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By *urnedoutniceagain OP   Man
over a year ago

louth

This is not a rant or a complaint just a question!!

Quite often ladies some of whom who show themselves as Bi on their profiles will quite clearly specify “no bi guys”. I understand that everyone has their own likes , dislikes and preferences but just wondered what it is that those people dislike about Bi guys

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

It’s two different things though. It’s irrelevant if the woman is bi herself. I don’t dislike bi guys but two women together is a turn on for me. Two men together is not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s two different things though. It’s irrelevant if the woman is bi herself. I don’t dislike bi guys but two women together is a turn on for me. Two men together is not. "

They don’t have to be with other men in front of you?

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By *urnedoutniceagain OP   Man
over a year ago

louth


"It’s two different things though. It’s irrelevant if the woman is bi herself. I don’t dislike bi guys but two women together is a turn on for me. Two men together is not. "

Thanks for taking the time to reply. May I ask? Would you meet a Bi guy one on one?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"It’s two different things though. It’s irrelevant if the woman is bi herself. I don’t dislike bi guys but two women together is a turn on for me. Two men together is not.

Thanks for taking the time to reply. May I ask? Would you meet a Bi guy one on one?"

Probably not but it’s not because of any other reason other than that I don’t like to share and if he’s bi I’m not gonna be able to satisfy that side and I certainly won’t be wanting any bi threesomes. So I prefer straight

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By *urnedoutniceagain OP   Man
over a year ago

louth


"It’s two different things though. It’s irrelevant if the woman is bi herself. I don’t dislike bi guys but two women together is a turn on for me. Two men together is not.

Thanks for taking the time to reply. May I ask? Would you meet a Bi guy one on one?

Probably not but it’s not because of any other reason other than that I don’t like to share and if he’s bi I’m not gonna be able to satisfy that side and I certainly won’t be wanting any bi threesomes. So I prefer straight "

Horses for courses!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"This is not a rant or a complaint just a question!!

Quite often ladies some of whom who show themselves as Bi on their profiles will quite clearly specify “no bi guys”. I understand that everyone has their own likes , dislikes and preferences but just wondered what it is that those people dislike about Bi guys"
although they don't say it think its probably more to do with the STDs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi guys are dangerous because they can’t control themselves around other men and will always try to fuck the straight male half of the couple

Always

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

There's lots of posts like this op and lots of reasons it seems.

I don't mind bi men and those who state no bi men are just cutting out the honest ones.

Many bi men will state they're straight, because of the couples and ladies who won't meet them.

You'll never really know if you've met a Bi man in reality, unless they're honest about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi guys are dangerous because they can’t control themselves around other men and will always try to fuck the straight male half of the couple

Always "

Much better to go with straight guys, they’ve never stepped out of line in terms of respect or consent

That’s just the truth

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Use it as a filter op, if they don't wanna meet you, why would you want to meet them anyway.

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By *urnedoutniceagain OP   Man
over a year ago

louth


"Bi guys are dangerous because they can’t control themselves around other men and will always try to fuck the straight male half of the couple

Always "

Sounds like you have had bad experiences! I have to say for me personally I will always go with what is discussed. I certainly don’t feel the need to leap on a cock as soon as I see it and am more than happy leaving it alone if that is what has been agreed

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Because the thought of 2 guys together is a huge turn off. I don’t have an issue with their choices but it isn’t mine.

Yes, it’s double standards

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Bi guys are dangerous because they can’t control themselves around other men and will always try to fuck the straight male half of the couple

Always

Sounds like you have had bad experiences! I have to say for me personally I will always go with what is discussed. I certainly don’t feel the need to leap on a cock as soon as I see it and am more than happy leaving it alone if that is what has been agreed"

I think he’s being sarky

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Because the thought of 2 guys together is a huge turn off. I don’t have an issue with their choices but it isn’t mine.

Yes, it’s double standards "

It’s not though x

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By *urnedoutniceagain OP   Man
over a year ago

louth


"Because the thought of 2 guys together is a huge turn off. I don’t have an issue with their choices but it isn’t mine.

Yes, it’s double standards "

Not double standards just personal preference! We all like different things

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By *ackandviolet96Couple
over a year ago

Gateshead

In our opinion there can be a stigma around it for some people, not all people and naturally you will have preferences as everyone's does and that should be respected. It does seem odd to be against bi guys if you yourself as a woman are bi in our opinion. The way we see it is if you don't want to meet us cus jack is bi and that's a problem then that's only a good thing for us as we would not want to be around people that hold that opinion.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"Because the thought of 2 guys together is a huge turn off. I don’t have an issue with their choices but it isn’t mine.

Yes, it’s double standards

Not double standards just personal preference! We all like different things "

We do! I say this because my views on 2 women together are entirely different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because the thought of 2 guys together is a huge turn off. I don’t have an issue with their choices but it isn’t mine.

Yes, it’s double standards

It’s not though x"

I think it’s kind of a double standard, in that collectively we all say we shouldn’t judge people on their sexual past

For example, I’m turned off by women with a high body count. That’s a judgement I make based off someone’s sexual past, and I’m heavily critiqued for that opinion

But we’re allowed to say “you’ve been with a man before? Ew no thanks” and it’s a standard that is accepted

Ultimately, you do you, no one’s gonna make you sleep with someone you don’t want to. But I don’t think we can rule out the double standard

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Because the thought of 2 guys together is a huge turn off. I don’t have an issue with their choices but it isn’t mine.

Yes, it’s double standards

It’s not though x

I think it’s kind of a double standard, in that collectively we all say we shouldn’t judge people on their sexual past

For example, I’m turned off by women with a high body count. That’s a judgement I make based off someone’s sexual past, and I’m heavily critiqued for that opinion

But we’re allowed to say “you’ve been with a man before? Ew no thanks” and it’s a standard that is accepted

Ultimately, you do you, no one’s gonna make you sleep with someone you don’t want to. But I don’t think we can rule out the double standard "

I can with this. It’s not double standards. It’s two totally different things.

Yeah the body count thing I can see as double standards but absolutely not this.

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By *urnedoutniceagain OP   Man
over a year ago

louth

Some open and honest answers and opinions, thanks for sharing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Ultimately, you do you, no one’s gonna make you sleep with someone you don’t want to. But I don’t think we can rule out the double standard

I can with this. It’s not double standards. It’s two totally different things.

Yeah the body count thing I can see as double standards but absolutely not this. "

Completely missed the bi men vs bi women aspect! My bad

Yeah, zero double standard there. 2 completely different sexual acts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi guys are dangerous because they can’t control themselves around other men and will always try to fuck the straight male half of the couple

Always "

Also because they can’t control themselves so they’re going to cheat and give you an STI.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s mainly the men who don’t like bi guys some men just don’t like the thought of another man touching or thinking of stuff but the women say they are no to get the other women for the men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s mainly the men who don’t like bi guys some men just don’t like the thought of another man touching or thinking of stuff but the women say they are no to get the other women for the men

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

There are plenty of lesbians on fab who do not want to meet bi women, but I don’t think I’ve ever seen a thread commenting on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are plenty of lesbians on fab who do not want to meet bi women, but I don’t think I’ve ever seen a thread commenting on it. "

Fab is a weird place. I’m straight but my fiancé is bi and I’ve seen and engaged with plenty of conversations about this and some of the biphobia that often comes with this online. Just on different social media.

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By *riveinsaturdayXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I’m a bi guy. I, stupidly, put this on my profile when I would have been better off putting ‘straight’ to lie to people, like so many dudes on here. I’m also riddled with STIs and never get tested, so I will be highly likely pass them between men & women cos I have no control - I just see a man or a woman and I’m in there, like a shot. I’m not discerning. I’m not careful. I’m probably just greedy and reckless, or something.

…At least, this is what I’ve been often told over the years…despite ALL my behaviour being to the contrary, lol.

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By *urnedoutniceagain OP   Man
over a year ago

louth


"I’m a bi guy. I, stupidly, put this on my profile when I would have been better off putting ‘straight’ to lie to people, like so many dudes on here. I’m also riddled with STIs and never get tested, so I will be highly likely pass them between men & women cos I have no control - I just see a man or a woman and I’m in there, like a shot. I’m not discerning. I’m not careful. I’m probably just greedy and reckless, or something.

…At least, this is what I’ve been often told over the years…despite ALL my behaviour being to the contrary, lol. "

Amen brother!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Bi guys are dangerous because they can’t control themselves around other men and will always try to fuck the straight male half of the couple

Always "

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

It doesn't bother me, we all have our own tastes and we should respect that.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"It doesn't bother me, we all have our own tastes and we should respect that."

True. Some people need reasons. I never ask for them or give them. If you’re not compatible you’re not compatible. That’s enough for me.

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