FabSwingers.com forum: Spontaneous or planned?

By *eeliciouschaos OP Woman
over a year ago

Wherever

What’s your preference, Fab?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Planned.

I’m too flighty at the moment to be spontaneous.

Although when I’m on form, spontaneity is nice.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Always spontaneous for us.

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By *hakespears SwingersCouple
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Planned. We find it hard to flip from vanilla/parent/work mode to sexy at the flick of a switch.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short term planning seems to work well for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned, I like to build the anticipation and tease

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Always planned

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By *eeliciouschaos OP Woman
over a year ago

Wherever

Btw, always planned for me too.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Btw, always planned for me too. "

Do you want to plan something?

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By *eeliciouschaos OP Woman
over a year ago

Wherever

"Btw, always planned for me too.

Do you want to plan something?

I certainly do

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Planned.

I thrive on that build up and anticipation and all the excitement before.

Without that, I'm just not that interested in the rest of it

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Definitely planned. I’m suspicious of anyone who messages me out of the blue and wants to meet straightaway.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

Spontaneous. Just like the rest of my life, I don't plan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned.

I have a table booked every night this year at a restaurant waiting for a woman to spontaneously say yes to a date.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Building a connection and heat are integral for us.

A cold fuck does nothing.

Although we did have a cheeky last min meet once with an Italian gent and he and C spoke Italian throughout whilst we massaged her. That was hot

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Tricky.

I like planned but, short term. When it’s long and drawn out it’s easy for something to go pear shaped.

Spontaneous can be very exhilarating

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Planned.

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I'm planning on being spontaneous

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

Would love some spontaneity and chaos but that’s not gonna work in my life right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned only, unless it's someone I already know really well, then spontaneous can be good.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"Planned only, unless it's someone I already know really well, then spontaneous can be good. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer spontaneous but happy to plan things too. Sometimes spontaneous is nice off the back of some fun chat.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Enjoy the build up before a meet so usually planned but occasionally I'm feeling particularly frisky and arrange a spontaneous meet

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I prefer planned, as I like to plan my time well as well as to get to know and filter appropriately

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Btw, always planned for me too.

Do you want to plan something?

I certainly do

Oooffftttt

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By *eeliciouschaos OP Woman
over a year ago

Wherever

"Btw, always planned for me too.

Do you want to plan something?

I certainly do

Oooffftttt

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Same as midnight, short term planned. Usually lots of flirty chat with no indication of meeting before a 'hey, shall we just do this tomorrow?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Planned, I like to build the anticipation and tease

This

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Planned. Spontaneity can sometimes be incredibly good fun but for the most part I love the intensity of anticipation and that heightened excitement of flirty messages knowing I'll be seeing them soon.

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

I prefer spontaneous but that’s not gonna happen for a gangbang which is what I also prefer so I have to plan

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Planned. I plan to the nth detail. And have fall back plans in case plans fail.

Even the spontaneous stuff is planned. So it feels spontaneous, but is actually curated and planned. The "illusion" of spontaneity. Which takes a lot of planning.

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By *ames HardwickMan
over a year ago

Courtown, Gorey

Planned is good, but nothing beats a spontaneous meet, as it speaks to the true essence of this lifestyle..

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By *ortney CocksWoman
over a year ago

fab land

Every time I plan something always crops up so spontaneous now (just turn up)

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Choosing between impromptu or prearranged experiences depends on personal preferences, comfort levels, and your desired level of control. I’m usually a prearranged fan but every now and then impromptu wins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never had a spontaneous meet. Must be cool.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Spontaneous is fun, but.....

Im too guarded now, unless someone I trust, knows him

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

Planned for me

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By *ooby and the beastCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Planned mostly but spontaneous can be a lot of fun especially at clubs.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

A planned meet that becomes spontaneous is the best,

A fine example was last week, I went with someone from here on a NSA meet to a club and whilst there we had a few spontaneous things happen!

It was hot, sleezy, dirty and totally out of character, BUT BOY was it fun,

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Planned.

I can only ever be spontaneous with someone I already know, and even then it has to fit around work and life stuff.

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Prefer spontaneous

Planned too much in advance tends to build on nerves and anxiety

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By *eronica78Woman
over a year ago

Naughtyville

Planned all the way. Family then work first

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