FabSwingers.com forum: Has swinging made you better at sex?

By *oveToPlay. OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Hey you lovely lot

So has swinging made you better at sex, broadened your horizons, shown you things you didn't know you liked, empowered you etc etc

S xxx

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Nah

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Generally it must do. The more sex you have with other people, the more you try and perfect things.

But I'm good I promise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! It’s given me a lot of confidence to explore things. I’m a lot more open minded in the 10 years I’ve been on and off fab

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By *ovelifecoupleCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Good question! We believe yes but maybe for others to say.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Hey you lovely lot

So has swinging made you better at sex, broadened your horizons, shown you things you didn't know you liked, empowered you etc etc

S xxx"

Made me better! No idea.

But the last 16 years has certainly broadened my horizons, given me the chance to experiment more and discover what I do/don't enjoy and enabled me to meet some bloody awesome people in the process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have good days and bad days.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I have good days and bad days. "

But what about your sexual ability? Are you awesome?

*asking for a friend

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

No. But i'm not a 'real swinger'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have good days and bad days.

But what about your sexual ability? Are you awesome?

*asking for a friend"

I’m better than I was a year ago.

so I guess I’m getting there

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By *drian52Man
over a year ago

Derby

Yes, I pay much more attention

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I have good days and bad days.

But what about your sexual ability? Are you awesome?

*asking for a friend

I’m better than I was a year ago.

so I guess I’m getting there"

Good to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I used to last 30 seconds but now I can almost make it to a whole minute

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yep, I used to last 30 seconds but now I can almost make it to a whole minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I’m now 98 percent complete.

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

It ultimately depends on the preferences, boundaries, and dynamics of the individuals involved.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I don’t swing.

….and I’m utterly shit at the sex stuff.

I do like marmite though if it bares any relevance to this thoughtful discourse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I’m right handed so leftie was interesting and new.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I don’t swing.

….and I’m utterly shit at the sex stuff.

I do like marmite though if it bares any relevance to this thoughtful discourse

Same. Minus the marmite part because I'm not a monster.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"I don’t swing.

….and I’m utterly shit at the sex stuff.

I do like marmite though if it bares any relevance to this thoughtful discourse

Same. Minus the marmite part because I'm not a monster."

Can I at least tempt you to a sip of Bovril?

I often have a hot mug of it by way of commiseration after my woeful attempts at that sex business

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Holibobs

Im not a swinger, just a promiscuous slut and rumpy pumpy is always fun

The non sexual side has made me hone my bdsm skills, finding different subs and the subsequent journeys, have been real awakenings for me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I don’t swing.

….and I’m utterly shit at the sex stuff.

I do like marmite though if it bares any relevance to this thoughtful discourse

Same. Minus the marmite part because I'm not a monster.

Can I at least tempt you to a sip of Bovril?

I often have a hot mug of it by way of commiseration after my woeful attempts at that sex business

A sip? Seeing as it's you, sure, we can commiserate each other after some woefully abysmal sex stuff.

Besides, who needs to be good at sex when you can waffle utter tosh as well as we can?

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"I don’t swing.

….and I’m utterly shit at the sex stuff.

I do like marmite though if it bares any relevance to this thoughtful discourse

Same. Minus the marmite part because I'm not a monster.

Can I at least tempt you to a sip of Bovril?

I often have a hot mug of it by way of commiseration after my woeful attempts at that sex business

A sip? Seeing as it's you, sure, we can commiserate each other after some woefully abysmal sex stuff.

Besides, who needs to be good at sex when you can waffle utter tosh as well as we can?"

Amen! Waffling trumps that sexy sex malarkey any day of the week.

In fact, I opted for a spot of masturbation earlier (which I’m also useless at by the way) but abandoned it when I was suddenly overcome by an inexplicable and irresistible urge to waffle to myself regarding the intrinsic benefits of the Metric system….

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Maybe. Probably. I'm going to go with yes.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

Oh the things I've found out!!!!

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Hey you lovely lot

So has swinging made you better at sex, broadened your horizons, shown you things you didn't know you liked, empowered you etc etc

S xxx"

More open minded maybe. And certainly seen and tried some things. But the sex... No

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

Nope, I still suck at it

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I can have sex in front of several others now and not bat an eye lid

It’s given me opportunities beyond my wildest dreams and that has meant my imagination has got broader and expanded and that helps sexually for sure. I’m always thinking of ways three or more people can pleasure each other.

So it’s expanded my sexual map for sure.

Has it made me better sexually? Hopefully yes. We’ve played with quite a few different people and each person brings something different to the table so always learning.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Hahahahahahahaha...

no.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

No i was always good at it i just didnt realise how good until i got here

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

"Nope, I still suck at it"

Was that pun intended

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Nah

Someone's completed Fab

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Nope, I still suck at it"

Sometimes sucking is good.

*allegedly.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah

I’ve definitely become a more rounded swordsman thanks to swinging

improved with every meet

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

More confident, for sure. I didn’t have much experience before I joined the first time. Then I had plenty and my confidence grew. Then I married my ex husband and he smashed my confidence completely. It’s taken a long time and a lot of dicks to get through but it’s back

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By *he KinkysCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I’d say I’m more open minded and has certainly helped with my confidence big time, wouldn’t say it’s made us better at having sex though we were always good at sex , has helped with staying in shape too

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT

Oh hell yeah. I was totally vanilla and a right insecure prude before I started this malarkey!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Swanage

How can you be better at sex you're either good at it or not

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No I'm still pretty middle of the road

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Nah , I'm rubbish

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By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton

Nah much the same

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

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By *icky KlungespeareMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

"No I'm still pretty middle of the road "

Middle of the road in our location means we're a big hole, never filled in properly, and breaks people's backs if they don't look what they're doing

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By *aramel.desiresMan
over a year ago

Laleham

I would say yes it has.

I regularly read things here that I have to go and research so my sexual knowledge has grown. And I use that knowledge to be a better sexual partner.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

Don't even think it's possible for me to get any better

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By *ob.42Man
over a year ago

Near Yarmouth

I believe it has, it's certainly provided opportunities and experiences I hadn't had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet. Can anyone help me get better?

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By *oveToPlay. OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Loving the mixture of responses to this thread

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"No I'm still pretty middle of the road

Middle of the road in our location means we're a big hole, never filled in properly, and breaks people's backs if they don't look what they're doing

I'd say that's a fair description.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

10,000 hours to mastery…

Still a way to go but I think I’m getting better

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes.

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Hey you lovely lot

So has swinging made you better at sex, broadened your horizons, shown you things you didn't know you liked, empowered you etc etc

S xxx"

Nope, always had the nack For a bit of filth! X

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"Oh hell yeah. I was totally vanilla and a right insecure prude before I started this malarkey! "

Oh boy, you are on the accelerated learning curve then, I would never have guessed

Keep up the good work

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT

"Oh hell yeah. I was totally vanilla and a right insecure prude before I started this malarkey!

Oh boy, you are on the accelerated learning curve then, I would never have guessed

Keep up the good work

Oh I intend to

Whilst eating those chocolates I have been adding some things to my 2024 Fucket List

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Never swung unless you count having two women at once swinging but always been good at sex because I love women and know what they like and how to satisfy them and always put their needs first .

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

No. I’m shit at the sex.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Malmesbury

Better at sex? I don't thinks so; swinging has made sex more enjoyable for me and definitely made me more sexually adventurous.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"Never swung unless you count having two women at once swinging but always been good at sex because I love women and know what they like and how to satisfy them and always put their needs first ."

You don’t love punctuation though

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I don't really understand the concept or the desire to have sex with strangers in a club or anywhere else .prefer one to one and actually getting to know that person compleatly and inside out and reaching sexual forfofilment with them .but of course im a man and was not opposed to another lady joining us lol .but not with my new love its just me and her.im here only for forums and friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah

Can I be the judge of that haha

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Yes especially with other women xx

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Yes, it definitely has been an education over the many years since I started with my first wife in the 80's. I happily do things now that I couldn't have imagined then (we didn't have so much porn to give us ideas)

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By *ohntall123Man
over a year ago

Biggleswade

"Hey you lovely lot

So has swinging made you better at sex, broadened your horizons, shown you things you didn't know you liked, empowered you etc etc

S xxx"

I’m a lot more confident from it tbh

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By *ndy man 61Man
over a year ago

Chichester

the journey i have been on since i joined fab has been amazing

the things iv'e seen the things iv'e taken part in have really broadened my mind and people i'm still on that journey

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