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How do I make my profile more appealing?

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By *iuLiu OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin15

As the title says, how would i make my profile better and perhaps make it so it gets more attention. I have no idea where should i begin, i do know my bio is not the best but honestly idk what should i even put there. All the help is appreciated.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

If you read mine it will be a good starting point for you.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Expand your bio and have a wider variety of public pictures.

Talk about the kind of person you are, who you want to attract, and why you're interesting.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"If you read mine it will be a good starting point for you."

10/10

I'd shag ya

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"If you read mine it will be a good starting point for you.

10/10

I'd shag ya "

I did try to tell him about milkshake…

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"If you read mine it will be a good starting point for you.

10/10

I'd shag ya

I did try to tell him about milkshake… "

You can't choose who like you. I thought Obi was more McFlurry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the title says, how would i make my profile better and perhaps make it so it gets more attention. I have no idea where should i begin, i do know my bio is not the best but honestly idk what should i even put there. All the help is appreciated. "

You've answered your own question with saying your bio is not the best.

Look at profiles on the forums, they have content, they have humour, they give good info on the person without giving too much away. Your bio is.....nothing

I hate being a bitch but sometimes being harsh can help newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve read postage stamps with more information.

Add more words.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"As the title says, how would i make my profile better and perhaps make it so it gets more attention. I have no idea where should i begin, i do know my bio is not the best but honestly idk what should i even put there. All the help is appreciated.

You've answered your own question with saying your bio is not the best.

Look at profiles on the forums, they have content, they have humour, they give good info on the person without giving too much away. Your bio is.....nothing

I hate being a bitch but sometimes being harsh can help newbies"

It's not being g bitchy though - just honest.

A profile should be crafted by the owner, otherwise it becomes a mish mash of suggestions, created by committee and put together based on what others suggest would be good 'bait' to attract the target audience, rather than a true representation of the personality and traits of the person behind the words and pictures.

Nobody wants to read a profile, become invested and then discover that the person they're chatting to is fuck all like the shop window they found intriguing.

That's just false advertising.

Likewise there's no point just copying someone else's because you see them as in some way successful.

You'll end up looking like the Aldi knock off of their M&S masterpiece.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

If you sift through the nonsense, there is some good tips on this thread OP

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1559539

As mentioned above, do read a few mens profiles on here and pinch a few ideas

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"As the title says, how would i make my profile better and perhaps make it so it gets more attention. I have no idea where should i begin, i do know my bio is not the best but honestly idk what should i even put there. All the help is appreciated.

You've answered your own question with saying your bio is not the best.

Look at profiles on the forums, they have content, they have humour, they give good info on the person without giving too much away. Your bio is.....nothing

I hate being a bitch but sometimes being harsh can help newbies

It's not being g bitchy though - just honest.

A profile should be crafted by the owner, otherwise it becomes a mish mash of suggestions, created by committee and put together based on what others suggest would be good 'bait' to attract the target audience, rather than a true representation of the personality and traits of the person behind the words and pictures.

Nobody wants to read a profile, become invested and then discover that the person they're chatting to is fuck all like the shop window they found intriguing.

That's just false advertising.

Likewise there's no point just copying someone else's because you see them as in some way successful.

You'll end up looking like the Aldi knock off of their M&S masterpiece. "

Maybe we disagree

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hiya op

Firstly you only have one picture

Start by little bit about yourselves hobbies interests etc then lead on fantasies and what you can offer what you are looking for, things that you might want to explore

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

A bit of personality

Less of the sex reference

And tell them why you're here. Guess you're here for sex though see how that works out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the title says, how would i make my profile better and perhaps make it so it gets more attention. I have no idea where should i begin, i do know my bio is not the best but honestly idk what should i even put there. All the help is appreciated. "

Have a look around and see what else people have put. Maybe some of the more successful ones, get an idea of what sort of things need to go on be it a bit of personality, a few jokes etc

Also look through the forum as there are a few threads like this in the distant and near past. They may have top tips too

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By *iuLiu OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin15

Thanks for the replies guys, i guess ill just look around other ppl and try to make something of my own with a bit of inspiration

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Would you be curious about shagging you? How definite could you be, from seeing it? There's little to go on. Your pic doesn't give you much of a chance for anyone to know if they're more attracted to you than someone else. And there are a lot of others, so you'll get overlooked. People look at the profile of anyone who messages them, so focus your attention on having it give them what they need to be able to make a fair assessment of you.

We're not mutually compatible with most other people but if they don't know, it'll err towards no.

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