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"Shag her first. Then tell her. " Yeah tell her on the vinegar stroke | |||
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"This lady is obviously looking for a relationship, she's been upfront and honest with what she's looking for. I wouldn't just come out with "Im a swinger" .. If your not looking for anything serious then just explain this to her." She sounds lovely, but it's unlikely it would work. You both want different things. Best to break it off before you get attached...? That's my serious answer. | |||
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"This lady is obviously looking for a relationship, she's been upfront and honest with what she's looking for. I wouldn't just come out with "Im a swinger" .. If your not looking for anything serious then just explain this to her. She sounds lovely, but it's unlikely it would work. You both want different things. Best to break it off before you get attached...? That's my serious answer. " That's exactly what I've done. Sent her a nicely worded text this morning (not a had a reply... ). Thought it best given all the circumstances. If she didn't know anyone connected with me, I might have taken a chance and come clean with her... but.... hey-ho... Things ya do for Swinging... Still flippin gutted though... | |||
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"You don't go to instant relationship on the first date. I was reminiscing with a mate on Saturday about a girl we both knew as teenagers, I took her out once and she laid the law down as to do's and donts at the end of the night about how she expected me to act. Kissed her goodnight And ran........" Hmmm.... I had one of those too, many years back.... Never run so fast! | |||
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"This lady is obviously looking for a relationship, she's been upfront and honest with what she's looking for. I wouldn't just come out with "Im a swinger" .. If your not looking for anything serious then just explain this to her. She sounds lovely, but it's unlikely it would work. You both want different things. Best to break it off before you get attached...? That's my serious answer. That's exactly what I've done. Sent her a nicely worded text this morning (not a had a reply... ). Thought it best given all the circumstances. If she didn't know anyone connected with me, I might have taken a chance and come clean with her... but.... hey-ho... Things ya do for Swinging... Still flippin gutted though... " Sorry to hear that, but your honour is still intact. I know I don't really know you and we've never spoken before beyond a bit of forum banter, but you have always come accross as an honest and honourable guy who often speaks wise words. I take my hat off to you sir. | |||
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"Out of interest, what did you specify that you were looking for on the dating site?" ...and tell us which one so we can bombard you with inappropriate messages and perve your vanilla photos. Pretty please? | |||
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"This lady is obviously looking for a relationship, she's been upfront and honest with what she's looking for. I wouldn't just come out with "Im a swinger" .. If your not looking for anything serious then just explain this to her. She sounds lovely, but it's unlikely it would work. You both want different things. Best to break it off before you get attached...? That's my serious answer. That's exactly what I've done. Sent her a nicely worded text this morning (not a had a reply... ). Thought it best given all the circumstances. If she didn't know anyone connected with me, I might have taken a chance and come clean with her... but.... hey-ho... Things ya do for Swinging... Still flippin gutted though... Sorry to hear that, but your honour is still intact. I know I don't really know you and we've never spoken before beyond a bit of forum banter, but you have always come accross as an honest and honourable guy who often speaks wise words. I take my hat off to you sir. " That's sad OP. Probably the best way though. Question... If you want to keep swinging, why are you on a dating site? I know some women wouldn't mind... But most will be looking for monogamous relationships. | |||
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"Bit of a guys one, but happy to receive all onslaughts... Last night, I had a social with a vanilla lady who I met through a dating site which implies you can find loads of haddock on there... She was LOVELY.. So much so that, whilst she was chatting away, I was fantasising about how I was going to get her kit off, as one does... Then.. she drops the bombshell:- She is looking for someone who is NOT seeing anyone else. She has been cheated on BIG time by two husbands and a partner. Qu'ell probleme, n'est pas..? I really wanted to.... I mean, I REALLLLLLLY wanted to...., but being the gentlemen that I am, I kept my gob shut about ones ... 'activities'. So, this morning I consulted the oracle (ones former swinging partner - shhh! you know who!) and asked her advice. She said I should either ask to see her and come clean (allowing for the fact I may end up wearing a medium latte), OR send her a message explaining I could not offer her the exclusivity she seeks, and back off. Which way would you go.... Might tell you what I did do later... " It all depends on how big a plate of retribution and lady acid sauce you can stomach. Does she have big tough brothers? is the velvet pocket too good to miss out on? and the big one do you respect her? After she has opened up to you it puts you in a difficult position. I will say shag and run tactics can catch up with you though so its a balancing act. | |||
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"I dunno, don't you lot get out much? What the *****FUCK***** makes you think she was telling the truth, in order to deserve the truth back. Frankly watson, there was a huge red flag right there, the bitch is on a fucking date with YOU, and uses YOUR time to moan about ex's lying to her, allegedly. In another breath she will be asking where have all the good men gone... pmsl Pump and dump, or better still run the fuck away." Your posts are always so cheerful, positive and uplifting! | |||
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"Most people I know who use the fishy dating site are all on here anyway. You should have asked her for her profile name! " Really? I didn't know that. | |||
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"Most people I know who use the fishy dating site are all on here anyway. You should have asked her for her profile name! Really? I didn't know that." I've persuaded a few guys over to the swinging side ....... usually after they tell me they really would like a relationship but don't have time for one due to the busy lifestyle they have. (work, gym, footy matches and on the razz with mates) | |||
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"Most people I know who use the fishy dating site are all on here anyway. You should have asked her for her profile name! Really? I didn't know that. I've persuaded a few guys over to the swinging side ....... usually after they tell me they really would like a relationship but don't have time for one due to the busy lifestyle they have. (work, gym, footy matches and on the razz with mates) " Mind you, I don't get replies there either, but can't expect them here as I am a cheat and a liar!! | |||
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"Most people I know who use the fishy dating site are all on here anyway. You should have asked her for her profile name! " I was on there for a couple of months with a War & Peace length profile. I made it perfectly clear in there that I had been involved in various nsa arrangements and was honest about what I was looking for sex wise in an actual full monogamous relationship. Nothing graphic or too detailed, but enough. Most ladies I spoke to or who contacted me either never said a word about that paragraph of my profile, or they congratulated me on being so honest on it. I left in the end as I realised I wasn't in the right place or time for dating. If I did go on a dating site again I would be that open again about it, as I felt it was better all round. | |||
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"Most people I know who use the fishy dating site are all on here anyway. You should have asked her for her profile name! Really? I didn't know that. I've persuaded a few guys over to the swinging side ....... usually after they tell me they really would like a relationship but don't have time for one due to the busy lifestyle they have. (work, gym, footy matches and on the razz with mates) " All the important things in life then Laine? | |||
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"Most people I know who use the fishy dating site are all on here anyway. You should have asked her for her profile name! Really? I didn't know that. I've persuaded a few guys over to the swinging side ....... usually after they tell me they really would like a relationship but don't have time for one due to the busy lifestyle they have. (work, gym, footy matches and on the razz with mates) All the important things in life then Laine? " Dating site speak ........ busy = self-absorbed. ie. will not change my lifestyle one iota to accommodate anyone else into my life. | |||
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"Be straight with her, if she's a player it's her who has to live with that. Conscience will always creep back and haunt you if you don,t have one. Maybe Karma too - Someone you fall for shagging your best mate Maybe she just needs a lifelong lover, her everything. You're clearly not gonna be that so go on intimate encounters, find the kink and the promiscious ones " They've started charging for Intimate Encounters!! And there are more weirdos on there than there are on here! And that's saying summat!! | |||
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"Haha I find that hard to believe, sooooooo many oxygen thieves on here " Intimate searches are only available to upgraded users - so... you gotta pay... | |||
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"Option 2 for me. She might shag you anyway out of respect for your honesty and respect for her" This is how I got into swinging. He was honest from the offset about what he did. I had the choice of trying it or running for the hills. I went into it fully informed. And legs wide apart lol | |||
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"And there are more weirdos on there than there are on here! And that's saying summat!! " We were referring to that | |||
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"And there are more weirdos on there than there are on here! And that's saying summat!! We were referring to that " Ahhhhh.... makes sense now | |||
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