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By *lamdaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Have you had this fabbers?

Someone is hot, and they're into you. Great, good times ahead.

Only they're reallllly boring? Everything is super deep. Everything has to mean alot more than it does. Every little comment is deconstructed and there's no room for a light joke, or even then - if they get it, the reply is thus...

I find these situations incredibly tedious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hm... I may be one of those kinds lol. I do enjoy having a laugh and not taking things seriously, but I do looove those deep meaningful conversations too.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Have you had this fabbers?

Someone is hot, and they're into you. Great, good times ahead.

Only they're reallllly boring? Everything is super deep. Everything has to mean alot more than it does. Every little comment is deconstructed and there's no room for a light joke, or even then - if they get it, the reply is thus...

I find these situations incredibly tedious "

I think you called me boring once

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Maybe you're overthinking those situations and it's not that deep?

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis


"Maybe you're overthinking those situations and it's not that deep?"

Damnit!!!! I came to say this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds specific Bruce.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Maybe you're overthinking those situations and it's not that deep?

Damnit!!!! I came to say this. "

Great minds. Or we're both a bit cunty. Probably both.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis


"Maybe you're overthinking those situations and it's not that deep?

Damnit!!!! I came to say this.

Great minds. Or we're both a bit cunty. Probably both."

Updating my LinkedIn immediately to say that I have the same brain as you.

That’s what I’m taking from this anyway

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Or they're a conspiracy theorist and tell you all about them

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

It is obviously too much to ask to be both interesting And fuckable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes....I had a fwbs/bf who was so Borrrrrrring omg....He had a zero sense of humour & I mean ZERO.... Absolute Zero!!!!

It was so bad that the electric hot hot hot sparks that were initially there dimmed & vanished quickly....He was an absolute beaut but the guy never laughed or smiled....He was so serious all the time....

I had to finish with him cos of his absolute zero sense of humour....

I now do wonder did the guy have a personality disorder.... Cos there's no way a person could have an absolute zero sense of humour (& I'm not exaggerating).....

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By *lamdaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Maybe you're overthinking those situations and it's not that deep?"

Nope, I don't overthink. Seriously how is that not clear from what I'm like on here?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Absolutely!

Quite some time ago, thankfully. I really can't describe it without disintegrating into a quivering mess of disappointment. Her profile was full of mystique. On the outside she was like a glossy brochure, full of intrigue and heightened expectation. Inside she was all hyperbole and banality. The conversation flowed unremarkably but I held onto the titbits and morsels of frisson and half-decent chat that she offered like some indirect 'bread-crumbing' technique. We had shared interests but she wanted an explanation for every benign remark which had me reaching for the dictionary of eternal apologies and misunderstandings.

I genuinely thought this person would buck the trend and keep me enthused but her personal issues and drama made me want to reach for the cut-throat razor and slit my wrists, figuratively speaking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in this predicament now, got major ick and really tried but I just can’t anymore, I’m such a fun lighthearted person it’s draining.

I need to grow some balls and tell him it just ain’t gonna happen!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Just tell them you like partners to wear a ball gag. Problem solved.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

Yes

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

The word “incompatibility” comes to mind. I don’t think there’s anything more deeper to that.

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

Yes , was like getting blood from a stone sometime

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