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By *odelmaster OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby

Why why do so many peeps wade in sounding so defence so quickly...by the very nature of the site there allways be chancers and rude pushy types..but why are so many profiles saying no no no rather than what is possible hmmmm

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By *ot30scoupleCouple
over a year ago

Oxford, London

I know what you mean...it seems odd to list what you don't like and don't want rather than what you do want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they can. Its then up to others whether they choose to read it.

Why do so many ppl start threads moaning about what others do or don't do?

This site is meant to be personal to the users. We all join to fulfill the wants, kinks and desires we want not others.

Yes its about mutual attraction and chemistry for most of us but that doesn't take away the fact we are here for ourselves!

Just my opinion of course...

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Because it's their profile and they can...

But that said I love the line 'no timewasters or fakes' - because that's really gonna make 'em think twice isn't it?

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By *odelmaster OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby

Interesting you consider my comment a moan but you reply to my question with your opionion...

Lets see how being a little more upbeat can actually improve the site..

Personal choice all the way..but why do they have to be so down..


"Because they can. Its then up to others whether they choose to read it.

Why do so many ppl start threads moaning about what others do or don't do?

This site is meant to be personal to the users. We all join to fulfill the wants, kinks and desires we want not others.

Yes its about mutual attraction and chemistry for most of us but that doesn't take away the fact we are here for ourselves!

Just my opinion of course... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they can. Its then up to others whether they choose to read it.

Why do so many ppl start threads moaning about what others do or don't do?

This site is meant to be personal to the users. We all join to fulfill the wants, kinks and desires we want not others.

Yes its about mutual attraction and chemistry for most of us but that doesn't take away the fact we are here for ourselves!

Just my opinion of course... "

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

People can reply as they like as long as it's in the rules - you too OP of course

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By *odelmaster OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby

Very kind of you...but your post has nowt to do with my OP..

Now back to blunt shortshrift profiles..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't actually say YOU personally, I said "ppl"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some do sound a bit stuck up and unfriendly i agree.

i put a list of what i dont like because i got fed up with people asking me the same questions all the time.

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By *odelmaster OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby

Ty you for clarfication...

Still just spotted another new person laying down 3/4 no to 1/4 what they like..makes me question their intent and motive as being here


"I didn't actually say YOU personally, I said "ppl" "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why question others? Just concentrate on the ones you want to meet and by pass the ones you don't!

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By *odelmaster OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby

Ty Jangels..

I do...but having had experience of other forums and communities of interest I despair seeing how a minority can adveresly effect a group..thats the crux of my postings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it cos wimmin always sayz no innit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It only affects you if you let it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why question others? Just concentrate on the ones you want to meet and by pass the ones you don't!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why why do so many peeps wade in sounding so defence so quickly...by the very nature of the site there allways be chancers and rude pushy types..but why are so many profiles saying no no no rather than what is possible hmmmm"

Its really not hard to understand as they are looking to put off people who read and see the rant could be about them as well as putting off people who don't like ranty profiles. Ignorant non readers though will obviously miss it.

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

think ours is 50/50 of what we looking for + what we not into....

(susie)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think ours is 50/50 of what we looking for + what we not into....

(susie)"

I agree. that's how a profile should read. Its clear and precise

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian


"think ours is 50/50 of what we looking for + what we not into....

(susie)

I agree. that's how a profile should read. Its clear and precise "

Thank you X

(susie)

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By *odelmaster OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby


"think ours is 50/50 of what we looking for + what we not into....

(susie)"

cant see any ranty bits at all....

I mean people who just seem negative, down, stating in the main the things they dont like want...must be easier surely to be up polite etc, at what ever level people choose to use the site..coning out with negativity aint going to help em bless

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I think there is a difference between stating dislikes on a profile, and actual "ranty" profiles which sound like they were written after a bad day.

Of course, profiles are personal to those that have them, so i guess they can put whatever they want if they so wish. On the flip side, they'll attract a certain caliber of users who aren't put off by the angry sounding wall of text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think ours is 50/50 of what we looking for + what we not into....

(susie)

cant see any ranty bits at all....

I mean people who just seem negative, down, stating in the main the things they dont like want...must be easier surely to be up polite etc, at what ever level people choose to use the site..coning out with negativity aint going to help em bless"

I agree. Always best to be upbeat and positive. I guess if that works for them its all good. Profiles are personal to each user and there is a lot you can pick up about a person from them. Use them as your guide, and just pick out the ones that you feel good vibes from..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can be as negative / specific / ranting as they like because its their profile and their choice of what to write.

See, if someones profile reads like the 10 Commandments, is all 'Rah Rah Rah' or scans like a 2-Unlimited song* - well I just stop reading.

Its no ones loss - you cant mourn the loss of something you never had.

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*"No No, No No No No, No No No No, No No .....'

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian


"think ours is 50/50 of what we looking for + what we not into....

(susie)

cant see any ranty bits at all....

I mean people who just seem negative, down, stating in the main the things they dont like want...must be easier surely to be up polite etc, at what ever level people choose to use the site..coning out with negativity aint going to help em bless

I agree. Always best to be upbeat and positive. I guess if that works for them its all good. Profiles are personal to each user and there is a lot you can pick up about a person from them. Use them as your guide, and just pick out the ones that you feel good vibes from.."

agree,it's about finding likeminded ppl.....we use the Notebutton for fabsters who have a lot of negativ status updates,too!just in case....

(susie)

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Because they can. Its then up to others whether they choose to read it.

Why do so many ppl start threads moaning about what others do or don't do?

This site is meant to be personal to the users. We all join to fulfill the wants, kinks and desires we want not others.

Yes its about mutual attraction and chemistry for most of us but that doesn't take away the fact we are here for ourselves!

Just my opinion of course... "

No, we're not aloud individual choice, we have to follow the house format as dictated by the forum police!

Unbelievable some people on here!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think there is a difference between stating dislikes on a profile, and actual "ranty" profiles which sound like they were written after a bad day.

Of course, profiles are personal to those that have them, so i guess they can put whatever they want if they so wish. On the flip side, they'll attract a certain caliber of users who aren't put off by the angry sounding wall of text."

But isn't that the point?

Everyday you read of people unable to answer messages because they get thousands a day. You look at their profile and it's ambiguous and "ordinary".

I bet the ranty ones are designed to allow people to exclude themselves: win/win for everyone!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"Because they can. Its then up to others whether they choose to read it.

Why do so many ppl start threads moaning about what others do or don't do?

This site is meant to be personal to the users. We all join to fulfill the wants, kinks and desires we want not others.

Yes its about mutual attraction and chemistry for most of us but that doesn't take away the fact we are here for ourselves!

Just my opinion of course... "

This.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own and what counts as a time waster is that Someone who can't meet because of prior commitments just asking like

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"I think there is a difference between stating dislikes on a profile, and actual "ranty" profiles which sound like they were written after a bad day.

Of course, profiles are personal to those that have them, so i guess they can put whatever they want if they so wish. On the flip side, they'll attract a certain caliber of users who aren't put off by the angry sounding wall of text.

But isn't that the point?

Everyday you read of people unable to answer messages because they get thousands a day. You look at their profile and it's ambiguous and "ordinary".

I bet the ranty ones are designed to allow people to exclude themselves: win/win for everyone! "

True, i just think....scratch that, have seen exclusionary profiles that were written in a lighthearted manner. I got to smile at the sense of humour, and knew not to message them at the same time.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Very kind of you...but your post has nowt to do with my OP..

Now back to blunt shortshrift profiles.."

Yeah. ~Everyone keep on track......

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"Very kind of you...but your post has nowt to do with my OP..

Now back to blunt shortshrift profiles..

Yeah. ~Everyone keep on track......"

'Stand by your beds....you 'orrible little man'........

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Very kind of you...but your post has nowt to do with my OP..

Now back to blunt shortshrift profiles..

Yeah. ~Everyone keep on track......

'Stand by your beds....you 'orrible little man'........"

Nice ears! Is that a marshmallow ?

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