FabSwingers.com forum: Vasectomy

By *jbucks OP Couple
over a year ago

Bletchley

My partner had her coil out due to it effecting her hormones too much that was effecting her health. She has taken it out now and we have discussed me getting the snip which I'm on board but any tips, advice or stories?

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By *GermanInLondonMan
over a year ago

London

Bumping and watching with interest...

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
over a year ago

Inverness

Got it done when I was young and I regret it slightly as i would have wanted more kids. Not having to worry about contraception is great though x

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By *ed_BlueCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

Bottled out twice getting it done

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By *drian52Man
over a year ago

Derby

Having the snip is an easy op that takes 20 minutes and recovery is a few days. Just be sure you're ready and don't want anymore children

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By *oyRoy06Man
over a year ago

leighton buzzard

Had it done last year.

Very odd sensation as you're awake and it's local anasthetic so can feel your nuts being tugged abojt from the inside ... quick procedure though. As long as you follow post op self care then there should be no risk of tubes healing back and causing whole thing to fail

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

Had the snip years ago and was the best decision I ever made, nice quick and painless operation. Only advise I will give is as above, make sure that it is what you really want as reversal is costly and has a low success rate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My partner had her coil out due to it effecting her hormones too much that was effecting her health. She has taken it out now and we have discussed me getting the snip which I'm on board but any tips, advice or stories? "

Talk to a healthcare professional (GP?) for tips and advice. As much as us lot think we know stuff, we don’t know as much as the people who’ve trained in it professionally and deal with it every day.

If you’re taking healthcare advice from us weirdo sex junkies, then there may be negative consequences. However, since you have asked us, I recommend you get a friend with two bricks and let him use them to smash your testicles until you pass out.

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By *hriscooperMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Best thing I ever had done.

Only felt a slight discomfort as they pulled and cut the tubes. But I wouldn't say that it hurt.

You'll be surprised how small your cock goes though, I swear it knows and it tries to vanish and take his balls with him. Haha

Don't be a hero though, loads of people go back to work the next day or soon after . Also alot of them get infections and have to have it done again.

The doc tells you to take 2 weeks off, so do it, put your feet up and enjoy thinking about never having to worry about pulling out or using condoms with her etc again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your happy with someone coming t your balls with a scalpel, cutting them open, pulling bits around in there, culturing and tying bits up and sewing them back together when you are awake… you’ll be fine.

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

The smell of burning flesh was weird, especially as you know it's yours, but there are no real bodily sensations attached to it as the smell appears.

A tiny little bit of tugging, a strange, distant little sound like sawing through bone.

You're very aware of protecting them for about 5 days after, because they're swollen and sensitive, and, unless the process has changed, keeping on some manky, scabby, smelly surgical pants for 3+ days wasn't a highlight.

And I'd do it all again tomorrow.

But maybe that was because I had a coffee and a panini at the Carluccio's opposite the hospital.

It was great coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh. And complications, I had to return to see a doctor. And that has a funny story to it.

But it can get infected.

Again, it turned out alright.

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

One final thing.

If you can say to yourself:

"I may not be with this partner forever, and I'm still OK with never, ever, ever having kids even if I have an amazing life develop with another partner years later", then you're ready for a vasectomy.

They can be reversed, not always successfully, and, as you're in your early 30s, you need to be prepared for the possibility of never having kids and grandkids etc for the next 60+ years of your life, or jumping through a few more hoops if you do decide to change your mind about having them (including adoption if reversal etc doesn’t work).

We'd made the 3 kids we wanted, and were approaching 40, so that side of our lives was fully satisfied.

As someone else posted above, you need to talk to someone about the consequences, which are going to affect the majority of your life, and that majority of your life is yet to come.

I hope you and your partner spend another glorious 60 years together, but you're the only one living every second of every day with the consequences of a vasectomy...wonderful in so many ways...terrible in others.

Go talk with a professional (GP or counsellor), which would include (I think) harvesting sperm for IVF later in life if you change your mind in 5/10/20 years etc.

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By *enfella4uMan
over a year ago

staffs

I had snip a few years ago and all went well and safe to say no more little sprogs so all good now I can cum inside a woman with no worries about creating another life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it don't was uncomfortable for a few days, just feel like you been kicked in the bollock for couple days

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

Had it done years ago no problems at all back to normal straight away and you get to wank as much as possible to clear the system is a added bonus

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By *rT25Man
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Had it done a few years ago now.

Nothing to it really. Must have been no more than 20 minutes. Kind of funny having my dick out whilst a few nurses made small talk

Then after the procedure the nurse asked if I could show it to the student nurse. Of course everyone else has seen it today.

No uncomfort after, so there really is nothing to it

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough/ Kettering

I can remember the team in the operating theatre had the tennis on the TV from Wimbledon! Oh and the smell of burning after they sealed the pipes !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No tips really but my husband got it done years ago now and honestly best decision we ever made. No more kids no more contraceptives and as many creampies as he wants lol he was back at work the next day was just a bit tender x

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough/ Kettering

"No tips really but my husband got it done years ago now and honestly best decision we ever made. No more kids no more contraceptives and as many creampies as he wants lol he was back at work the next day was just a bit tender x"

A bit tender ? It felt like I'd been kicked in the balls for 24 hours

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

Try one ball and see how it goes

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By *onameyet2Man
over a year ago

chorley

Had it done years ago no issues really, was a bit strange though as the female surgeon had my balks in one hand a scalpel in the other but kept talking to me about football, I don’t think she was fully engaged with the task in hand

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By *outhern man.Man
over a year ago

Weymouth

I got done a few years back no problems best bit getting the Mrs to shave me,had no after effects.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like dropping a bottle of talc when I cum now

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

I had it done just over a year ago. At that point we had 2 children and that was 1 more than I wanted.

The procedure was fairly painless with the slight smell of burning flesh was surreal, so was having two nurses chatting away while my Jacobs were being tugged and prodded.

I had some serious swelling after and was in lots of pain, it didn't help that my mother in law was sat around my house so couldn't really sit around with my Jacobs hanging out.

It took a little while to heal with the pain there for a good while after, it's taken until a month or so ago to get the all clear for swimmers to be gone.

So was it unpleasant? Yes

Was it worth it? Yes

Do I regret it? No

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