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Should you bring your ex to first date?

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I was watching a fun movie called the love punch yesterday, with brosnan and emma thompson, it was fun, have you also seen it?

It was in the end of the movie where she and her ex waited at the beach for the private boat that her date was on, both of them jumped on it and she was at the front with her date as he was stearing the boat, whilst her ex was sitting down further away ant the end, her date asked her, do you still love him and she replied with a doubtful look to him, she wasn't sure about it.

What is your view about it? I think that it is a big no to bring them with you as it probably would put you off the date with them

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I have no idea why anyone would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm, NO!

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

I’ve had 3 long term relationships, I couldn’t bring any of them on a date because I’m not in touch with any of them any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m gunna say no!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not be impressed if a date I was meeting fetched his ex, so no I don’t think it’s a good idea

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Yes, moral support

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

ERM no, even with most my ex's breaking up on good terms bringing them on a date would be a no.

Mrs

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I have no idea why anyone would "
Yes. I also dont have no idea why anyone would do it

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It seems like a very longshot at a threesome

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I’ve had 3 long term relationships, I couldn’t bring any of them on a date because I’m not in touch with any of them any more "
I see and yes, so that is why you couldnt bring them to a date too

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

That would be a red flag with an accompanying Mariachi band.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There has been an episode of first dates where an ex husband and wife were there at the same time also an episode where a guy's mother was there.

Both examples would cause me to have a sudden urgent appointment elsewhere.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I would not be impressed if a date I was meeting fetched his ex, so no I don’t think it’s a good idea"
Yes, it would be the same for me. I wouldnt be impressed either of it

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Yes, moral support "
Yes, it could be for moral support too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had 3 long term relationships, I couldn’t bring any of them on a date because I’m not in touch with any of them any more "

Where are they buried?

That’s what I am thinking

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"There has been an episode of first dates where an ex husband and wife were there at the same time also an episode where a guy's mother was there.

Both examples would cause me to have a sudden urgent appointment elsewhere. "
I see yes and on those episodes as well, same here, with the both examples there. I would also have an appointment elsewhere too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

R you FUCKING MAD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

R you FUCKING MAD

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Having boundaries, including imposing them on yourself, is something that I really believe to be important. They help me. Relationships are also healthy for us but I don't see an ex having any relevance to the foundation laying of a new one. We do need to move on and to have let go of the past partner.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Whilst it is not ideal, if one want to take someone along for support, maibe instead of having them beside you on the date, maibe a better option would be so that they would shadowing you from a distance

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By *ittle. BeaverWoman
over a year ago

Launceston

Well as red flags go, that's a nice easy one to spot!!

Err no I wouldn't!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I would really struggle as he’s under the patio

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"I would really struggle as he’s under the patio "

But how many times have you taken your date to the patio?!

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