FabSwingers.com forum: Women, do you even like compliments?

By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

Or do you get them TOO much.

Fab unspoken rules dictate the guys are alot more forward and complimentary than women are. Are you ladies sick of getting the compliments? Do you think it's added to egos?

Discuss!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Yeah, it's a bore

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I crave compliments. I’m a needy hen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont I actually can't take a compliment

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I crave compliments. I’m a needy hen. "

You can have mine. I can't get out the door for all my fab mail!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% of the time on here they’re bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A persons reaction to almost anything is heavily influenced by whether they fancy them or not

“I love your X” is going to be taken very different if it’s someone you really fancy vs someone you really don’t

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter

Depends on what kind of compliment.

Compliments on my looks generally make me uncomfortable.

Compliments on my personality are usually better received.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"99% of the time on here they’re bollocks "

So it’s gone down is what you’re saying.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I crave compliments. I’m a needy hen.

You can have mine. I can't get out the door for all my fab mail! "

Can I have *you* too?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I do like them when they have the ring of sincerity. Which isn't that often on here. I need to do another compliment thread at some point, I enjoyed that.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Depends on what kind of compliment.

Compliments on my looks generally make me uncomfortable.

Compliments on my personality are usually better received.

I liked your personality?

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"99% of the time on here they’re bollocks "

You mean I don't have the sexiest body on fab? Damn, that's disappointing

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

On fab I don't particularly like them, and rarely believe them.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Yeah they’re all right… ish…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"99% of the time on here they’re bollocks

So it’s gone down is what you’re saying. "

I didn’t wanna come across like a misery

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I like genuine compliments. The intent behind them is important to me.

I actually quite like compliments that are based on my physical appearance. I get far more on my written word or some personality trait and whilst that's lovely, I like feeling like I'm sexually attractive to someone. Or that people notice how I look etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"99% of the time on here they’re bollocks

You mean I don't have the sexiest body on fab? Damn, that's disappointing

Same babes, same

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"99% of the time on here they’re bollocks

You mean I don't have the sexiest body on fab? Damn, that's disappointing

Same babes, same "

I've never had that one

So at least you're both in with a chance of actually having the sexiest body on fab!

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

If it’s a nice compliment, then yes

If it’s like 99% of my inbox, which is “you’re alright for a fat bird” then no

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

If it’s from someone I know then yes I definitely appreciate it. Anyone else on here nah it goes over my head

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I find most seem to come with strings attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who is still complimenting other people in 2024? Gross

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

I like compliments in my day to day life, they cheer me up.

Compliments in messages don’t really carry the same weight, maybe an oral compliment feels better than a written one?

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"99% of the time on here they’re bollocks "

this ...

false flattery is yuk and if some women belive whats being said as real then they really do need to give there heads a wobble its false yuk

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I don't think I've ever sent a cringeworthy compliment on here.

I tend to compliment profiles in general, forum comments and remarks, and photo styles, rather than make specific references particularly to bodies.

I find complimenting someone's looks or aesthetics that I don't actually know incredibly hard.

Just because they visually may look appealing doesn't mean they have a good personality or aren't a total fucknugget.

I also find it hard to be on the receiving end of compliments unless, again, it's someone I know or have met previously.

You can easily be nice and polite without resorting to fawning sycophancy.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Fuck.

Sorry Brucey.

Forgot I'm not a woman again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"99% of the time on here they’re bollocks

You mean I don't have the sexiest body on fab? Damn, that's disappointing

Same babes, same

I've never had that one

So at least you're both in with a chance of actually having the sexiest body on fab!

You’ve probably had the most beautiful girl on here one tho!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Fuck.

Sorry Brucey.

Forgot I'm not a woman again.

Get out!

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I struggle to believe them, after years of being put down by my ex husband

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"99% of the time on here they’re bollocks

You mean I don't have the sexiest body on fab? Damn, that's disappointing

Same babes, same

I've never had that one

So at least you're both in with a chance of actually having the sexiest body on fab!

You’ve probably had the most beautiful girl on here one tho!"

Nope

Fucksake. Not even from the ones who haven't seen my face

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Phwoaaarrr Stunning, you are the most beautiful woman on this site.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Phwoaaarrr Stunning, you are the most beautiful woman on this site."

Stunning. That’s such a popular one. Hate it! They can’t even see me!

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

What’s with that “compliment” that does the rounds in direct messages that says, “you make my girlfriend look like dogshit”, over the years I’ve been here I’ve had it off so many different men!

It’s horrific!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it best to start off with an insult these days lol

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter

"Depends on what kind of compliment.

Compliments on my looks generally make me uncomfortable.

Compliments on my personality are usually better received.

I liked your personality?

As in...past tense?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"What’s with that “compliment” that does the rounds in direct messages that says, “you make my girlfriend look like dogshit”, over the years I’ve been here I’ve had it off so many different men!

It’s horrific!"

I’ve had that! Awful! Those exact words too. Must be same person. Who says that?!!

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

It’s horrific!

I’ve had that! Awful! Those exact words too. Must be same person. Who says that?!!"

I’ve had it from many different accounts, it can’t be just one person!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

It’s horrific!

I’ve had that! Awful! Those exact words too. Must be same person. Who says that?!!"

Um….

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

It’s horrific!

I’ve had that! Awful! Those exact words too. Must be same person. Who says that?!!

Um….

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

It’s horrific!

I’ve had that! Awful! Those exact words too. Must be same person. Who says that?!!

I’ve had it from many different accounts, it can’t be just one person! "

Really? I’ve had it once. Was so bad that I remembered it!

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Depends on what kind of compliment.

Compliments on my looks generally make me uncomfortable.

Compliments on my personality are usually better received.

I liked your personality?

As in...past tense?

Yes!

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By *ileyandOhCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I find it strange men message my husband complements ....about me. Congratulation him on how nice my bum is lol. Its like I'm not even a person more of a object my husband owns.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I find it strange men message my husband complements ....about me. Congratulation him on how nice my bum is lol. Its like I'm not even a person more of a object my husband owns. "

Congratulations for having a winner of a husband on account of him managing to seduce you?

That works better right?

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By *lueseasWoman
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

Not all compliments are created equal… there’s so much cheap and shallow complimenting here… hard to take much pleasure from it… (and before this turns into another battle of the sexes… I think all genders do it).

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

It’s horrific!"

What!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me “old fashioned” but I don’t see why a compliment should go unliked? I get it that some aren’t well received, or if given in a derogatory way. I would only be giving one because I liked a women’s figure or particular photo in their profile. Attraction comes first right?

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By *ileyandOhCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"I find it strange men message my husband complements ....about me. Congratulation him on how nice my bum is lol. Its like I'm not even a person more of a object my husband owns.

Congratulations for having a winner of a husband on account of him managing to seduce you?

That works better right?

I mean a gold star or some kind of trophy would also be nice but yeah that will do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Call me “old fashioned” but I don’t see why a compliment should go unliked? I get it that some aren’t well received, or if given in a derogatory way. I would only be giving one because I liked a women’s figure or particular photo in their profile. Attraction comes first right? "

You’re old fashioned. No one has to like anything just because you say it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much of a good thing. If all you get are compliments, it ceases to mean anything and in fact, makes you just roll your eyes so hard they almost roll back into your skull

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

No, I prefer for a guy to neg me.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

Or harass me - persistence works, shy bsirns get nowt, and I am easily worn down in to having sex with men I find physically… and personally… not appealing.

Just kidding. I find EVERYONE appealing.

What’s the difference between a bitch and a slut?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Compliments? Only when they are genuine, usually spontaneous and not manipulative (yes we can usually tell!

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

I like genuine compliments.

Anything that appears false irritates me

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Compliments? Only when they are genuine, usually spontaneous and not manipulative (yes we can usually tell!

This!

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Not if they aren't meant and only said incase I might put out

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

‘Mmmm….you look beautiful. Mmmmm….such nice tits.

Mmmmmm…..fancy a fuck?

Mmmmmm……’

*Copy and pasted to all and sundry*

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"99% of the time on here they’re bollocks "

Hairy brains often do the most of the thinking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always appreciate a genuine and heartfelt compliment.

I'm not usually as impressed by the ones that have obviously been typed with one hand on here

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