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By *artin67 OP   Man
over a year ago

Canterbury

What to do

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By *stwo2023Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Talk to her

Evie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top up with water

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By *ortney CocksWoman
over a year ago

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Perhaps she found out your on here

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By *artin67 OP   Man
over a year ago

Canterbury

We have spoke and she is going drs

But i am climbing the walls here

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By *artin67 OP   Man
over a year ago

Canterbury

Nooooooooo

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By *artin67 OP   Man
over a year ago

Canterbury

Lol

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Nooooooooo"

OP. If you press reply+quote we will know who you’re replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be menapause related....lots lose their libido when menapausal....Hrt could help if that's the case

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Help her get back on track or give her the freedom to sort herself out

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By *stwo2023Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"We have spoke and she is going drs

But i am climbing the walls here"

Perhaps you should also go to the dr's with her and get some compassion and understanding?

Evie

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"We have spoke and she is going drs

But i am climbing the walls here

Perhaps you should also go to the dr's with her and get some compassion and understanding?

Evie "

This would be a good option, support for something which if it's a medical issue she will need..

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Off the boil? I've no idea what that means, of it's lack of coffee then it sounds serious?!

Mrs

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Urn?

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

This is an 'LTB' situation!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Find out why.

Address situation if possible.

Decide on the way forward from there

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What to do "
put her back in the pan and turn the heat up

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By *artin67 OP   Man
over a year ago

Canterbury


"We have spoke and she is going drs

But i am climbing the walls here

Perhaps you should also go to the dr's with her and get some compassion and understanding?

Evie "

i always go with her.

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By *artin67 OP   Man
over a year ago

Canterbury


"Find out why.

Address situation if possible.

Decide on the way forward from there "

she needs hrt and we are going drs together

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Find out why.

Address situation if possible.

Decide on the way forward from there she needs hrt and we are going drs together"

How do you know she needs HRT?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Top up with water "

And turn the heat up again

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *artin67 OP   Man
over a year ago

Canterbury


"Find out why.

Address situation if possible.

Decide on the way forward from there she needs hrt and we are going drs together

How do you know she needs HRT? "

a friend of ours is a dr and she spoke about this

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By *ellaboo400Couple
over a year ago

Gorebridge


"Find out why.

Address situation if possible.

Decide on the way forward from there she needs hrt and we are going drs together"

How do you know? Does she know you're on here? One thing that closed my legs was when my partner openly perved at other women (Mr K doesn't, that's why he gets to have all this fun because I feel secure and I know I'm number one)there could be a ton of reasons, usually men aren't getting any because they've pissed us off and we don't feel able to talk about it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Find out why.

Address situation if possible.

Decide on the way forward from there she needs hrt and we are going drs together

How do you know she needs HRT? a friend of ours is a dr and she spoke about this "

I see, that's lucky. Well good luck to both of you

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Take her to cex and exchange her

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell


"Find out why.

Address situation if possible.

Decide on the way forward from there she needs hrt and we are going drs together

How do you know? Does she know you're on here? One thing that closed my legs was when my partner openly perved at other women (Mr K doesn't, that's why he gets to have all this fun because I feel secure and I know I'm number one)there could be a ton of reasons, usually men aren't getting any because they've pissed us off and we don't feel able to talk about it "

Nail. Head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been here over two years. Has she just suddenly gone off the boil?

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"she needs hrt and we are going drs together"

HTR is not some magical cure for when relationships fall apart.

Wife of the boil? (Whatever it means) Give her HTR!

Husband not happy? Wife needs HTR!

Address issues within your relationship first and either fix it, or let her go.

But if indeed, she’s going though peri menopause or menopause, it’s when she needs all the support, HTR included, but other things addressed first.

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By *artin67 OP   Man
over a year ago

Canterbury


"You've been here over two years. Has she just suddenly gone off the boil? "
lol no i have been patient, and by her side as she had a few health issues

She has given me permission to play .

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Cook another one.

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By *artin67 OP   Man
over a year ago

Canterbury


"she needs hrt and we are going drs together

HTR is not some magical cure for when relationships fall apart.

Wife of the boil? (Whatever it means) Give her HTR!

Husband not happy? Wife needs HTR!

Address issues within your relationship first and either fix it, or let her go.

But if indeed, she’s going though peri menopause or menopause, it’s when she needs all the support, HTR included, but other things addressed first."

what makes you think we have issues, we are very happy , just not in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find out why.

Address situation if possible.

Decide on the way forward from there she needs hrt and we are going drs together

How do you know? Does she know you're on here? One thing that closed my legs was when my partner openly perved at other women (Mr K doesn't, that's why he gets to have all this fun because I feel secure and I know I'm number one)there could be a ton of reasons, usually men aren't getting any because they've pissed us off and we don't feel able to talk about it "

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"she needs hrt and we are going drs together

HTR is not some magical cure for when relationships fall apart.

Wife of the boil? (Whatever it means) Give her HTR!

Husband not happy? Wife needs HTR!

Address issues within your relationship first and either fix it, or let her go.

But if indeed, she’s going though peri menopause or menopause, it’s when she needs all the support, HTR included, but other things addressed first. what makes you think we have issues, we are very happy , just not in the bedroom"

That’s fantastic to hear OP. I wish you luck in resolving the bedroom issue meanwhile.

My comment was a general observation rather than aimed at you so I apologise if it came across like that.

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By *wo for luckCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Perhaps she needs to swing?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"We have spoke and she is going drs

But i am climbing the walls here

Perhaps you should also go to the dr's with her and get some compassion and understanding?

Evie "

Can they prescribe that? lol

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By *artin67 OP   Man
over a year ago

Canterbury


"she needs hrt and we are going drs together

HTR is not some magical cure for when relationships fall apart.

Wife of the boil? (Whatever it means) Give her HTR!

Husband not happy? Wife needs HTR!

Address issues within your relationship first and either fix it, or let her go.

But if indeed, she’s going though peri menopause or menopause, it’s when she needs all the support, HTR included, but other things addressed first. what makes you think we have issues, we are very happy , just not in the bedroom

That’s fantastic to hear OP. I wish you luck in resolving the bedroom issue meanwhile.

My comment was a general observation rather than aimed at you so I apologise if it came across like that. "

no probs xx

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'm afraid once they lose interest in having sex with you their is no coming back i guess live with it or move on

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice


"she needs hrt and we are going drs together

HTR is not some magical cure for when relationships fall apart.

Wife of the boil? (Whatever it means) Give her HTR!

Husband not happy? Wife needs HTR!

Address issues within your relationship first and either fix it, or let her go.

But if indeed, she’s going though peri menopause or menopause, it’s when she needs all the support, HTR included, but other things addressed first."

Totally agree! I go through phases with my libido. I can go 2/3 months with absolutely no interest. HRT didn’t agree with me, the best thing was that hubby and I talked it through. He didn’t give me pressure, he didn’t meet off here either. He increased the affection he was already giving me and instead of sex we laid in bed snuggled up naked and talked about all our lovely memories of everyday things. The more you make her aware there’s a problem the more she’s feel pressured and the less she’ll want sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put er in the bin innit.

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By *lam granWoman
over a year ago

falkirk

HRT won't solve the issue if the issue is you though.

I started it approx 6 weeks ago. Definitely back on the boil. But folk can still annoy the fuck out of me. Wee bit of oestrogen doesn't mean we're all kicking about Aldi like a Disney princess and wanting boabie 24/7.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Find out why.

Address situation if possible.

Decide on the way forward from there she needs hrt and we are going drs together

How do you know? Does she know you're on here? One thing that closed my legs was when my partner openly perved at other women (Mr K doesn't, that's why he gets to have all this fun because I feel secure and I know I'm number one)there could be a ton of reasons, usually men aren't getting any because they've pissed us off and we don't feel able to talk about it

Nail. Head. "

Yep this, all this!

We know when attention is elsewhere & it doesn't make us want to drop our knickers, quite the opposite, not just the sex but mentally destroying our confidence along the way.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it’s just you she’s “off the boil” with OP.

Could she be simmering elsewhere?

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By *ellaboo400Couple
over a year ago

Gorebridge


"Find out why.

Address situation if possible.

Decide on the way forward from there she needs hrt and we are going drs together

How do you know? Does she know you're on here? One thing that closed my legs was when my partner openly perved at other women (Mr K doesn't, that's why he gets to have all this fun because I feel secure and I know I'm number one)there could be a ton of reasons, usually men aren't getting any because they've pissed us off and we don't feel able to talk about it

Nail. Head.

Yep this, all this!

We know when attention is elsewhere & it doesn't make us want to drop our knickers, quite the opposite, not just the sex but mentally destroying our confidence along the way.

Mrs "

Absolutely, it's a slippery slope

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

If she's off the boil then pop her in the oven at gas mark 5 for several hours, basting frequently. If that doesn't warm 'er up I don't know what will

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"If she's off the boil then pop her in the oven at gas mark 5 for several hours, basting frequently. If that doesn't warm 'er up I don't know what will "

Microwave. Never fails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprise your wife tell going out to dinner and if she doesn't , say good take away tell her you want to support her .

Oh if you can gi to Dr's with her

Wish you all the best to you both

Xx

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