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I think I'm about done.

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By *ob.42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Yarmouth

This isn't just a moan, I've had some very good and very positive meets through FAB and clubs.

Lately though, it is just one cancelled meet after another. I've been ignored, blocked, dropped for a better offer, and blatantly lied to.

Is this just the way people are now? Or a temporary thing that comes and goes?

Honestly, it's not the way I treat people and not how I would like it to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^Bobb no hope

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By *ob.42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Yarmouth

Pretty much, at least we still have Kevin Bacon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are dicks

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"^Bobb no hope"

He’s back!!!

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By *ob.42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Yarmouth

It's hard when a message is read and ignored, or even deleted unread. It's worse when there's a long chat and an arranged meet, then nothing or suddenly blocked. And it's becoming more frequent. My last 3 meets have not gone through, and patchy at best before that. It's bloody rude!

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Happens to us all OP. Try not to take it to heart (easier said than done I know). Hope things improve for you

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford


"This isn't just a moan, I've had some very good and very positive meets through FAB and clubs.

Lately though, it is just one cancelled meet after another. I've been ignored, blocked, dropped for a better offer, and blatantly lied to.

Is this just the way people are now? Or a temporary thing that comes and goes?

Honestly, it's not the way I treat people and not how I would like it to be. "

Sorry to read that. Not everyone is like that so do keep trying.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"It's hard when a message is read and ignored, or even deleted unread. It's worse when there's a long chat and an arranged meet, then nothing or suddenly blocked. And it's becoming more frequent. My last 3 meets have not gone through, and patchy at best before that. It's bloody rude!"

Oh that's rubbish, it's horrible when it feels like people are wasting your time... try getting to some socials

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I think it’s just that time of the year mate where people wanna meet for fun but all sorts get in the way. Low funds, seasonal depression, kids just back to school, miserable weather and all sorts.

Things always seem to improve here when weather starts to improve and people over January blues

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By *ohntall123Man
over a year ago

Biggleswade


"This isn't just a moan, I've had some very good and very positive meets through FAB and clubs.

Lately though, it is just one cancelled meet after another. I've been ignored, blocked, dropped for a better offer, and blatantly lied to.

Is this just the way people are now? Or a temporary thing that comes and goes?

Honestly, it's not the way I treat people and not how I would like it to be. "

Sorry OP that it’s been like that , but some great people on here you just need to out the others I’m Afraid . Hope it gets better

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Hopefully it’s just a glitch in the matrix OP. Not everyone is like that and the ones that are well they can take a big step back and go fuck themselves.

Hope it improves for you

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"'some' People are dicks "

FIFY

OP - sadly you can never control or predict the behaviour of others. Sometimes someone who seems to be a good prospect turns out to be a twunt.

All you can do is block, move on and hope the next encounter and interaction is better.

It's been said many a time before but clubs work well because there's an abundance of potential new acquaintances there, rather than the 'putting all your eggs in one basket' approach of a private meet with an individual or couple.

There are plenty of good, honest and reliable folk out there. Finding them is actually easier than most think - it just takes a little more patience and upfront due diligence sometimes.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it just comes with the territory on places like this sadly.

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