FabSwingers.com forum: BDSM/Kink and Swing

By *ightMountain OP Man
over a year ago

Basingstoke

As someone who practices in both camps it's always interesting to see the interaction between the worlds of Kink and Swing.

Are there many others who do the same and how do you find your experiences?

I'm very easy going when it comes to kink so don't normally tell off non kink swingers when there are interruptions if I'm playing in a dungeon area.

I know this attitude is more rare than the usual thou must not speak if it would disturb a scene.

However I do enjoy sharing my knowledge and explaining if people have questions.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

If its a kink amd swing crossover event then I expect to go easier and consider the 'vanillas' nearby and their comfort levels.

If its a pure swing event I keep the kink at home.

If its a kink event I abide by the protocols the event has.

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By *ightMountain OP Man
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"If its a kink amd swing crossover event then I expect to go easier and consider the 'vanillas' nearby and their comfort levels.

If its a pure swing event I keep the kink at home.

If its a kink event I abide by the protocols the event has."

That's an interesting second point, do the events/clubs you go to have dedicated dungeon areas? As I'd normally follow along with your first point if there is a dedicated kink space even in a swinger focused event.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

If it's a swing night, then those people have consented to seeing normal swing things. Unless the dungeon areas are straight up flagged as reserved for kink, then I don't want to cause people to see something that they don't expect on a normal swing night.

A little spanking on the furniture? Sure. Drawing blood and getting the heavy hitters out? Fuck no. I can do that at home or at dedicated events.

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By *ightMountain OP Man
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Yes it is very much a know your audience. People like the floggers, not so much the red hot pokers

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"If its a kink amd swing crossover event then I expect to go easier and consider the 'vanillas' nearby and their comfort levels.

If its a pure swing event I keep the kink at home.

If its a kink event I abide by the protocols the event has."

^^ this. 100%

Sorry. CBA to type it again

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