FabSwingers.com forum: What a vile thing to do

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, a dear friend ( lady ) from here arranged a meet with another lady.

All was arranged for last night.

My friend was to get the train to Birmingham

The lady would pick her up from there and off they went

They had FaceTimed on Tuesday

So all was good

On arrival to new st station my friend texts her

“ I’m here “

At that point the other bitch blocks her of fab and WhatsApp

Disgusting behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope it was a return ticket

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
over a year ago

That’s awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s pretty shocking even for fab! Hope

Your friend is ok!

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Sadly there are all sorts on here as are elsewhere too. All you can do is be there for your friend.

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

That’s a proper shitty thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago a meet purposely sent me to the wrong house

I laugh now but it was kinda fucked up

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I wouldn't arrange a first meet that i have to travel to. Too many wankers.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Unfortunately not that uncommon. Just warped minds sadly.

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By *outhern man.Man
over a year ago

Weymouth

It's so shit,so sorry.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Andrea Leadsom. She's a vile thing to do.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

This is why I'd never travel too far for a meet with someone I hadn't met before.

Hope your friend has reported her for this, it's just disgraceful behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your friend should report this. Deserving of a permanent ban i hope.

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By *ife2010Couple
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

We have had this!

‘Come to my hotel’

Cool, let’s go.

‘That’s us here.’

‘Hello?’

Then the walk back to the train.

Gits!

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By *ndycoinsMan
over a year ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,

Proper cunts trick that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, a dear friend ( lady ) from here arranged a meet with another lady.

All was arranged for last night.

My friend was to get the train to Birmingham

The lady would pick her up from there and off they went

They had FaceTimed on Tuesday

So all was good

On arrival to new st station my friend texts her

“ I’m here “

At that point the other bitch blocks her of fab and WhatsApp

Disgusting behaviour "

A friend of mine met some girls on holiday in Spain, he slept wet a couple of them. When he got home he got invited down to London to my meet one again.

He got the train to London Euston and she blocked him on Facebook. He already had mental health issues.

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Can she name and shame so others can be wary, or us that a no-no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just nasty

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Can she name and shame so others can be wary, or us that a no-no?"

Nope name and shaming isn't allowed but report to admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can she name and shame so others can be wary, or us that a no-no?"
I would twat I'd take a ban for it

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Things like this, is the reason i dont give my address to people on fab

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By *estYorkshireGentMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Hate hearing stories like this! Your poor friend. Hopefully she was able to get home safe?

Always really hard to avoid these situations when you’ve done all the usual pre meet check ins too

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Mmmm she may not of even been a female.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Years ago a meet purposely sent me to the wrong house

I laugh now but it was kinda fucked up "

I'm not saying you would do this WG but if I was a woman on here and blokes sent me unsolicited penis pics, 100% I would send them to a neighbour I didn't like and watch it unfold from my bedroom window

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a horrible thing to do to someone, like I dont understand that, what kind of person does that.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Yes this is terrible OP and I hope your friend is okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And this is why you have a plan B.

Plan B being the nearest gallery, museum or some other attraction to spend your time in that you'll enjoy instead.

I do this. I don't like having my time wasted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All your friend can do is report them, not that mods actually act on this info, and then block them.

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants

Too many timewasters on here i travelled nearly 50 miles to meet a female for a coffee and similar happened i text to say im here and replied 'sorry ' then blocked.

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By *ouple24669Couple
over a year ago

Dundee

We have had that a few times. Twice we had travelled a decent distance for the meet (70 miles & 40 miles). We chatted up until about an hour before the meet both times. 1 just never came back online when we arrived the other was online and read each of our messages but wouldn’t reply.

People are just cunts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We should always have a back up plan....I was let down once when I was sat in the bar waiting on a meet....Only to receive a msg that he can't do it cos he's married

It was news to me that he was married....

The bar was packed & I'm certain it was noticed how my face fell in disappointment....

Anyway....quick plan of action....I rang my fwbs who came to my rescue.... Thankfully....It would have been a shame to waste me all dressed up & all that....

So if ye can....always have a back up plan....

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

It’s shitty behaviour.

Has happened to me. And it does hurt. Not feelings as such, ego perhaps.

I always have a back up plan now.

And definitely report.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Years ago a meet purposely sent me to the wrong house

I laugh now but it was kinda fucked up

As funny as that would be, I don’t think it’s ever polite to include other innocents in your jokes

She even told me to “walk in, doors unlocked, I’m upstairs”

Luckily I never walk into anyone house like that. That would have put a right fright on whoever was inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People for the most part are scum.

Don't travel long distances for anything of a sexual nature, especially.

It's not worth it.

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By *he KinkysCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Absolutely shocking!! People are just cruel sometimes xx

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By *ornyfriendlygentlemanMan
over a year ago

Mid-Sussex

I agree that's not on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can she name and shame so others can be wary, or us that a no-no?"

I said she should but she doesn’t want to

Her call I guess

Just hope she doesn’t repeat this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Urgh how annoying! As someone else said have a back up plan of something nice you can do.

I’ve found this happens a lot on vanilla dates unfortunately. I send a message with an up to date pic of myself 30 min before I leave home saying ‘this is me right now, are you 100% sure you still want to meet’. Have saved myself a couple of unwanted trips that way - best they chicken out before you leave the house!

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

"And this is why you have a plan B.

Plan B being the nearest gallery, museum or some other attraction to spend your time in that you'll enjoy instead.

I do this. I don't like having my time wasted."

I like the sound of plan B. Maybe we should just skip the trying to meet people part and go straight to plan b

Especially if there's a café too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, a dear friend ( lady ) from here arranged a meet with another lady.

All was arranged for last night.

My friend was to get the train to Birmingham

The lady would pick her up from there and off they went

They had FaceTimed on Tuesday

So all was good

On arrival to new st station my friend texts her

“ I’m here “

At that point the other bitch blocks her of fab and WhatsApp

Disgusting behaviour "

Gosh, nearly as horrid as people on here who message a stranger out of the blue, then get abusive when they don’t reply or are not interested!

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

"Years ago a meet purposely sent me to the wrong house

I laugh now but it was kinda fucked up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well this is another story that sucks!!

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

That's horrible.

It takes a particularly despicable and twisted person to do something like that.

Would it be wrong to name the person in your profile?

I've seen it occasionally in people's profiles and in my opinion, they do right.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

"And this is why you have a plan B.

Plan B being the nearest gallery, museum or some other attraction to spend your time in that you'll enjoy instead.

I do this. I don't like having my time wasted.

I like the sound of plan B. Maybe we should just skip the trying to meet people part and go straight to plan b

Especially if there's a café too."

Café you say?

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

"And this is why you have a plan B.

Plan B being the nearest gallery, museum or some other attraction to spend your time in that you'll enjoy instead.

I do this. I don't like having my time wasted.

I like the sound of plan B. Maybe we should just skip the trying to meet people part and go straight to plan b

Especially if there's a café too.

Café you say? "

Commoner....

Should be a Bistro... Posh coffee.... yum.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Years ago a meet purposely sent me to the wrong house

I laugh now but it was kinda fucked up

Why?

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By *edagainMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Why would anyone do this? If you’re not interested then just say from the start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ghosting is so freaking childish!!! Can’t people just say. “I changed my mind”. “Not for me” “got another date” or “I’m sick”.

Good riddance anyway…

chin up and next…

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I had this recently. Arranged to meet a guy, 2 hours before he was due to arrive at the hotel that I just arrived at, the typical "family emergency" cropped up and he cancelled, only to display a verification from someone else the next morning. Utter dickhead. His loss though, I went on my own to the party we were going to go to together and had an amazing, filthy and very memorable time.

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By *illbe9999Man
over a year ago

Holmfirth

Had asimilar experience a few years ago.

It stopped me from meeting for 6 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me once with a date from a dating app, although I'd organised the meeting place to be 5 minutes from my office. I went to text to tell him I'd be late as stuck with some work and he'd blocked me. So weird. People suck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can she name and shame so others can be wary, or us that a no-no?

Nope name and shaming isn't allowed but report to admin "

It's a no from Admin it is also in the terms and conditions of everyone's agreement

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By *ob.42Man
over a year ago

Near Yarmouth

"Years ago a meet purposely sent me to the wrong house

I laugh now but it was kinda fucked up "

The exact same happened to me! Turns out the 'woman' was her husband and became known for catfishing people and sending them to his neighbours across the road and watching it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone who was punch d*unk

I met someone who was uncouth

I got burnt a few times too.

For many this here place is a boredom filler.

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By *ob.42Man
over a year ago

Near Yarmouth

I've had some terrible experiences here. A couple that stick in my mind are:

Arranged a meet and was blocked on route, fortunately I'd stopped at the garage 5 minutes from home to get a coffee and saw I was blocked before I went all the way to the rendezvous.

Messaged a couple all day arranging the night, agreeing boundaries and expectations of me. Arranged to park away feom their house and message from there to get their house number. They left me on read for 45 minutes before I gave up and went home. An hour after I got home they said they'd had a 'wobble' and would I come back. I wouldn't. Worst part was they had verifications and said they never messed people about.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Years ago a meet purposely sent me to the wrong house

I laugh now but it was kinda fucked up

Please don't. We once had a bloke knock on at our old house. It was an early Saturday evening, we were home with our young daughter. The man at the door insisted he'd been told he'd find "fun" at our house and absolutely refused to leave. He was very persistent and I was getting ready to phone the police. It was very, very frightening. For context, we had never, ever given our address to anyone from Fab. The man said he'd been told we used the site, which Mr KC feigned ignorance about.

Please, please never send anyone to someone else's house.

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