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"That you’ve had today? On Sunday 14th January 2024. " Why is everyone is banging on about the post office scandal programme? | |||
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"That you’ve had today? On Sunday 14th January 2024. " My deepest thought is such a downer. thank god for my new love keeping my thoughts on her and all great times we will have. | |||
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"Cassette tapes have “A” and “B” sides so it only made sense to transition to “CDs.” " Now that’s blue ray thinking | |||
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"Jamie dodgers or chocolate digestive with my cup of tea " What did you choose in the end? I’d have been a devil and had both | |||
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"Cassette tapes have “A” and “B” sides so it only made sense to transition to “CDs.” Now that’s blue ray thinking " Glad you spotified that this was the case. | |||
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"Cassette tapes have “A” and “B” sides so it only made sense to transition to “CDs.” Now that’s blue ray thinking Glad you spotified that this was the case. " For the record this feels like you’ve turned tables on me! | |||
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"Jamie dodgers or chocolate digestive with my cup of tea " Hobnobs everytime I can’t stand floaters in my tea | |||
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"Cassette tapes have “A” and “B” sides so it only made sense to transition to “CDs.” " Mind. Blown. | |||
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"Cassette tapes have “A” and “B” sides so it only made sense to transition to “CDs.” Now that’s blue ray thinking Glad you spotified that this was the case. For the record this feels like you’ve turned tables on me!" Never. Wanted. You. More. | |||
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"That I'm 50 in a few hours " Oh HB in anticipation. | |||
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"That I'm 50 in a few hours Oh HB in anticipation." I'm undecided how I feel yet .. I'll decide at midnight | |||
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"Jamie dodgers or chocolate digestive with my cup of tea What did you choose in the end? I’d have been a devil and had both " Had both , I’m a greedy bugger | |||
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"If I ring his neck will the common sense gene kick in. " Most likely no | |||
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"That you’ve had today? On Sunday 14th January 2024. " What do I do with my father in between the two hospital appointments tomorrow, when I need to do some work, where I can work and use the loo if I need it, but where I can also keep tabs so he doesn't wander off? I thought I had a plan but the stupid art gallery is closed on a Monday and the gastro pubs don't open till midday | |||
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"Is gargling with salt water worth it for even more salty fluid? Really pushing the definition of deep here. " If you have a throat infection, sore throat or ulcer, salt water gargling can help reduce the pain. Soluble aspirin is also useful as a gargle/mouthwash. | |||
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"Why on Earth are King's Cross and St Pancras right next to each other? Was it poor city planning or was there a genuine reason behind it? " Willy waving contest by the (private) railway companies who built competing railway lines in the 19th century. King's Cross was built by the Great Northern Railway Co and St. Pancras by the Midland Railway Co. It's like having giant Tesco and Sainsbury's stores right next door to each other. | |||
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"Why on Earth are King's Cross and St Pancras right next to each other? Was it poor city planning or was there a genuine reason behind it? Willy waving contest by the (private) railway companies who built competing railway lines in the 19th century. King's Cross was built by the Great Northern Railway Co and St. Pancras by the Midland Railway Co. It's like having giant Tesco and Sainsbury's stores right next door to each other. " Ah, so it's a case of the efficiency of privatising things. Brilliant. | |||
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"Do people with thigh gaps get cold genitalia in winter?" Oh god, I hope they do! (Inner jealous monster takes over) | |||
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"Why on Earth are King's Cross and St Pancras right next to each other? Was it poor city planning or was there a genuine reason behind it? Willy waving contest by the (private) railway companies who built competing railway lines in the 19th century. King's Cross was built by the Great Northern Railway Co and St. Pancras by the Midland Railway Co. It's like having giant Tesco and Sainsbury's stores right next door to each other. Imagine having the "fuck you" money to build an entire railway station " At least they did something useful rather than, I dunno, building a mansion in the shape of their face or a fuckoff yacht or whatever. We can use those fucking stations. | |||
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"Is gargling with salt water worth it for even more salty fluid? Really pushing the definition of deep here. If you have a throat infection, sore throat or ulcer, salt water gargling can help reduce the pain. Soluble aspirin is also useful as a gargle/mouthwash." Ah I might try aspirin! Thank you Nanna. x | |||
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"Not my deepest thought but, I have been thinking about the man I was behind in a queue in the shop yesterday. His items came to five pound something, he pulled some coins out of his pocket handed them to the woman at the till and said, sorry they're stuck together, I think its jam. I've been thinking about that a lot. " | |||
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"Why dont they sugar coat prednisolone, they taste sooo bad!" They don't sugar coat them but you can get enteric coated versions which should be a bit less foul tasting , lol | |||
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"You OP?" Something something why wasn’t I good enough for X person? Or something about my dad. | |||
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"Why on Earth are King's Cross and St Pancras right next to each other? Was it poor city planning or was there a genuine reason behind it? Willy waving contest by the (private) railway companies who built competing railway lines in the 19th century. King's Cross was built by the Great Northern Railway Co and St. Pancras by the Midland Railway Co. It's like having giant Tesco and Sainsbury's stores right next door to each other. Imagine having the "fuck you" money to build an entire railway station " St. Pancras apparently had the Govt as part investors and the hotel was designed by George Gilbert Scott in a design competition and was chosen because it was SO ludicrous | |||
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"Do people who don’t have anxiety just go around enjoying life like in some movie? " I think about that a lot. | |||
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"You OP? Something something why wasn’t I good enough for X person? Or something about my dad. " Oooft. Tough one. I feel you. Hugs. If I’m honest mine was about unrequited love and whether it counts as love if it isn’t reciprocated? Perhaps all my love simply doesn’t count. | |||
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"You OP? Something something why wasn’t I good enough for X person? Or something about my dad. Oooft. Tough one. I feel you. Hugs. If I’m honest mine was about unrequited love and whether it counts as love if it isn’t reciprocated? Perhaps all my love simply doesn’t count. " Oh but it does, Estella. | |||
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"You OP? Something something why wasn’t I good enough for X person? Or something about my dad. " This got me Why wasn’t I good enough for the latest person who let me down Also, major daddy issues | |||
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"You OP? Something something why wasn’t I good enough for X person? Or something about my dad. Oooft. Tough one. I feel you. Hugs. If I’m honest mine was about unrequited love and whether it counts as love if it isn’t reciprocated? Perhaps all my love simply doesn’t count. Oh but it does, Estella. " And when , when will it be my turn? | |||
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"You OP? Something something why wasn’t I good enough for X person? Or something about my dad. This got me Why wasn’t I good enough for the latest person who let me down Also, major daddy issues " Yeah and weirdly after typing it I went to ‘why wasn’t I good enough for my dad?’ That fucking bastard I think I hate him. But I also don’t. Which I hate. As for romantic love? I guess we can’t be good enough for everyone. Just sucks | |||
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"You OP? Something something why wasn’t I good enough for X person? Or something about my dad. Oooft. Tough one. I feel you. Hugs. If I’m honest mine was about unrequited love and whether it counts as love if it isn’t reciprocated? Perhaps all my love simply doesn’t count. Oh but it does, Estella. And when , when will it be my turn? " You are loved. | |||
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"You OP? Something something why wasn’t I good enough for X person? Or something about my dad. Oooft. Tough one. I feel you. Hugs. If I’m honest mine was about unrequited love and whether it counts as love if it isn’t reciprocated? Perhaps all my love simply doesn’t count. Oh but it does, Estella. And when , when will it be my turn? You are loved. " Yeah, yeah. That’s fondness and care. Not the same. Thanks tho xx | |||
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"Its been almost a year since my dad died..... " I’ve just had the one year anniversary of mine. Sending you love x | |||
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"How small and infrequent family gatherings are in the uk compared to here in SE Asia , and how sad that is. " Families are smaller. My entire family will fit around 1 small, round pub table, if I wanted to be in the presence of all of them. I am genetically related to very few people on this earth. | |||
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"Its been almost a year since my dad died..... I’ve just had the one year anniversary of mine. Sending you love x" Sending you love too x | |||
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"Actually, it was, if someone hates me so much, why would they have a picture of me public. Surely thats the last thing anyone would want! And when a mutual friend told me about it, and I tackled them, they have the nerve to get angry!" God | |||
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"Why the hell did I stand up to a group of Romanians welding weapons just before I finished my shift " Well got know answer Why did you . | |||
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"That I find the posts on the ‘Dull Men’s Club’ on FB far more amusing than I should 52, size 6 shoes (unless Hokas or On’s) dislike being told to ‘discuss’ a post and have a phobia of slugs and snails if someone is holding them - this last paragraph will only be understood by those that follow that FB page " Love that group too | |||
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"How small and infrequent family gatherings are in the uk compared to here in SE Asia , and how sad that is. Families are smaller. My entire family will fit around 1 small, round pub table, if I wanted to be in the presence of all of them. I am genetically related to very few people on this earth. " That’s no always the case though. I have brother and sister in laws , uncles , cousins, nieces and grand nieces we are mostly spread out around the world though and other than special occasions barely keep in touch. I love how large families support each other practically, emotionally and financially , have regular gathering of 20-30 and value interdependence over independence. | |||
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"How small and infrequent family gatherings are in the uk compared to here in SE Asia , and how sad that is. Families are smaller. My entire family will fit around 1 small, round pub table, if I wanted to be in the presence of all of them. I am genetically related to very few people on this earth. That’s no always the case though. I have brother and sister in laws , uncles , cousins, nieces and grand nieces we are mostly spread out around the world though and other than special occasions barely keep in touch. I love how large families support each other practically, emotionally and financially , have regular gathering of 20-30 and value interdependence over independence. " I think culturally, lots of Black and Asian families still provide this in Britain. And still see one another regularly. | |||
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"That you’ve had today? On Sunday 14th January 2024. Why is everyone is banging on about the post office scandal programme? " Because a lot of people (700+) were punished for something they didn't do and the people responsible for that still haven't owned up or admitted any wrong doing. Victims lost livelihoods, freedom, families and in some cases committed suicide. The people in charge at the Post Office and Fujitsu should be prosecuted for their fraud. | |||
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"That you’ve had today? On Sunday 14th January 2024. " Why is the general population so easy to influence? | |||
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"That you’ve had today? On Sunday 14th January 2024. Why is the general population so easy to influence?" Yes! I wonder this often. I really do. It’s baffling | |||
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"That you’ve had today? On Sunday 14th January 2024. Why is everyone is banging on about the post office scandal programme? Because a lot of people (700+) were punished for something they didn't do and the people responsible for that still haven't owned up or admitted any wrong doing. Victims lost livelihoods, freedom, families and in some cases committed suicide. The people in charge at the Post Office and Fujitsu should be prosecuted for their fraud." That story has been common knowledge for well over a decade. It’s been in and out of the news ever since 2009. There was an enquiry in 2012 that found it faulty, there were appeal cases in 2019, 2020 and 2021. There was a second gov enquiry in 2020. There’s been countless news stories, documentaries, articles, press releases etc since 2009…. Yet now is the moment people decide to care? Because it was turned into a dramatised soap opera? It really makes me lose my faith in humanity | |||
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"Why dont they sugar coat prednisolone, they taste sooo bad!" Oh god, I thought that was just me!!! So glad to know I'm not alone. | |||
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"That you’ve had today? On Monday 15th January 2024. " Woke up this morn and realised next year will be 5 years since the pandemic and lockdowns in the UK. Discuss | |||
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"That my dad helped make me who I am and I miss him so much " Hugs xx | |||
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"That you’ve had today? On Sunday 14th January 2024. Why is the general population so easy to influence? Yes! I wonder this often. I really do. It’s baffling " Always been like this. Considering we’re born knowing nothing, it’s no surprise at all how easily we’re influenced. Every single person on this earth is. | |||
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"That you’ve had today? On Sunday 14th January 2024. Why is the general population so easy to influence? Yes! I wonder this often. I really do. It’s baffling Always been like this. Considering we’re born knowing nothing, it’s no surprise at all how easily we’re influenced. Every single person on this earth is. " Yes, but as people say - “I wasn’t born yesterday” | |||
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"That you’ve had today? On Sunday 14th January 2024. Why is everyone is banging on about the post office scandal programme? Because a lot of people (700+) were punished for something they didn't do and the people responsible for that still haven't owned up or admitted any wrong doing. Victims lost livelihoods, freedom, families and in some cases committed suicide. The people in charge at the Post Office and Fujitsu should be prosecuted for their fraud. That story has been common knowledge for well over a decade. It’s been in and out of the news ever since 2009. There was an enquiry in 2012 that found it faulty, there were appeal cases in 2019, 2020 and 2021. There was a second gov enquiry in 2020. There’s been countless news stories, documentaries, articles, press releases etc since 2009…. Yet now is the moment people decide to care? Because it was turned into a dramatised soap opera? It really makes me lose my faith in humanity " I think it is because the scale has become apparent. How many of the 700 or so of those wrongly convicted have had their convictions overturned? About 10% or so. And that is after all those reports, hearings and documentaries. The public don't watch those. They watch dramas. They watch things in terms that can be understood. | |||
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"That you’ve had today? On Sunday 14th January 2024. Why is the general population so easy to influence? Yes! I wonder this often. I really do. It’s baffling Always been like this. Considering we’re born knowing nothing, it’s no surprise at all how easily we’re influenced. Every single person on this earth is. Yes, but as people say - “I wasn’t born yesterday”" And yet you've been influenced massively by lots of people and things. | |||
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"That you’ve had today? On Sunday 14th January 2024. Why is the general population so easy to influence? Yes! I wonder this often. I really do. It’s baffling Always been like this. Considering we’re born knowing nothing, it’s no surprise at all how easily we’re influenced. Every single person on this earth is. Yes, but as people say - “I wasn’t born yesterday” And yet you've been influenced massively by lots of people and things. " I’m guessing you didn’t understand what I meant by my initial statement. | |||
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"That you’ve had today? On Sunday 14th January 2024. Why is the general population so easy to influence? Yes! I wonder this often. I really do. It’s baffling Always been like this. Considering we’re born knowing nothing, it’s no surprise at all how easily we’re influenced. Every single person on this earth is. Yes, but as people say - “I wasn’t born yesterday” And yet you've been influenced massively by lots of people and things. I’m guessing you didn’t understand what I meant by my initial statement." No I did I’m just pointing out that it’s hardly surprising given that we’re beings that can only learn from others and other things. Also I’m pointing out that we’re all influenced by things. We can’t be disappointed just because someone is influenced by something different to us. I could be shocked that people are influenced by Tory party and right wing bullshit about culture wars being a threat to society. Some people will be shocked that others are influenced by mainstream media etc etc. but we’re influenced by things. Nobody is above it. | |||
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"That you’ve had today? On Sunday 14th January 2024. Why is the general population so easy to influence? Yes! I wonder this often. I really do. It’s baffling Always been like this. Considering we’re born knowing nothing, it’s no surprise at all how easily we’re influenced. Every single person on this earth is. Yes, but as people say - “I wasn’t born yesterday” And yet you've been influenced massively by lots of people and things. I’m guessing you didn’t understand what I meant by my initial statement. No I did I’m just pointing out that it’s hardly surprising given that we’re beings that can only learn from others and other things. Also I’m pointing out that we’re all influenced by things. We can’t be disappointed just because someone is influenced by something different to us. I could be shocked that people are influenced by Tory party and right wing bullshit about culture wars being a threat to society. Some people will be shocked that others are influenced by mainstream media etc etc. but we’re influenced by things. Nobody is above it. " And we’re influenced really easily. As an aside, history shows how easily influenced people are. | |||
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"That you’ve had today? On Sunday 14th January 2024. Why is the general population so easy to influence? Yes! I wonder this often. I really do. It’s baffling Always been like this. Considering we’re born knowing nothing, it’s no surprise at all how easily we’re influenced. Every single person on this earth is. Yes, but as people say - “I wasn’t born yesterday” And yet you've been influenced massively by lots of people and things. I’m guessing you didn’t understand what I meant by my initial statement. No I did I’m just pointing out that it’s hardly surprising given that we’re beings that can only learn from others and other things. Also I’m pointing out that we’re all influenced by things. We can’t be disappointed just because someone is influenced by something different to us. I could be shocked that people are influenced by Tory party and right wing bullshit about culture wars being a threat to society. Some people will be shocked that others are influenced by mainstream media etc etc. but we’re influenced by things. Nobody is above it. " You definitely didn’t understand | |||
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"How small and infrequent family gatherings are in the uk compared to here in SE Asia , and how sad that is. Families are smaller. My entire family will fit around 1 small, round pub table, if I wanted to be in the presence of all of them. I am genetically related to very few people on this earth. That’s no always the case though. I have brother and sister in laws , uncles , cousins, nieces and grand nieces we are mostly spread out around the world though and other than special occasions barely keep in touch. I love how large families support each other practically, emotionally and financially , have regular gathering of 20-30 and value interdependence over independence. " I simply don't have that many relatives on the Earth. I have 1 brother & a sister in law, his wife. They have 2 kids. I have my own 2 children and my husband. My Dad (dementia, can't cope away from home). I do have a Mother but might as well not. I have 1 Uncle & his wife. And 3 cousins. My Dad was an only child, so no more Aunts/Uncles. His Cousin by adoption died already. And that's it. My entire family. My little tiny family is spread from the South coast to the West coast and the bit towards the middle. No-one wants to be in the presence of my Mother. I couldn't muster 20 people at all. And none of my relatives beyond my bro, my husband and my son can provide me with any kind of support or assistance, either through distance or age (children) or mental infirmity. There we are! | |||
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