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What should a young single lad do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone! I’m back on fab after a bit of a break. I attend clubs and normally get contacts on fab from these events. For some reason even with being verified and photo verified some people are still very wary whether I’m real or not and don’t reply. What should I do because I just love socials and conversations with people and want many more!!!! Thanks everyone xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that definitely why they don’t reply?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be honest I’m not 100 percent about all of the people I message but I have asked a couple of people without trying to be rude and that’s the kind of response I have received yes?it’s very strange I just don’t know how else I can have normal conversations haha xx

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I would look at the person's profile who is mailing me. If it had no specifics that gave me any indication of compatibility, I wouldn't engage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone! I’m back on fab after a bit of a break. I attend clubs and normally get contacts on fab from these events. For some reason even with being verified and photo verified some people are still very wary whether I’m real or not and don’t reply. What should I do because I just love socials and conversations with people and want many more!!!! Thanks everyone xx"

You think they don’t really because you’re just too good to be true?

I admire your mindset

Don’t worry, fabs will beat that out of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya mate no I don’t think I’m a good looking lad at all. I genuinely just get from people that they don’t think I’m real on my account it’s so strange!I hope that clears things up. Cheers mate

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I find it very unlikely that people think you're fake. You've got all the hallmarks of a real profile, plus you're in a demographic that people are unlikely to fake (being a guy is the hardest thing on here, and being under 30 is challenging).

There are likely other reasons why they're not replying, and you should consider all factors (profile, pictures, status, messages).

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Keep going to the socials and events, someone might give you a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd swerve the daysac mate, it's a judgmental environment.....Karen's everywhere.

You'll be sound though

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Don't you assume that primatology it's because you're a single man? That, plus because most people are not mutually compatible with most other people.

There's so much chance that people will want people who they match with. You mentioned chatting - is this primarily to get sexual meetings? The reasons people are here vary and thus part of the filtering process. I'll go to clubs with people as well as talk with pretty much anyone there. I'll also want to have sex with some and many use clubs as neutral venues to meet Fab contacts for sex.

I think you may value from getting clearer about your objectives and having realistic expectations

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Appreciate it pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a tough one. I am not sure why they wouldn’t think you’re real. Keep trying? Hopefully you can get to some socials

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hope no one takes this topics the wrong way. All I mean is I love chatting to females and couples and sometimes by my own judgement I just believe people don’t think I’m real. I don’t think I’m gods gift it was just a genuine question. Thanks everyone

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I hope no one takes this topics the wrong way. All I mean is I love chatting to females and couples and sometimes by my own judgement I just believe people don’t think I’m real. I don’t think I’m gods gift it was just a genuine question. Thanks everyone "

I'm not upset. it's just an odd assumption on the available evidence.

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