FabSwingers.com forum: Do men like bigger girls

By *uiltypleasures24 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ipswich

How to feel attractive when a bigger girl I'm really struggling

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Lots of guys like bigger women on fab, I think there's at least 100 forum threads specifically started for fans of BBW.

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Absolutely correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll help

You are stunning btw xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How to feel attractive when a bigger girl I'm really struggling "

Confidence can be a horrid thing when you have a lack of it but in all honesty, you look amazing. If you have trouble then im absolutely stuffed

In all seriousness though , no one can tell you how good you look if you’re not feeling it. Sometimes I have to take that time and force myself to make an effort even when all I want to do is slob around at home. I really hope you can see the beauty and n yourself soon as I promise you its there for all of us to see x

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By *ightMountainMan
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Yup, nothing sexier than a confident lady rocking the larger body

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By *loudF7Man
over a year ago

South East

"Yup, nothing sexier than a confident lady rocking the larger body"

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By *uiltypleasures24 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Thank you xxx

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I think confidence is key.

I'm not particularly confident, but I take a deep breath, tits out, smile on and fake it til you make it.

Pretty soon the smile will become second nature.

And try to love yourself. That can be really hard too, especially when you're used to being or hearing negative things about yourself.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

First off I would say you’re more average than bigger.

But - play to your strengths. Bums and boobs and legs. If you’ve got a tum then play that down with lingerie and posing.

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By *ave38ukMan
over a year ago

haverhill

"How to feel attractive when a bigger girl I'm really struggling "

You look absolutely gorgeous

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"How to feel attractive when a bigger girl I'm really struggling "

Men like women of all shapes and sizes. Everyone has their preferences but there's honestly someone for everyone.

Some have more 'hard and fast' ideas of body shapes and sizes they're attracted to, others honestly don't care.

People will always say 'you don't fuck a personality' but to many people that's far more important than a perfect figure.

Everyone has flaws and imperfections. Even slimmer, more athletic people worry about body image.

It's not as if you're hiding how you look in your images so well done for not going down the vague body part route that some take to hide their size/shape.

Sexy is a mindset, not a shape.

Good luck!

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By *uiltypleasures24 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Thank u everyone .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BBW the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How to feel attractive when a bigger girl I'm really struggling "

You are absolutley beautiful.

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By *ommy2125Man
over a year ago

newport

I get the rationale behind the post and I think everyone suffers with lack of confidence in some way at some point.

This said you look great, and shouldn't feel unconfident. Next time I'm at the Salthouse I'd be chuffed to go for a drink with you on my arm

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

There are a lot of men who would.

The problem us they are more likely not the men you are trying to get.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Thankfully yes, some men do or I’d never get my end away!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Wear outfits that you feel comfortable in and that you look great in. I found that wearing a multi strap suspender belt covered my stomach more than the think suspender belts and it’s very popular. Having some basic items helped me to feel more confident. Guys love my ass and I hate it, it’s too big and nothing fits. I’ve not got much of a bust but I make more of my narrower waste.

Make the most of the attributes that you like about yourself. You are gorgeous.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I'm a tall 18/20 bbw and get loads of attention, have you tried a bbw greedy girls night at a club yet OP, it helps the awareness of how much some men fawn over a bbw

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

You look great to me.

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By *uiltypleasures24 OP Couple
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Wear outfits that you feel comfortable in and that you look great in. I found that wearing a multi strap suspender belt covered my stomach more than the think suspender belts and it’s very popular. Having some basic items helped me to feel more confident. Guys love my ass and I hate it, it’s too big and nothing fits. I’ve not got much of a bust but I make more of my narrower waste.

Make the most of the attributes that you like about yourself. You are gorgeous. "
thank u hun good tips

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By *stwo2023Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Some do, some don't, some pretend they do just to get their dick wet.

There are lots of threads where men shoe their appreciation for larger ladies. If you are in to clubs then most clubs will do a night aimed at bigger ladies that can be great fun.

Evie

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

I think you look great.

Everyone has their own preferences - I certainly find woman "above average" in figure terms much more attractive than those "below average".

Don't worry about those who don't like the way you look - as long as you're happy with it and others find you attractive (and by the responses they clearly do) you have nothing to worry about.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

OP, I understand the lack of confidence, and I struggle with body hang ups - I think the important thing is when someone you like expresses interest to not shut them down and enjoy it and build your confidence and have fun. Once it’s clear it’s “on”, I relax and enjoy every moment and I’m super confident once naked with someone as I’m damned if I’m going to let anything stop me having all the positive feels. And that can be intoxicating for everyone involved.

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By *outhern man.Man
over a year ago

Weymouth

Your so sexy,plus warmer in the winter lol

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

"OP, I understand the lack of confidence, and I struggle with body hang ups - I think the important thing is when someone you like expresses interest to not shut them down and enjoy it and build your confidence and have fun. Once it’s clear it’s “on”, I relax and enjoy every moment and I’m super confident once naked with someone as I’m damned if I’m going to let anything stop me having all the positive feels. And that can be intoxicating for everyone involved.

What a brilliant response. If only I could write so eloquently.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Is the Pope Catholic?

OP, i think your mailbox has probably exploded by now.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Looking good to me

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I looked at your pics and the thought bigger girl didn’t even cross my mind. You have a great figure. I mean it, I wouldn’t have commented otherwise x

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By *hamrocker23Man
over a year ago

Town

I notice a lot of very sexy curvy ladies and vixens boxing themselves off as plus size, fat, large etc when they're not even

And besides LOTS of men like larger ladies

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough/ Kettering

Girls are girls, it's what's between the ears that counts, that's where the sexiness (is that a word?) comes from

doesn't matter what shape, size, colour etc

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Some do, some don't, some pretend they do just to get their dick wet.

There are lots of threads where men shoe their appreciation for larger ladies. If you are in to clubs then most clubs will do a night aimed at bigger ladies that can be great fun.

Evie "

Agree with the clubs part. Lots of events aimed at bbw and curvy ladies. They do wonders for your confidence

Mindset for me plays a big part. Also buying half of shein’s lingerie

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

You look very good to me.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Girls are girls, it's what's between the ears that counts, that's where the sexiness (is that a word?) comes from

doesn't matter what shape, size, colour etc

To some it does to be fair. To me it does. If I’m not physically attracted it doesn’t matter what’s between the ears.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Confidence comes from within. I can tell you that you're attractive all day long, but if you don't feel it, it won't sink in.

Love yourself first x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Confidence comes from within. I can tell you that you're attractive all day long, but if you don't feel it, it won't sink in.

Love yourself first x"

This is 100% true.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Confidence comes from within. I can tell you that you're attractive all day long, but if you don't feel it, it won't sink in.

Love yourself first x"

Can I get an amen!

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By *crappyDooMan
over a year ago

Travelling…

Another admirer of the curves here!

Also (for me at least) it’s alllll about the banter and the flirting too - nothing better than that connection to create intrigue and spark.

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By *ave0070Man
over a year ago

Sleaford

I love all shapes and sizes of women but I have got to admit that I do have a preference for the bigger lady for me it's not really about size it's more about how nice and friendly a woman is can you go out and have fun together or just sit on the sofa with each other and have a decent conversation together confidence is all in the mind you might think you don't look attractive because you are a bit big but trust me you all look fantastic and just need someone to give you a compliment and to let you know how desirable you are. xx

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By *t72Man
over a year ago

Twickenham

There’s nothing sexier than a lady with all the right curves, and a game changer if she knows how to use them.

if you want a challenge,Its harder guessing if a woman likes a guy with a few extra pounds. As everyone one seems to want the six pack and tan at the mo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the majority do to be honest. The love for thicc these days is undeniable

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

"How to feel attractive when a bigger girl I'm really struggling "

I hate them.

Oh hold on no I don’t I love my bigger woman as in I REALLY love her.

Hope this helps op.

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By *untington 999Man
over a year ago

Oxford

"How to feel attractive when a bigger girl I'm really struggling "

You look stunning xx

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I like em just fine

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

"There’s nothing sexier than a lady with all the right curves, and a game changer if she knows how to use them.

if you want a challenge,Its harder guessing if a woman likes a guy with a few extra pounds. As everyone one seems to want the six pack and tan at the mo."

That is categorically untrue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll tell you who loves ‘bigger’ women- Jamaican men. We really do.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"How to feel attractive when a bigger girl I'm really struggling "

I’m a professional driver, girls with a few curves don’t scare me

, they excite me

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Curvy girls are ace!

You certainly looked confident (and rather fine) on November 11th last year btw

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Some do, some don't.

I wouldn't call you necessarily 'big' myself.

Curvy, probably.

Hot, most certainly

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By *ebanbetsyCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"How to feel attractive when a bigger girl I'm really struggling "
your stunning xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exclusively

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Just a thought: Do we really, REALLY need to cover up parts that are not sexy (in whose opinion anyway?)

Would we ever ask a guy to cover up his belly?

I think we should celebrate who we are, with bellies, boobs and everything we have got. Definitely not try to cover up. Confidence is also rather sexy, more so than a perfect (in whose opinion anyway) body!

Good luck OP, you look terrific and very sexy!

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By *unlovin72Man
over a year ago

BARNSLEY

"How to feel attractive when a bigger girl I'm really struggling "

Confidence can be hard sometimes I am a big man and have good days and bad I do get abuse on here and think about deleting my account and then you get random messages from up and down this lovely island of ours being so kind with messages of support that's is what gets me through.

And more to the point you are absolutely stunning really hot and sexy body and very good looking face I would be proud to know you as a friend or partner your man is very lucky

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

"Just a thought: Do we really, REALLY need to cover up parts that are not sexy (in whose opinion anyway?)

Would we ever ask a guy to cover up his belly?

Good luck OP, you look terrific and very sexy!

Good shout. Fully agree

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Make the rockin world go round!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fan always really enjoyed sex with a bigger woman

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By *rambuie100Man
over a year ago

essex/suffolk border

"How to feel attractive when a bigger girl I'm really struggling "

Struggle no longer…. yes we do like bigger girls.

Your curves are great, embrace them

The media construct a vision of beauty, that is fake, distorted by filters.. not real. Its a disservice to women.

Natural and real is sexier than fake.

Keep rocking the lingerie !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s nothing sexier than a lady with all the right curves, and a game changer if she knows how to use them.

if you want a challenge,Its harder guessing if a woman likes a guy with a few extra pounds. As everyone one seems to want the six pack and tan at the mo.

That is categorically untrue "

Definitely for me I cant do tanned, waxed and preening gent, certainly for first impressions. Its just not my preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curves are more interesting to look at plus I generally find the bigger lady more fun be with

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By *ilverGent1Man
over a year ago

Livingston

Oh yeah, curvy & cute please.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

As others have said, men like all shapes and sizes of women, with lots appreciating a larger lady.

Having looked at your photos, I would guess that you're a similar size to me. I'm a 16 but don't consider myself to be large, as this is pretty average.

However, I also understand that many women lack confidence and are unhappy with their body. I reckon you should give a club a try on a night aimed at curvier ladies. Hopefully this will help you feel more comfortable and confident, as you won't feel big or out of place.

I love being able to strut my stuff in sexy outfits in clubs... it really is great for the ego

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Its harder guessing if a woman likes a guy with a few extra pounds. As everyone one seems to want the six pack and tan at the mo."

Not at all. Sorry, but this is just a cop out.

I don't like the body builder, over tanned look at all. Negativity is also not attractive.

What I do find attractive is positively, a sense of humour, a cheeky smile and intelligence. Many women will agree with me.

Nita

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Of course, curves are great to grab one too and lovely for spooning

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm attracted to lots of big women

In the scheme of things I don't find you especially big, I do however find you attractive. Stop giving yourself a hard time

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Yes they do and btw you look gorgeous

stay fabulous and try to you x

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By *onto888Man
over a year ago

basildon

Your gorgeous babe

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By *oxy RedWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Learning to love my hips and ass!

OP you look amazing!

Kisses

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Learning to love my hips and ass!

OP you look amazing!

Kisses "

They're easy to love

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

No reason you should be struggling, you're absolutely stunning.

Right up my street,

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