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

Do you ever message people you like the look of that looked at your profile but did nothing else?

I've kinda stopped messaging people that don't show me any interest first now for obvious reasons.

But if someone just looked at your profile, would you message them? Or would you think "nah, if they were interested they would of messaged/winked/fabbed"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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44 weeks ago

East Sussex

I always assume they'd message or at least wink if they were interested. Sometimes someone will fab nearly all of our pictures but make no contact

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By *illy IdolMan
44 weeks ago

Midlands

Leave it. If you notice they keep looking then maybe shoot your shot

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By *aizyWoman
44 weeks ago

west midlands

No, if someone just looks at my profile I assume they looked and weren't interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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44 weeks ago

East Sussex

The reason so many women and couples have 'don't show on who's looked at me' enabled is to stop people from messaging to say "I see you looked, want to meet?"

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
44 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Nah.

If they didn't reach out, they're not interested enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I always assume they'd message or at least wink if they were interested. Sometimes someone will fab nearly all of our pictures but make no contact"

Sometimes we can’t message because we are filtered out

I would if I could etc

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By *offiaCoolWoman
44 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

"The reason so many women and couples have 'don't show on who's looked at me' enabled is to stop people from messaging to say "I see you looked, want to meet?""

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By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

"The reason so many women and couples have 'don't show on who's looked at me' enabled is to stop people from messaging to say "I see you looked, want to meet?""

This Is my thought, and tbf, this person is new, probably doesnt realise that and God help them

I'll sit in my little corner ignoring the "looked at you" section

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I never look at who's looked at me.

I don't see any point in it.

Am I missing something?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

"I never look at who's looked at me.

I don't see any point in it.

Am I missing something?"

Just fellas getting false hope

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By *icecouple561Couple
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44 weeks ago

East Sussex

"The reason so many women and couples have 'don't show on who's looked at me' enabled is to stop people from messaging to say "I see you looked, want to meet?"

This Is my thought, and tbf, this person is new, probably doesnt realise that and God help them

I'll sit in my little corner ignoring the "looked at you" section

Oh lord! Hope they find the setting soon

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By *affron40Woman
44 weeks ago

manchester

I’ve no idea who looked at me so no

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

"I’ve no idea who looked at me so no

You should check your views ….

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By *icecouple561Couple
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44 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I always assume they'd message or at least wink if they were interested. Sometimes someone will fab nearly all of our pictures but make no contact

Sometimes we can’t message because we are filtered out

I would if I could etc"

I hadn't considered that, good point

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By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

"The reason so many women and couples have 'don't show on who's looked at me' enabled is to stop people from messaging to say "I see you looked, want to meet?"

This Is my thought, and tbf, this person is new, probably doesnt realise that and God help them

I'll sit in my little corner ignoring the "looked at you" section

Oh lord! Hope they find the setting soon

Sooooomebody seeeeeend heeeeeeelp!

Can they turn the setting of if they arnt premium?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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44 weeks ago

East Sussex

"The reason so many women and couples have 'don't show on who's looked at me' enabled is to stop people from messaging to say "I see you looked, want to meet?"

This Is my thought, and tbf, this person is new, probably doesnt realise that and God help them

I'll sit in my little corner ignoring the "looked at you" section

Oh lord! Hope they find the setting soon

Sooooomebody seeeeeend heeeeeeelp!

Can they turn the setting of if they arnt premium?"

I honestly don't know

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By *mf123Man
44 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Im here if im needed otherwise i dont message pretty much anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
44 weeks ago

"The reason so many women and couples have 'don't show on who's looked at me' enabled is to stop people from messaging to say "I see you looked, want to meet?"

This Is my thought, and tbf, this person is new, probably doesnt realise that and God help them

I'll sit in my little corner ignoring the "looked at you" section

Oh lord! Hope they find the setting soon

Sooooomebody seeeeeend heeeeeeelp!

Can they turn the setting of if they arnt premium?

I honestly don't know"

Maybe that's the move.

"Hello mate, just trying to be a friendly nice guy who's only messaging you because I'm a nice guy that's looking out for your best interests, don't worry I'm definitely not trying to bang you but sincerely want to let you know that looking at people's profiles will have tonnes of guys (which I'm definitely not trying to do you can trust me) hitting you up, if you just go to privacy settings..."

"Anyways, if you ever need any friendly advice again just message me, or here's my phone number, house phone, fb, insta, x, and I bought a pager to just to try and be helpful"

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By *oJo pornstarMan
44 weeks ago

Liverpool

Couples and females have the power and choice for the majority of "males to meet" on here, I very very rarely message 1st, I let them decide then take it from there.

Witch is why I do to much wanking of late

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
44 weeks ago

little house on the praire

The reason most people are in hidden mode is to stop people messaging them just because they looked at their profile

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By *agnar73Man
44 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"The reason most people are in hidden mode is to stop people messaging them just because they looked at their profile"

True but when you know that and someone looks in visible mode, is that a sign of interest, as they could just stay in stealth mode.

At times I wonder about that and then think is she or isn’t she.

With newbies I’ve messaged to say where the hide/unhide. Button is

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