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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Is it better to have loved or to have been loved?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loved. I don’t imagine you can truly appreciate being loved if you haven’t loved. Loving someone is genuinely beautiful

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Brum

"Loved. I don’t imagine you can truly appreciate being loved if you haven’t loved. Loving someone is genuinely beautiful"

Thats deep.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

To be loved. It's such a warm fuzzy feeling. Being lived and loving at the same time is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loved. I don’t imagine you can truly appreciate being loved if you haven’t loved. Loving someone is genuinely beautiful

Thats deep.

I’m feeling deep today. Eurgh

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

To have loved.

Can you really appreciate in the moment being lived? Once it's gone you only then really find out what you've lost.

Marc

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Either doesn't sound ideal if it's not reciprocal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Either doesn't sound ideal if it's not reciprocal "
does reciprocation matter that much to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Either doesn't sound ideal if it's not reciprocal "

This...

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Been very much in love at the moment and been loved back at the same level is something incredible. Never in million years would have thought it would happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Either doesn't sound ideal if it's not reciprocal "

totally

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Either doesn't sound ideal if it's not reciprocal does reciprocation matter that much to you? "

If in relation to romantic/intimate love?

Absolutely

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By *lder.Woman
over a year ago

Not Local

To have loved, because you could have loved yourself too and everyone wins then

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Is it better to have loved or to have been loved? "

Was good on both

But then to love and loss is very painful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To love is to give some of yourself. To be loved is to deserve everything of someone else.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

To love as its active.

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

How is it fair that love is the most painful of emotions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is it fair that love is the most painful of emotions? "

It’s not.

Love isn’t always fair. I guess that’s the worst thing about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it better to have loved or to have been loved? "

I have always found the two have gone hand in hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it better to have loved or to have been loved? "

To have loved is far better, for what use is it to be loved, if you know not the meaning or sanctity, of what it means to love in the first place.

ie some one who has only been loved will never understand the meaning to love

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"How is it fair that love is the most painful of emotions? "

Because it's one of the most intense? Because the risk of pain is one of the reasons why it's the most intense? And because part of the exhilaration when it works is knowing it could have hurt but didn't?

Or maybe I'm talking shite. I don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loved. I don’t imagine you can truly appreciate being loved if you haven’t loved. Loving someone is genuinely beautiful"

Good lad, exactly what I said before reading legend

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Loved. I don’t need to be loved but I need to love. My experience of being loved is mostly claustrophobic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Either doesn't sound ideal if it's not reciprocal "

One can not mealy give, in order to receive.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"How is it fair that love is the most painful of emotions? "

Price you pay well worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loved. I don’t need to be loved but I need to love. My experience of being loved is mostly claustrophobic."

I get like that at Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is it fair that love is the most painful of emotions?

It’s not.

Love isn’t always fair. I guess that’s the worst thing about it

We require heart break, in order for it to grow back stronger. God forbid they turn bitter insted. Bitterness is but a conquered heart. And soul.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I love my kids/grandkids/great grandkids and my dogs! Been fond of a couple of men but not sure on love ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it better to have loved or to have been loved? "

Any reason other than to be thought provoking for the post in the first place?

What was your original opinion?

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

If its not both its probly neither other than that i dont know anymore

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's better to have loved because other way around the guilt is on you

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

How do you know if you are loved is the toughie you know when you love but how can you ever know another persons mind

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"How do you know if you are loved is the toughie you know when you love but how can you ever know another persons mind"
you know by the things they do the things they do to make you feel their love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know if you are loved is the toughie you know when you love but how can you ever know another persons mind"

I trust when people tell me they love me. Until they tell me they don’t or never did.

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"How do you know if you are loved is the toughie you know when you love but how can you ever know another persons mind"

I don’t know.

Also, there’s the difference between someone loving you, and being in love with you.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

"How do you know if you are loved is the toughie you know when you love but how can you ever know another persons mind

I don’t know.

Also, there’s the difference between someone loving you, and being in love with you. "
this is becoming complex

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"How do you know if you are loved is the toughie you know when you love but how can you ever know another persons mind

I don’t know.

Also, there’s the difference between someone loving you, and being in love with you. this is becoming complex "

Sorry.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"How do you know if you are loved is the toughie you know when you love but how can you ever know another persons mind"
Actions speak louder than words. It's the way they hold you, look at you.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

"How do you know if you are loved is the toughie you know when you love but how can you ever know another persons mind

I don’t know.

Also, there’s the difference between someone loving you, and being in love with you. this is becoming complex

Sorry. "
theres no need for sorrow when aked people are watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is it fair that love is the most painful of emotions? "

It should not be painful.

Love should be patient and kind. It should not envy or boast. It is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way. It is not irritable or resentful. It does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.

Love is the common denominator in how we relate to others, or to ourselves.

Love is a tricky word. It’s most often understood as an intense feeling of deep affection.

It can also transcends a feeling or emotion.

If it’s painful, I’d question if it’s love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know if you are loved is the toughie you know when you love but how can you ever know another persons mind

I trust when people tell me they love me. Until they tell me they don’t or never did. "

Or until their actions show me the opposite of their words.

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"How is it fair that love is the most painful of emotions?

It should not be painful.

Love is the common denominator in how we relate to others, or to ourselves.

Love is a tricky word. It’s most often understood as an intense feeling of deep affection.

It can also transcends a feeling or emotion.

If it’s painful, I’d question if it’s love. "

That’s a good reminder. Especially the it does not insist on its own way.

Thank you. That’s a good leveller.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s good to be both, but you can love more than one person and that’s a right head feck.

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