FabSwingers.com forum: Muscles or dad bod?

By *ampshire lad XXX OP Man
over a year ago

Petersfield

Says it all in the title really but ladies what do you prefer?

The muscle?

The dad bod?

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

Out of just those two options? No other options available? Muscles for sure.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Dad bod but it's the person

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Thank God some ladies like the cuddly fellas

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By *ampshire lad XXX OP Man
over a year ago

Petersfield

Agreed ! I was just curious how you ladies felt on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based solely on aesthetics though, for me, I'd pick mum bod over gym bod for a woman, any day of the week.

But body will always be secondary to just being a good human being.

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By *ampshire lad XXX OP Man
over a year ago

Petersfield

"Out of just those two options? No other options available? Muscles for sure."

Well there’s there 50/50 I guess lol

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd go for more defined. Not a fan of big muscles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like slim to rugby build, so all of them. Depends on the person.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

its not just about the body,, but is nice to keep athletic

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By *ampshire lad XXX OP Man
over a year ago

Petersfield

"I like slim to rugby build, so all of them. Depends on the person."

On the money !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoever can throw me on the bed and have his wicked way with me

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I don't care what you look like - if you can make me laugh, hold a decent conversation and don't send me dick pics then I'm in.

Though I am a sucker for a more ample figure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love both, but all boils down to personality in the end

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Anybody want fat bod?

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"Anybody want fat bod?

I've just looked through your profile pics. You're not fat!

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Too slim to qualify as a dad bod, too y to qualify as a muscle guy... Whither the average bloke in today's superficial world?

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By *ralking69.Man
over a year ago

NN4

More Dadbod where

Any ladies like a dadbod

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By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby

I've got a six-pack, but I've lost the plasticky bit that keeps it all together

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Out of just those two options? No other options available?

Muscles for sure."

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If one can hear the wails of disappointment amongst the shrills, shrieks and the blood-curdling woes of lament, these are the sounds of discarded men who proudly carry their fatherly torsos and manly curves.

They are now drowning their sorrows, imbibing from the slender horns of an Antelope.

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By *eladeCouple
over a year ago

hull

I personally like both

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

Muscle

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I don’t have a preference. I like the person inside the body

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

One of each please

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Swanage

I like personality and looks

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

"Says it all in the title really but ladies what do you prefer?

The muscle?

The dad bod? "

I'm lucky to have both. The muscles are under the dad bod

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By *rust a TradieMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

My muscles are hiding under my winter blubber

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Rockin it

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By *nknownBadboy2022Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"I personally like both

Love it!!

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Love a dad bod. Extra points for hairiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both just depends on guy

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Says it all in the title really but ladies what do you prefer?

The muscle?

The dad bod? "

Could just normal middle age male body be an option?

Dad bod seems to imply big round the waist, beer belly etc.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

Not in your area

Muscles obviously, come on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this dad bod thing still a 'thing'

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

Some dads have muscles..

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

This dad bod thing baffles me does that mean because I'm a dad I'm supposed be have a belly? Imagine calling women who have had kids mom bod..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something someone’s worked really hard for vs something someone hasn’t

I’ll go for muscled

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Some dads have muscles..

Thank you !

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Couldn't care less

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"This dad bod thing baffles me does that mean because I'm a dad I'm supposed be have a belly? Imagine calling women who have had kids mom bod.. "

They do. And it's equally stupid.

I'm not a parent, so it shouldn't bother me as much as it does, but the Mum-tum/Dad-bod thing boils my piss.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Now this is, unfortunately we're face first, physique second.. Toned preferably in answer though

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I don't have a body type preference

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Too slim to qualify as a dad bod, too y to qualify as a muscle guy... Whither the average bloke in today's superficial world?"

There will be other threads for different body types I'm sure! I see lots of profiles ask for slim/average

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Is this dad bod thing still a 'thing'

I'll keep plugging it as long as women are still neatly tucked into porn categories based on their age, size and appearance

- Xeno

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"This dad bod thing baffles me does that mean because I'm a dad I'm supposed be have a belly? Imagine calling women who have had kids mom bod..

They do. And it's equally stupid.

I'm not a parent, so it shouldn't bother me as much as it does, but the Mum-tum/Dad-bod thing boils my piss."

Not quite boiling my piss but feel the same about MILF used referring to any vaguely attractive lady even when she may not even have kids. Friend of mine get really pissed off with that term as she was unable to have children but sees in it wide use even including clubs branding afternoon events MILF Club (like VA). She couldn't bring herself to go.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"This dad bod thing baffles me does that mean because I'm a dad I'm supposed be have a belly? Imagine calling women who have had kids mom bod..

They do. And it's equally stupid.

I'm not a parent, so it shouldn't bother me as much as it does, but the Mum-tum/Dad-bod thing boils my piss.

This!!!

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"This dad bod thing baffles me does that mean because I'm a dad I'm supposed be have a belly? Imagine calling women who have had kids mom bod..

They do. And it's equally stupid.

I'm not a parent, so it shouldn't bother me as much as it does, but the Mum-tum/Dad-bod thing boils my piss.

Yes, understandably. We can have a whole conversation about pro-natalism but I don't want to derail the thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This dad bod thing baffles me does that mean because I'm a dad I'm supposed be have a belly? Imagine calling women who have had kids mom bod..

They do. And it's equally stupid.

I'm not a parent, so it shouldn't bother me as much as it does, but the Mum-tum/Dad-bod thing boils my piss.

Yes, understandably. We can have a whole conversation about pro-natalism but I don't want to derail the thread!"

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Says it all in the title really but ladies what do you prefer?

The muscle?

The dad bod? "

It very much depends on the personality attached to said bod... I like guys with muscles and guys with dad bods,

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"This dad bod thing baffles me does that mean because I'm a dad I'm supposed be have a belly? Imagine calling women who have had kids mom bod..

They do. And it's equally stupid.

I'm not a parent, so it shouldn't bother me as much as it does, but the Mum-tum/Dad-bod thing boils my piss.

Yes, understandably. We can have a whole conversation about pro-natalism but I don't want to derail the thread!"

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"This dad bod thing baffles me does that mean because I'm a dad I'm supposed be have a belly? Imagine calling women who have had kids mom bod..

They do. And it's equally stupid.

I'm not a parent, so it shouldn't bother me as much as it does, but the Mum-tum/Dad-bod thing boils my piss.

Yes, understandably. We can have a whole conversation about pro-natalism but I don't want to derail the thread!"

It's too late

It's what Forum does best

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By *lam granWoman
over a year ago

falkirk

I can be attracted to either if he has a handsome face and is funny.

What I don't find attractive are the extremes, so very skinny, very overweight or extremely muscley over the top body builder types.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I dislike that mum bod and dad bod are used as complimentary terms to denote (sometimes) bodies that reflect lifestyle

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't get the whole dad bod thing, your body doesn't change when you become a dad?

It depends on the man, I'm not into huge muscles personally nor obesity on general appearance only however the right bloke would change my view on either of those.

So average/larger I guess is preferred.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get the whole dad bod thing, your body doesn't change when you become a dad?

It depends on the man, I'm not into huge muscles personally nor obesity on general appearance only however the right bloke would change my view on either of those.

So average/larger I guess is preferred.

Mrs "

I suppose it's to do with the new baby becoming the priority and therefore, less time to go the gym, less fussy about eating right etc. that can mean changes to a guy's body as well.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not bothered. I don’t like very fat and I don’t like very slim. That’s it really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way, I fucking hate this question. Let people like what they like and most of the people who will give an answer will probably say "dad bod" anyway so as not to appear shallow

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Lean and toned.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

It's the person for me... all well and good having the body of an adonis but if you have the personality of a lump of coal , forget it lol

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

dad bod always the winner seems that way

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

What if your a bit of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This dad bod thing baffles me does that mean because I'm a dad I'm supposed be have a belly? Imagine calling women who have had kids mom bod.. "

That’s actually a thing lol!

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By *aturefunswTV/TS
over a year ago

bristol

I prefer the whole thing x I like all shapes and sizes x the last 2 ladies I slept with were big but they were so lovely chatty sexy attractive funny you didn’t notice anything but them as a whole person x

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By *aturefunswTV/TS
over a year ago

bristol

On sites like this I have found the 6 pack gang quite vain arrogant and rude x but that might just be my experience

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

Whats a dad's bod??? - they haven't carried a child and had changes to their body.... unless they are seahorses?

Anyway I'm not a fan of ripped guys as it makes me feel insecure about my "mums bod" but can appreciate it, like fine art.

I just like normal ... by that I don't mean someone who might knock me out with their overhang when giving them head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly. A good man.

Then a strong bod please.

Padding is ok but he needs to be able to pick me up and throw me around without putting his back out, and have the stamina to keep up with me.

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