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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Disclaimer: The question below is not intended to body shame.

I've always been curious as to why in a lot of the pictures of ladies they seem to be hiding their belly. Is this something that's done to without thinking or are ladies quite conscious of having their bellies seem big.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I’m very self conscious of having a big belly although when it gets to the point of being naked I just think WTF and concentrate on having fun. So yep, my photos wouldn’t overtly show my belly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of ladies, myself included, wish we were a lot slimmer,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is this something that gets in the way of fun for you girls.

Personally I quite like to linger around all parts of my partner's body and sometimes the fun gets dampened for me if I realise they're not quite comfortable.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Is this something that gets in the way of fun for you girls.

Personally I quite like to linger around all parts of my partner's body and sometimes the fun gets dampened for me if I realise they're not quite comfortable."

It gets in the way in that I fear some people aren’t into my size so aren’t interested in having fun.

But for those I do have fun with no, I’m unbothered in that if I’m having sex with someone I’m damn well going to have fun and nothing is going to stand in the way of that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Urgh bellies are awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Disclaimer: The question below is not intended to body shame.

I've always been curious as to why in a lot of the pictures of ladies they seem to be hiding their belly. Is this something that's done to without thinking or are ladies quite conscious of having their bellies seem big."

I'm conscious of the tummy, but I am what I am, so I get over it. But I try not to draw attention to it in photos as I can see it. Everyday life, I couldn't care less about the tummy, as there are generally more important things going on so it's not forefront of my mind.

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By *ries AngelWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth

As a relatively new person here I worried about every meet I had about my body but gradually I’ve learnt that it doesn’t matter but that doesn’t stop my own head from thinking that…

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Because if you do upload a pic of said belly you usually get a few comedians messaging pointing out you have a belly and that you’ve got a bloody nerve showing it.

For a quieter life it’s just not worth it. Sometimes.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

Because people are judgy as fuck basically

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We're often our own worst critic and it'll be us setting and picking the pics. What we'd share with a select few, may be very different from what we'd like ourselves and to share with all.

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By *ornyguyMan
over a year ago

Hillsborough, NI

I've met a woman before who insisted on having a vest still on covering her tummy; think she was wanting to hide stretch marks from being pregnant. I think women can be self conscious about those and other scars on their tummy.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't think I've ever met a woman who wasn't at least a little bit self conscious of her stomach area for one reason or another.

I don't like mine, and don't generally show it in pictures. But with my partners I'm perfectly happy for them to see and touch any part of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I've ever met a woman who wasn't at least a little bit self conscious of her stomach area for one reason or another.

I don't like mine, and don't generally show it in pictures. But with my partners I'm perfectly happy for them to see and touch any part of me "

I love yours.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"I don't think I've ever met a woman who wasn't at least a little bit self conscious of her stomach area for one reason or another.

I don't like mine, and don't generally show it in pictures. But with my partners I'm perfectly happy for them to see and touch any part of me

I love yours."

... You can't even see it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm happy to show my stomach, my feet however not so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I've ever met a woman who wasn't at least a little bit self conscious of her stomach area for one reason or another.

I don't like mine, and don't generally show it in pictures. But with my partners I'm perfectly happy for them to see and touch any part of me

I love yours.

... You can't even see it?"

If that’s an offer then………I’m in the car on my way.

But you’ve got a stunning figure! You’re in my hotlist for a reason.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Don’t think I’ve ever met a woman who didn’t think her belly was big or too flabby and wasn't self conscious even size 6 45kg gym bunnies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed on a certain reality TV programme ....most of the women always have a cushion infront of their abdomen....

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By *TastePurpleWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Because society is quite fatphobic and makes people feel bad for even having a bit of wobble, despite the fact most of us do.

I've started to reclaim love for my belly and be able to find it sexy sometimes.

And I find other women's soft, lovely bellies quite sexy too they're quite delightful to kiss and nuzzle. Women who can own their curves and wobbly bits are very sexy

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By *TastePurpleWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"I don't think I've ever met a woman who wasn't at least a little bit self conscious of her stomach area for one reason or another.

I don't like mine, and don't generally show it in pictures. But with my partners I'm perfectly happy for them to see and touch any part of me "

Completely unrelated but you have a fabulous dick collection. They're so pretty! And varied.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world


"Because people are judgy as fuck basically "

People have preferences* be that weight looks etc

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