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"Sorry to hear that OP, January seems to be a bit of a shit month for most coming off a Christmas break with added finical stresses as well. Add to that the fact it's still pretty miserable on the weather front and it's very easy to feel down. I really don't think I'm qualified to give advice, but I hope things take a turn for the better soon ![]() The haze is lifting thankfully | |||
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"Does anyone else find December and January the hardest months to deal with? I’m just coming out of a mini-breakdown that literally last about 6 weeks. Think I need to move every winter to a sunnier climate! " I do... utterly hate the long cold dark days ...Hope you’re feeling better soon x | |||
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"I love December. But I’ve never liked Jan and feb. Roll on March ![]() When the clocks change in March I’m on top of the world x | |||
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"I love December. But I’ve never liked Jan and feb. Roll on March ![]() Makes such a difference doesn’t it! | |||
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"There’s a lot to be said for sunshine for sure " Vit D for starters, although I do take a supplement | |||
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"There’s a lot to be said for sunshine for sure Vit D for starters, although I do take a supplement " Have you tried the uv face lamps? | |||
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"I love December. But I’ve never liked Jan and feb. Roll on March ![]() It really does! Especially combined with some warmer weather x | |||
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"There’s a lot to be said for sunshine for sure Vit D for starters, although I do take a supplement Have you tried the uv face lamps?" I haven’t but maybe I should purchase one for next winter x | |||
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"I love December. But I’ve never liked Jan and feb. Roll on March ![]() Not long! We’ll be there soon! ![]() | |||
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"There’s a lot to be said for sunshine for sure Vit D for starters, although I do take a supplement Have you tried the uv face lamps? I haven’t but maybe I should purchase one for next winter x" They do seem to be highly recommended by people who have seasonal affective disorder | |||
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"It's when I can start to see daylight still when I finish work that I know the worst is over" My birthday is in April so by then it’s a much longer day of daylight | |||
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"Does anyone else find December and January the hardest months to deal with? I’m just coming out of a mini-breakdown that literally last about 6 weeks. Think I need to move every winter to a sunnier climate! " Same here, my depression gets a lot worse this time of year ![]() | |||
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"It's when I can start to see daylight still when I finish work that I know the worst is over My birthday is in April so by then it’s a much longer day of daylight" I'm March , I tend to feel less miserable by mid February, although that's not always true, my depression and anxiety can be a bit of a rollercoaster | |||
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"I seem to have crossed paths with lots of rude people on fab over the last 6 weeks which hasn’t helped….but I’m still here lol" I'm sorry to hear that, unfortunately there are some absolute idiots on here .. ![]() | |||
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"It's when I can start to see daylight still when I finish work that I know the worst is over My birthday is in April so by then it’s a much longer day of daylight I'm March , I tend to feel less miserable by mid February, although that's not always true, my depression and anxiety can be a bit of a rollercoaster" Well not long to go now. Let’s have a party haha | |||
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"I seem to have crossed paths with lots of rude people on fab over the last 6 weeks which hasn’t helped….but I’m still here lol" One day at a time OP ![]() | |||
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"I seem to have crossed paths with lots of rude people on fab over the last 6 weeks which hasn’t helped….but I’m still here lol I'm sorry to hear that, unfortunately there are some absolute idiots on here .. ![]() There really is. It’s the people that start off friendly then change that I find harder to deal with tbh | |||
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"It's when I can start to see daylight still when I finish work that I know the worst is over My birthday is in April so by then it’s a much longer day of daylight I'm March , I tend to feel less miserable by mid February, although that's not always true, my depression and anxiety can be a bit of a rollercoaster Well not long to go now. Let’s have a party haha" Gets my vote lol | |||
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"I seem to have crossed paths with lots of rude people on fab over the last 6 weeks which hasn’t helped….but I’m still here lol" They’ll always be rude/strange people. Stick to the good uns. There’s a couple threads I’ve seen today and I keep saying do not comment Nora. Do NOT comment! ![]() | |||
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"I seem to have crossed paths with lots of rude people on fab over the last 6 weeks which hasn’t helped….but I’m still here lol One day at a time OP ![]() One short cold day at a time haha | |||
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"I seem to have crossed paths with lots of rude people on fab over the last 6 weeks which hasn’t helped….but I’m still here lol They’ll always be rude/strange people. Stick to the good uns. There’s a couple threads I’ve seen today and I keep saying do not comment Nora. Do NOT comment! ![]() Capture it in a jar and send it my way. Grey in London at the moment lol | |||
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"It's more to do with how the colder months effect me mentally, rather than physically. " But sometimes affecting you mentally has a knock on affect | |||
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"We both hate December and January so we went away for Christmas for the first time and it has made a real difference. Went to the Canary Islands. That bit of sun has made the winter a bit more bearable!" This is what I need to do I think | |||
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"It's when I can start to see daylight still when I finish work that I know the worst is over My birthday is in April so by then it’s a much longer day of daylight I'm March , I tend to feel less miserable by mid February, although that's not always true, my depression and anxiety can be a bit of a rollercoaster Well not long to go now. Let’s have a party haha Gets my vote lol" Perfect! Mine or yours? ![]() | |||
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"It's when I can start to see daylight still when I finish work that I know the worst is over My birthday is in April so by then it’s a much longer day of daylight I'm March , I tend to feel less miserable by mid February, although that's not always true, my depression and anxiety can be a bit of a rollercoaster Well not long to go now. Let’s have a party haha Gets my vote lol Perfect! Mine or yours? ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Oh I do love a good pub. Deal ![]() Excellent | |||
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"It's more to do with how the colder months effect me mentally, rather than physically. " I guess you can say that. I can't do the hobbies I enjoy because of the weather, so it leaves you with less to do, and more time for your brain to wonder, which in turn isn't good mentally, if you struggle with anxiety etc. | |||
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"It's more to do with how the colder months effect me mentally, rather than physically. I guess you can say that. I can't do the hobbies I enjoy because of the weather, so it leaves you with less to do, and more time for your brain to wonder, which in turn isn't good mentally, if you struggle with anxiety etc. " Time to ponder is what keeps me awake at night. Then I’m tired the next day and it snowballs | |||
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"I bought a SAD lamp. It’s helping no end ![]() I might get one, however I walk 10k a day so I do still get some daylight needing through my retinas | |||
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"I bought a SAD lamp. It’s helping no end ![]() Have you tried cheering it up ?? Lol , just kidding I'm glad it's helping xx | |||
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"I bought a SAD lamp. It’s helping no end ![]() Beaming not needing** | |||
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"I miss the warmth of the sunshine on my skin. " Yeah me too | |||
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"I bought a SAD lamp. It’s helping no end ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I bought a SAD lamp. It’s helping no end ![]() Only a little bit though. That’s why the SAD lamp works so well ![]() | |||
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"I miss the warmth of the sunshine on my skin. Yeah me too" Although this brings me to a word I love: Apricity means “the warmth of the sun in winter. | |||
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"I bought a SAD lamp. It’s helping no end ![]() ![]() I looked at the SAD lamps that wake you up gently in the morning. They appeal to me | |||
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"I miss the warmth of the sunshine on my skin. Yeah me too Although this brings me to a word I love: Apricity means “the warmth of the sun in winter." I’m impressed! Everyday is a school day ![]() | |||
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"I bought a SAD lamp. It’s helping no end ![]() ![]() They’re next on my wish list | |||
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"I bought a SAD lamp. It’s helping no end ![]() ![]() Let me know which one you’re thinking of x | |||
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"I bought a SAD lamp. It’s helping no end ![]() ![]() I will. I’ll DM you x | |||
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"Thanks Littlebird You’re very welcome ![]() White wine ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Thanks Littlebird You’re very welcome ![]() ![]() ![]() Only the best French… always ![]() | |||
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"Thanks Littlebird You’re very welcome ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Ok I’ll let you off then, a bottle for each of us though | |||
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"Thanks Littlebird You’re very welcome ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() A glass for me. Thank you ![]() | |||
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"Thanks Littlebird You’re very welcome ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh you have stopped drinking straight out of the bottle now? ![]() | |||
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"Thanks Littlebird You’re very welcome ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I never did. That wouldn’t be very ladylike now would it? ![]() | |||
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"I bought a SAD lamp. It’s helping no end ![]() ![]() Mwah x | |||
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"Get out for a walk, and go watch a sunset. That always helps me ![]() Walk 10k a day, every day lol | |||
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"I miss the warmth of the sunshine on my skin. Yeah me too Although this brings me to a word I love: Apricity means “the warmth of the sun in winter." Any more words for today? Lol | |||
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