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"Believed in me. " That's a big one. I always tell my partner I believe in her. | |||
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"I’ve been struggling to go outside (depression/some personal stuff) for last couple of months - one of my mates phoned me this morning and said he would drive and pick me up this week at a convenient time/day for me to whisk me to some nice countryside for a walk so we can have a non-intensive time outside in pleasant surroundings that aren’t too crowded. It made me cry as it’s the first moment that one of my mates has really “got” it lately and what’s more it’s not the expected mate, it’s someone I adore but I would have expected others to have done something ahead of him. I really appreciate him for taking the time to carve out space for me in a way that is accessible for me, rather than just expecting me to fit into his existing plans or agenda. "Being 'seen' and considered is pretty huge. | |||
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"I’ve been struggling to go outside (depression/some personal stuff) for last couple of months - one of my mates phoned me this morning and said he would drive and pick me up this week at a convenient time/day for me to whisk me to some nice countryside for a walk so we can have a non-intensive time outside in pleasant surroundings that aren’t too crowded. It made me cry as it’s the first moment that one of my mates has really “got” it lately and what’s more it’s not the expected mate, it’s someone I adore but I would have expected others to have done something ahead of him. I really appreciate him for taking the time to carve out space for me in a way that is accessible for me, rather than just expecting me to fit into his existing plans or agenda. "That’s lovely, enjoy | |||
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"Believed in me. That's a big one. I always tell my partner I believe in her." It is, very true. What's the nicest thing someone has done for you though? | |||
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"Believed in me. That's a big one. I always tell my partner I believe in her. It is, very true. What's the nicest thing someone has done for you though?" Um..I'm not really sure. My bar is pretty low so just someone showing they have thought about me and care is enough. | |||
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"Believed in me. That's a big one. I always tell my partner I believe in her. It is, very true. What's the nicest thing someone has done for you though? Um..I'm not really sure. My bar is pretty low so just someone showing they have thought about me and care is enough. " But it sounds as though you will make the effort for others. You deserve that too. | |||
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"I was very depressed and on the verge of giving up on life. My dad lived a long way away. He drove a whole day just to see me. To tell me he loved me and that I mattered. And then he had to drive back again. He died last month and I keep thinking of that. "That's a really powerful memory to have of your dad. I'm sorry for your loss. | |||
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"anyone has ever done for you? (Non-sexual) " Went due a job interview abs was getting wet on the way back. The bus came and the driver says exact change please which I only had notes. An old guy gave me the £3 fair. I almost cried. Didn't get the job either. | |||
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"Believed in me. That's a big one. I always tell my partner I believe in her. It is, very true. What's the nicest thing someone has done for you though? Um..I'm not really sure. My bar is pretty low so just someone showing they have thought about me and care is enough. But it sounds as though you will make the effort for others. You deserve that too." Probably but I have issues with self worth. I don't really believe it. | |||
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"I was very depressed and on the verge of giving up on life. My dad lived a long way away. He drove a whole day just to see me. To tell me he loved me and that I mattered. And then he had to drive back again. He died last month and I keep thinking of that.
That's a really powerful memory to have of your dad. I'm sorry for your loss."Thank you | |||
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"Took me for my chemo appointment during my cancer treatment when my car broke down " That's an important nice thing to do | |||
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"I was very depressed and on the verge of giving up on life. My dad lived a long way away. He drove a whole day just to see me. To tell me he loved me and that I mattered. And then he had to drive back again. He died last month and I keep thinking of that. "Obviously a great guy. Sounds like he will be missed. My condolences.  | |||
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"Must be being loved in the purest and most unconditional way by my children. "That has to be the highest, most valuable thing you can receive. Unconditional love. But we all have to remember... to give it, is to receive it. | |||
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"I was very depressed and on the verge of giving up on life. My dad lived a long way away. He drove a whole day just to see me. To tell me he loved me and that I mattered. And then he had to drive back again. He died last month and I keep thinking of that. "I'm so sorry for your loss, sending you love x | |||
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"I was very depressed and on the verge of giving up on life. My dad lived a long way away. He drove a whole day just to see me. To tell me he loved me and that I mattered. And then he had to drive back again. He died last month and I keep thinking of that. "This warmed my heart. I’m sorry for your loss. | |||
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"I think I've been very lucky in life because my loved ones and friends have done many nice things for me. The ones that stand out are things like Mr N making sure I had sharp pencils for my evening class or my daughter making me up a tin with cartoon characters on it and coloured pencils in it to take or the time I wasn't well and my dad just left his car on the drive with the keys in it without saying a word so I didn't have to walk to collect the kids from school. My life has been full of kindness "Family based goodness here to*: When I had my own place, pre kids, I was poorly and my mum did a food shop for me and also had bought what seemed like half a Chemist for me. She put it all away for me and then went home. My late nan and gramp practically half raised me because my mum, as a single mum, worked all the hours she could to keep a roof over our head. My gramp would collect me from School and drive me to Dental appointments etc. They’d contribute towards my School uniform, new shoes etc. And the biggest thing (to me) I’d split with my ex just before discovering I was pregnant with our second child (he had moved on swiftly to a new relationship so wasn’t keen to be involved). My mum came with me to all the Hospital appointments, of which there was many as I had complications, came to the Hospital in the ambulance with me and stayed during the birth so I wasn’t alone. She acted as cheerleader/kick up the ass person. She collected us from the Hospital the next morning too, all whilst running her own Business and us having lost my Step-dad the month before. I’ve been very lucky with my family. They figure heavily in some of the bestest, happiest times I’ve ever had and my memories of them are full of love .
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"anyone has ever done for you? (Non-sexual) " My new love sent me this quote yesterday. If you want to know where your heart is look to where Your mind goes to when it wanders . This was after telling me the other day that she fucked up in meeting at work Because her mind had wandered back to us makeing love . | |||
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"I was very depressed and on the verge of giving up on life. My dad lived a long way away. He drove a whole day just to see me. To tell me he loved me and that I mattered. And then he had to drive back again. He died last month and I keep thinking of that.
Obviously a great guy. Sounds like he will be missed.
My condolences.
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I can honestly say though, I've never had anything nice done for me.
I tend to pay forward and I'm sure it'll come around sometime, but it's not expected. | |||
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"Smacked my mother when I was born, instead of me.
I can honestly say though, I've never had anything nice done for me.
I tend to pay forward and I'm sure it'll come around sometime, but it's not expected."Sorry to hear that | |||
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"I know this is going to sound childish Hear goes Was in children’s home from a very young age My father liked his alcohol more than us liked to lock us up in wardrobes spare rooms my only Xmas at home my dad smashed a scalectrix up pure malice My dear departed wife bought me one for Xmas a while ago now Nicest thing anyone has done for me "Not childish at all! That was a kind thing she did, knowing how much you'd get out of the gift. | |||
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"I know this is going to sound childish Hear goes Was in children’s home from a very young age My father liked his alcohol more than us liked to lock us up in wardrobes spare rooms my only Xmas at home my dad smashed a scalectrix up pure malice My dear departed wife bought me one for Xmas a while ago now Nicest thing anyone has done for me "That's brillent | |||
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"I think I've been very lucky in life because my loved ones and friends have done many nice things for me. The ones that stand out are things like Mr N making sure I had sharp pencils for my evening class or my daughter making me up a tin with cartoon characters on it and coloured pencils in it to take or the time I wasn't well and my dad just left his car on the drive with the keys in it without saying a word so I didn't have to walk to collect the kids from school. My life has been full of kindness
Family based goodness here to*:
When I had my own place, pre kids, I was poorly and my mum did a food shop for me and also had bought what seemed like half a Chemist for me. She put it all away for me and then went home.
My late nan and gramp practically half raised me because my mum, as a single mum, worked all the hours she could to keep a roof over our head. My gramp would collect me from School and drive me to Dental appointments etc. They’d contribute towards my School uniform, new shoes etc.
And the biggest thing (to me) I’d split with my ex just before discovering I was pregnant with our second child (he had moved on swiftly to a new relationship so wasn’t keen to be involved). My mum came with me to all the Hospital appointments, of which there was many as I had complications, came to the Hospital in the ambulance with me and stayed during the birth so I wasn’t alone. She acted as cheerleader/kick up the ass person. She collected us from the Hospital the next morning too, all whilst running her own Business and us having lost my Step-dad the month before.
I’ve been very lucky with my family. They figure heavily in some of the bestest, happiest times I’ve ever had and my memories of them are full of love .
*apologies for the long rambling post
"Never any need to apologise for the length of a post when you are remembering such kindness amongst difficult times. | |||
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"I think I've been very lucky in life because my loved ones and friends have done many nice things for me. The ones that stand out are things like Mr N making sure I had sharp pencils for my evening class or my daughter making me up a tin with cartoon characters on it and coloured pencils in it to take or the time I wasn't well and my dad just left his car on the drive with the keys in it without saying a word so I didn't have to walk to collect the kids from school. My life has been full of kindness
Family based goodness here to*:
When I had my own place, pre kids, I was poorly and my mum did a food shop for me and also had bought what seemed like half a Chemist for me. She put it all away for me and then went home.
My late nan and gramp practically half raised me because my mum, as a single mum, worked all the hours she could to keep a roof over our head. My gramp would collect me from School and drive me to Dental appointments etc. They’d contribute towards my School uniform, new shoes etc.
And the biggest thing (to me) I’d split with my ex just before discovering I was pregnant with our second child (he had moved on swiftly to a new relationship so wasn’t keen to be involved). My mum came with me to all the Hospital appointments, of which there was many as I had complications, came to the Hospital in the ambulance with me and stayed during the birth so I wasn’t alone. She acted as cheerleader/kick up the ass person. She collected us from the Hospital the next morning too, all whilst running her own Business and us having lost my Step-dad the month before.
I’ve been very lucky with my family. They figure heavily in some of the bestest, happiest times I’ve ever had and my memories of them are full of love .
*apologies for the long rambling post
"Thank you for sharing, Luna. You are lucky to have such a family! | |||
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"I tend to be nice to everyone but never get it in return " Sorry to hear that | |||
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"Chose to spend time with me. I don't want your money honey, I just want your time "This! | |||
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"anyone has ever done for you? (Non-sexual) " Just being there, a positive constant force. | |||
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"I dont want to go there but i did a nice thing for a stranger today i saw a lady carrying something heavy so offered to carry it to her home for her thinking she lived on that street she didnt it 1 was 3 streets away with a big steep hill at the end i was fooked by the end but i couldnt show it stupid ego "What a lovely kind thing you did x | |||
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"I dont want to go there but i did a nice thing for a stranger today i saw a lady carrying something heavy so offered to carry it to her home for her thinking she lived on that street she didnt it 1 was 3 streets away with a big steep hill at the end i was fooked by the end but i couldnt show it stupid ego
What a lovely kind thing you did x"would have killed the poor lass off and i werent doing awt important at the time | |||
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"I dont want to go there but i did a nice thing for a stranger today i saw a lady carrying something heavy so offered to carry it to her home for her thinking she lived on that street she didnt it 1 was 3 streets away with a big steep hill at the end i was fooked by the end but i couldnt show it stupid ego
What a lovely kind thing you did xwould have killed the poor lass off and i werent doing awt important at the time " but it's things like this that restore my faith in humanity x | |||
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"I dont want to go there but i did a nice thing for a stranger today i saw a lady carrying something heavy so offered to carry it to her home for her thinking she lived on that street she didnt it 1 was 3 streets away with a big steep hill at the end i was fooked by the end but i couldnt show it stupid ego
What a lovely kind thing you did xwould have killed the poor lass off and i werent doing awt important at the time
but it's things like this that restore my faith in humanity x"my god dont use me as a benchmark for humanity you would be very disapointed | |||
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"I dont want to go there but i did a nice thing for a stranger today i saw a lady carrying something heavy so offered to carry it to her home for her thinking she lived on that street she didnt it 1 was 3 streets away with a big steep hill at the end i was fooked by the end but i couldnt show it stupid ego
What a lovely kind thing you did xwould have killed the poor lass off and i werent doing awt important at the time
but it's things like this that restore my faith in humanity xmy god dont use me as a benchmark for humanity you would be very disapointed "Lol ... don't worry my faith in humanity won't last very long x | |||
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"My Mum and Dad worked their arses off so that I would want for nothing and still have that parental instinct to offer to help despite me having a good life and career on the back of their efforts. They're an incredible support system whom I love and I should probably tell them that a lot more " | |||
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"I’ve been struggling to go outside (depression/some personal stuff) for last couple of months - one of my mates phoned me this morning and said he would drive and pick me up this week at a convenient time/day for me to whisk me to some nice countryside for a walk so we can have a non-intensive time outside in pleasant surroundings that aren’t too crowded. It made me cry as it’s the first moment that one of my mates has really “got” it lately and what’s more it’s not the expected mate, it’s someone I adore but I would have expected others to have done something ahead of him. I really appreciate him for taking the time to carve out space for me in a way that is accessible for me, rather than just expecting me to fit into his existing plans or agenda. "Beautiful and amazing, i would love to hear how you got on and enjoyed that time walking in amazing surroundings, | |||
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"Kept me alive xmouth to mouth or chest massage?" Both | |||
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"Kept me alive xmouth to mouth or chest massage? Both "well im glad you both got lucky | |||
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"Used lube." I was scrolling through the heartfelt replies, thinking aww that's lovely. And then read yours. | |||
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"Gave birth to me, as I'm a fucking legend, pissing rainbows and farthing glitter every where I go.. Mr " Well done Mum Grey  | |||
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"I’ve been blessed and overwhelmed by the kindness of others so many times, but one that stands out was when I was starting out a guy I did some work for had a bigger company and bought me a very expensive drill set " That is a thoughtful thing to do. | |||
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"Gave birth to me, as I'm a fucking legend, pissing rainbows and farthing glitter every where I go.. Mr Well done Mum Grey "She did alright
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"Gave birth to me, as I'm a fucking legend, pissing rainbows and farthing glitter every where I go.. Mr Well done Mum Grey
She did alright
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