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Would you meet that one person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That you like but is too far away for the regular sex your looking for? But you only get to meet them just the once? Or a few times maybe? But no more than handful?

Or would you rather never meet them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There feels like something romantic about the whole thing. Knowing that it is what it is. And having that happy time then going back to just being pen pals

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London

I rather never meet them so I don’t know what I’m missing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I rather never meet them so I don’t know what I’m missing "

But you’d always wonder, right?

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I've been in this situation. Travelled a long way to meet her a few times. I knew it couldn't be a regular thing, but it was worth it to spend some time with her. To me that was better than spending no time with her.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Probably if low effect

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'd rather enjoy what there is to enjoy if the opportunity to do so at all is there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Yes. 100% but it would be more than once

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"That you like but is too far away for the regular sex your looking for? But you only get to meet them just the once? Or a few times maybe? But no more than handful?

Or would you rather never meet them? "

I think I'd rather meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a 2024 pinky promise!!

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London

I’ll get over the wondering faster than I would get over the heartbreak of having something I can only have briefly…but that is me and how my weird wonky brain works

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"That you like but is too far away for the regular sex your looking for? But you only get to meet them just the once? Or a few times maybe? But no more than handful?

Or would you rather never meet them? "

I would meet for a one off.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’d meet them. Even if just for a hot drink.

Otherwise you’d spend forever wondering “what if”.

As they say, better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.

Just don’t place any massive expectations on it and then can’t be too dissapointed.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. No. Maybe.

Probably I think hook up sex can be fun with someone you really fancy and get along with, and it can get alsorts if exciting has the time you finally will meet becomes closer and closer. And the fact you might not get a chance to be together again for a long time makes that moment a lot more intense and meaningful maybe.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

I'm not sure.

Possibly for a drink (not necessarily alcohol). For sex? No.

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By *ewcatWoman
over a year ago

Berkshire


"That you like but is too far away for the regular sex your looking for? But you only get to meet them just the once? Or a few times maybe? But no more than handful?

Or would you rather never meet them? "

I guess it depends on how strong the connection is. A 3.5 hour drive might fly by and only feel like 13 minutes if you really desire someone and need that physical connection.

I would always work out how to do the meet if there is a strong enough connection. Even if it’s just one filthy weekend or only a few times a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would depend who

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been in this situation. Travelled a long way to meet her a few times. I knew it couldn't be a regular thing, but it was worth it to spend some time with her. To me that was better than spending no time with her."

Awww this! I want this to be in the stories section so I can live through you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

It would break there heart

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

There’s a few I hope to meet just once , one day, just for a social but it will likely end in sex as I’m weak !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would depend who"

Someone you hypothetically really like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never

It would break there heart "
and yours if it was still there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it, and probably would again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've done it, and probably would again. "
tell me EVERYTHING

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

It depends on how long I'd known them.

Ip to 6 months.... debatable.

More than 6 months, I'd make the effort.... definitely.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe


"I've been in this situation. Travelled a long way to meet her a few times. I knew it couldn't be a regular thing, but it was worth it to spend some time with her. To me that was better than spending no time with her.

Awww this! I want this to be in the stories section so I can live through you "

Haha I've never really used the stories section. Is it supposed to be fictional stories?

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
over a year ago

London

I would travel and meet him. I'm a romantic person. Plus connection is not easy to find here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% it’s a bit like the better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.

We would always have memories of our passionate night to look back on

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

I would’ve met Fred. But after he finished… well, you all know about that.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Yes. And I’m glad I did.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"That you like but is too far away for the regular sex your looking for? But you only get to meet them just the once? Or a few times maybe? But no more than handful?

Or would you rather never meet them? "

I'd meet them. Why not? Any interaction with them doesn't prevent any interactions with anyone else, so what's stopping you finding that regular sex you're looking from elsewhere?

Why can't both happen?

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By *hesubtlegentMan
over a year ago

surrey

I would and I have. And it was worth it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would travel and meet him. I'm a romantic person. Plus connection is not easy to find here. "
would you book a flight

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been in this situation. Travelled a long way to meet her a few times. I knew it couldn't be a regular thing, but it was worth it to spend some time with her. To me that was better than spending no time with her.

Awww this! I want this to be in the stories section so I can live through you

Haha I've never really used the stories section. Is it supposed to be fictional stories?"

I think there’s fiction in there that’s based on truth

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

There is one man I would love to meet! We been messaging over 5 years! Message most days! One day! One day!we will! And yes even if it was just the once! X

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"That you like but is too far away for the regular sex your looking for? But you only get to meet them just the once? Or a few times maybe? But no more than handful?

Or would you rather never meet them? "

100% would like to meet them

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
over a year ago

London


"There is one man I would love to meet! We been messaging over 5 years! Message most days! One day! One day!we will! And yes even if it was just the once! X"

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Don't mind travelling.

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan
over a year ago

Londontown

I'd like to enjoy it for what it is.....

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

If the stars aligned and there was an opportunity to have sex with someone, but it's likely we wouldn't meet again or even years between?

Fuck yes, every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love too!! Life is complicated and my confidence needs a boost before I take the plunge to that extent though!!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sure I'd meet them and the next time can meet half way

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
over a year ago

Maidstone

I've no problem meeting someone just once. I assume every meet I have will be a one off, as you just don't know till you meet. *shrugs*

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Sure! Why the hell not? Life is short to not try things if you are curious. In whole lifetime ago, pre-fab I once made a 4 hour journey to go on a dinner date with a guy I’d never met before. Was I a little naive, sure but I also planned my weekend around what I wanted to do by myself just in case it didn’t work out

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By *ittle. BeaverWoman
over a year ago

Launceston

I definitely would if I fancied him that much! I'd like to hope I could keep it in perspective and not get hurt that it was just a one off etc. But I'd still take the risk of being hurt just to experience that night! Lol

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yes

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Ordinarily no because of the insurmountable legwork required to make a social or a meet like this sufficiently viable. However...

I'm actually germinating the seeds of this type of encounter right now. Up until now it's been 15 months of flirtatious friendship based on long-distance penmanship, with the remote possiblity of just meeting for drinks if our well-trodden paths ever aligned somewhere in middle-England.

Now it's something 'more' and imminent: a 'romantic date' in every conceivable way, despite the vast distance between us and the unpalatable notion of it being a one-off encounter (I absolutely hope not!). It's almost mythical and whimsical.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Ordinarily no because of the insurmountable legwork required to make a social or a meet like this sufficiently viable. However...

I'm actually germinating the seeds of this type of encounter right now. Up until now it's been 15 months of flirtatious friendship based on long-distance penmanship, with the remote possiblity of just meeting for drinks if our well-trodden paths ever aligned somewhere in middle-England.

Now it's something 'more' and imminent: a 'romantic date' in every conceivable way, despite the vast distance between us and the unpalatable notion of it being a one-off encounter (I absolutely hope not!). It's almost mythical and whimsical."

Bugger I've missed the boat lol

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I'll meet em. Just needs planning

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Unsure. I don’t often fancy people who live really far away. I will talk to them as friends but I think distance stops me from being really attracted to them. I can honestly say I’m not pining for anyone that doesn’t live near me.

Never say never though.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Yea i would, and i have. Distance doesn't bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unsure. I don’t often fancy people who live really far away. I will talk to them as friends but I think distance stops me from being really attracted to them. I can honestly say I’m not pining for anyone that doesn’t live near me.

Never say never though. "

I know what you mean! There’s an Element of well it’s so unlikely to happen my brain won’t let me get excited about it

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Fuck yes. Because I’m not romantic. I go for what I want.

And some meets you know it may only be once or twice so you pack months worth into those precious hours. You take chances. Make moves. Waste no time. It’s exhilarating. It’s reminded me to live in the moment. Take every shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I wouldn't put in the time and work needed to trust someone enough to have sex with them for just a one-off.

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By *lueseasWoman
over a year ago

Leamington Spa


"There feels like something romantic about the whole thing. Knowing that it is what it is. And having that happy time then going back to just being pen pals "

Definitely very romantic, in a desperately maudlin way… basically irresistible!!

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Oh meet and one off but with extra brucey power thrown in for the memories of it.

There's so many if I was in a hotel nearby I would be putting them on fab speed dial!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Ordinarily no because of the insurmountable legwork required to make a social or a meet like this sufficiently viable. However...

I'm actually germinating the seeds of this type of encounter right now. Up until now it's been 15 months of flirtatious friendship based on long-distance penmanship, with the remote possiblity of just meeting for drinks if our well-trodden paths ever aligned somewhere in middle-England.

Now it's something 'more' and imminent: a 'romantic date' in every conceivable way, despite the vast distance between us and the unpalatable notion of it being a one-off encounter (I absolutely hope not!). It's almost mythical and whimsical.

·

Bugger I've missed the boat lol"

•

I've got you a better boat.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Ordinarily no because of the insurmountable legwork required to make a social or a meet like this sufficiently viable. However...

I'm actually germinating the seeds of this type of encounter right now. Up until now it's been 15 months of flirtatious friendship based on long-distance penmanship, with the remote possiblity of just meeting for drinks if our well-trodden paths ever aligned somewhere in middle-England.

Now it's something 'more' and imminent: a 'romantic date' in every conceivable way, despite the vast distance between us and the unpalatable notion of it being a one-off encounter (I absolutely hope not!). It's almost mythical and whimsical.

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Bugger I've missed the boat lol

•

I've got you a better boat. "

Oh my

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"That you like but is too far away for the regular sex your looking for? But you only get to meet them just the once? Or a few times maybe? But no more than handful?

Or would you rather never meet them? "

Absolutely I would! It sounds like a holiday romance and who doesn’t enjoy those given the chance?

As long as no one gets the real feels and ends up getting hurt, it’s two adults who (really really) enjoy each other’s company and want to do sexing. No harm in that and it would be a wonderful memory. If I didn’t, I would always wonder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd definitely meet them and then wail in misery that i couldn't meet them again

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Yes. I got chatting to an unfeasibly hot guy in Edinburgh and would fly/take the train up from London on an occasional basis because he was so worth it. I'd make a long weekend of it and do vanilla stuff too so I absolutely would - for the right people.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Fuck yes. Because I’m not romantic. I go for what I want.

And some meets you know it may only be once or twice so you pack months worth into those precious hours. You take chances. Make moves. Waste no time. It’s exhilarating. It’s reminded me to live in the moment. Take every shot. "

I knew you had the hots for me, you eastern counties goddess

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Fuck yes. Because I’m not romantic. I go for what I want.

And some meets you know it may only be once or twice so you pack months worth into those precious hours. You take chances. Make moves. Waste no time. It’s exhilarating. It’s reminded me to live in the moment. Take every shot.

I knew you had the hots for me, you eastern counties goddess "

Get back in the van!!!

Also - I’m not an Essex girl.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Fuck yes. Because I’m not romantic. I go for what I want.

And some meets you know it may only be once or twice so you pack months worth into those precious hours. You take chances. Make moves. Waste no time. It’s exhilarating. It’s reminded me to live in the moment. Take every shot.

I knew you had the hots for me, you eastern counties goddess

Get back in the van!!!

Also - I’m not an Essex girl. "

Yes mistress! I said eastern counties......christ, this chloroform is overp.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck yes. Because I’m not romantic. I go for what I want.

And some meets you know it may only be once or twice so you pack months worth into those precious hours. You take chances. Make moves. Waste no time. It’s exhilarating. It’s reminded me to live in the moment. Take every shot.

I knew you had the hots for me, you eastern counties goddess

Get back in the van!!!

Also - I’m not an Essex girl. "

I would meet you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fuck yes. Because I’m not romantic. I go for what I want.

And some meets you know it may only be once or twice so you pack months worth into those precious hours. You take chances. Make moves. Waste no time. It’s exhilarating. It’s reminded me to live in the moment. Take every shot.

I knew you had the hots for me, you eastern counties goddess

Get back in the van!!!

Also - I’m not an Essex girl. "

Where’s your accent from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did meet someone who really was too far away.

Ended up with huge heart ache. Would not recommend.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Fuck yes. Because I’m not romantic. I go for what I want.

And some meets you know it may only be once or twice so you pack months worth into those precious hours. You take chances. Make moves. Waste no time. It’s exhilarating. It’s reminded me to live in the moment. Take every shot.

I knew you had the hots for me, you eastern counties goddess

Get back in the van!!!

Also - I’m not an Essex girl.

Where’s your accent from? "

Staffordshire

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fuck yes. Because I’m not romantic. I go for what I want.

And some meets you know it may only be once or twice so you pack months worth into those precious hours. You take chances. Make moves. Waste no time. It’s exhilarating. It’s reminded me to live in the moment. Take every shot.

I knew you had the hots for me, you eastern counties goddess

Get back in the van!!!

Also - I’m not an Essex girl.

Where’s your accent from?

Staffordshire "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I would and have a few times. You know ots just going to be once so you make the most of it

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Have done, it was delightful.

And have plans to do so again.

What's not to like? You both know the score. Jump in with both feet cos there's nothing to lose.

Mrs TMN x

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I met him. It was only supposed to be a one off due to having to catch a plane to see each other. That was over 4 years ago, and it looks like he's stuck with me now

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

The problem with me meeting folks is im too addictive also im retired so it would be like an alcoholic living in a pub

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By *ove2lick27Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

At the end of the day fab is a site for sex and not really a dating site. However I'm sure relationships have been formed from being on here but initially I'm sure a first meet is just either a social or for sex not necessarily a relationship.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"The problem with me meeting folks is im too addictive also im retired so it would be like an alcoholic living in a pub "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rather never meet them so I don’t know what I’m missing

But you’d always wonder, right? "

No. Sweet is right, some things are best left unknown.

Bit the ending of a film "night of the demon" when the lead character says that

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By *cflirtyMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

I would meet, if you like them that much , why wouldn't you?

I'd forever be saying "what if"... otherwise.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"That you like but is too far away for the regular sex your looking for? But you only get to meet them just the once? Or a few times maybe? But no more than handful?

Or would you rather never meet them? "

I'd meet them.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I would if our timings aligned, we’ve both agreed it will happen one day

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"I would if our timings aligned, we’ve both agreed it will happen one day"

•

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is too far away for me at the moment but yes absolutely I will travel to meet a special person.

If a connection is there (and not just travel wise ) then it’s always worth some effort.

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By *aseylee324Couple
over a year ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

I prefer not to meet anyone more than a couple of times anyway, so yeah, if I thought it was worth it, I would.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

One off fucks are great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'd go for the one off and have that lasting memory really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last time I was on here, I became friendly with 3 ladies. 1 was over in Ireland, 1 in Essex and 1 nearer Manchester. We ended up just being pen pals, so to speak, but of there was ever an opportunity, I would have loved to have met them for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def meet.

Better to have and lost than never have it at all. To finally experience and have fun with that person that loves too far would be a dream. Would still be in touch after anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely I would. I'm here to swing with fun people and have new experiences and make memories. I've travelled for one offs, it's why cars were invented

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"Absolutely I would. I'm here to swing with fun people and have new experiences and make memories. I've travelled for one offs, it's why cars were invented "

This is right

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