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Can you obsess over sex?!

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By *lamdaddy OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I mean if it's easy for you to get with people you consider very attractive, I imagine less so.

But for others, do you sometimes CRAVE sex with that hot person you know, to the point you get irritated about it?

Or do you have the (accurate in my opinion) mindset that as hot as sex can be, it's a fleeting moment and an orgasm?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Oh.

Sometimes there's very deep cravings for a person.

I love having those days of need

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Meh…sex is ok but not as amazing as radiators

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I can’t obsess about sex without it being directed towards someone I’m involved with. I like that a lot.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Possibly. I think you *could* obsess over anything.

I don't think sex is just a fleeting moment and an orgasm. I've found that my sex drive, my libido is very much shaped by those I'm interested in. I can crave certain people, once I'm more comfortable and know them better but I don't think that's a bad thing.

You don't have to sate your cravings constantly. But when you do? It's all the more intense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't obsess over sex. I obsess over connection and chemistry.

Sex is everywhere. Chemistry isnt.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I totally crave sex. But always for people I either have fucked before and I know how incredible it is going to be, or those special first meets when the tension that is building between you in the run up to the planned meet is almost unbeatable

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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A lot of the time the tension, build up and flirting is better then the sex

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By *aseylee324Couple
over a year ago

Valley of Squinting Windows


"I don't obsess over sex. I obsess over connection and chemistry.

Sex is everywhere. Chemistry isnt. "

So true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean if it's easy for you to get with people you consider very attractive, I imagine less so.

But for others, do you sometimes CRAVE sex with that hot person you know, to the point you get irritated about it?

Or do you have the (accurate in my opinion) mindset that as hot as sex can be, it's a fleeting moment and an orgasm?"

Yes, I believe we can becum obsessional about a fuck

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

No - I possibly obsess over planning my overall life to be around 90%+ in accordance with my wishes, and those plans include how I want my sexual/physical intimacy to map out.

But not the sex/activities with partners once that's arranged. That's mostly fluid and enjoyable within the overall "map".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I obsessive over it far too much, it distracts me far more than it should to the point that it’s like an addiction.

Thankfully though I have enough restraint not act on it when I am single as I need the connection

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Over sex? No.

Over the most mind blowing, stop all the clocks, we’re fucking before we even take our clothes off kind of connection that is very very rare….

I sometimes obsess over that. But only sometimes.

I’m not one to obsess over much really

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I mean if it's easy for you to get with people you consider very attractive, I imagine less so.

But for others, do you sometimes CRAVE sex with that hot person you know, to the point you get irritated about it?

Or do you have the (accurate in my opinion) mindset that as hot as sex can be, it's a fleeting moment and an orgasm?"

I never get the sex that’s in my head, but my head is broken, which is a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can have fleeting moments where I’m having a good time with someone, and if they had the same vibe, I’d get naked with them.

I also can fancy someone to the point where I know if they asked to get naked with me, my answer would always be yes.

And then there’s that one woman who can get inside my head where I literally CRAVE her sex. And it’s hers that I want above anything else, because that’s all that could be enough to satisfy the hunger I have to tear her cloths off and make her feel the same way I do. Sexy as fuck. Only one woman at a time can live inside my head like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I often crave sex with someone. A specific sex that I have with that person. And I get frustrated when it’s not possible to have it. But these days that’s not often. I’m pretty satisfied.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes. All the time

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