FabSwingers.com forum: Kinky

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is kinky? Because I see so profile saying looking for kinky fun?

Discuss?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to me kinky is somethign i wouldnt normally do..

but then we all have a different perspective of whats normal to do..

i find anal normal both giving and recieving but to others thats kinky..

so how long is apiece of string

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Really good question and all down to the "owner" - as some of what is considered "kinky" kinky to some is normal, almost vanilla ...

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

kinky (adjective)

full of kinks; closely twisted: a kinky wire.

(of hair) closely or tightly curled.

Slang. marked by unconventional sexual preferences or behaviour, as fetishism, sadomasochism, or the like.

Origin of word - American slang from around 1835.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My interpretation of kink could be someone else's interpretation of hell and vice versa.

It depends on the individual and what they like. My kinky side is my submissive side - one person gets that. The rest get gobby slightly nuts Ruby!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"kinky (adjective)

full of kinks; closely twisted: a kinky wire.

(of hair) closely or tightly curled.

Slang. marked by unconventional sexual preferences or behaviour, as fetishism, sadomasochism, or the like.

Origin of word - American slang from around 1835."

True

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

bellshill

Normal is using a feather during foreplay.....kinky is using the whole chicken.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Normal is using a feather during foreplay.....kinky is using the whole chicken."

Classic

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think kinky is a very individual thing. Some may find some things i do kinky, some may find them vanilla. Same as me with other people.

Someone once told me i was too vanilla because i wasnt into drinking spunk out of a glass or condom. Now that might be someone elses norm

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I think kinky is a very individual thing. Some may find some things i do kinky, some may find them vanilla. Same as me with other people.

Someone once told me i was too vanilla because i wasnt into drinking spunk out of a glass or condom. Now that might be someone elses norm"

They only said that to manipulate you into doing something THEY wanted you to do - sounds like to me, anyway.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I describe myself as kinky. However, my profile doesn't say I'm kinky because I look elsewhere for the kinky stuff I want.

This site is for sex, group, 3sums etc, but my kinks are very different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Normal is using a feather during foreplay.....kinky is using the whole chicken.

Classic "
lol.kinky people don't use animals they do go to extremes though.i think there is a fine line between kinky and bdsm.but kinky isn't just about acts but a state of mind and enjoyment as so is bdsm.poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I describe myself as kinky. However, my profile doesn't say I'm kinky because I look elsewhere for the kinky stuff I want.

This site is for sex, group, 3sums etc, but my kinks are very different. "
kinky people also meet on here.there are lots of kinksters on here.xx

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"I describe myself as kinky. However, my profile doesn't say I'm kinky because I look elsewhere for the kinky stuff I want.

This site is for sex, group, 3sums etc, but my kinks are very different. kinky people also meet on here.there are lots of kinksters on here.xx

I know there is. I'm friends with quite a few. However, I like to keep my fun seperate. Makes my life a while lot more simpler.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm kinky but don't put it on my profile because I get some weirdo guys email me "They like it kinky" lol

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I'm kinky but don't put it on my profile because I get some weirdo guys email me "They like it kinky" lol "

So what do you call kinky? Discuss

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By *axwellTattMan
over a year ago

knutsford

Ah Jezebel,

thanks for the info so nice of you to let me know

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I think kinky is a very individual thing. Some may find some things i do kinky, some may find them vanilla. Same as me with other people.

Someone once told me i was too vanilla because i wasnt into drinking spunk out of a glass or condom. Now that might be someone elses norm

They only said that to manipulate you into doing something THEY wanted you to do - sounds like to me, anyway."

Lol i didnt take a blind bit of notice, the calling me vanilla amused me. They just got a block. But i guess some women might feel manipulated. Guess its a bit like the reverse psycology, when they say prove me wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have loved bdsm from my teenage years. I don't consider a lot of the stuff I would do as kinky.

Maybe I see fetishism as being more kinky, than say, D/s or sadomasochism.

But that's just my personal gut feeling.

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By *axwellTattMan
over a year ago

knutsford

"I have loved bdsm from my teenage years. I don't consider a lot of the stuff I would do as kinky.

Maybe I see fetishism as being more kinky, than say, D/s or sadomasochism.

But that's just my personal gut feeling. "

Its kind of odd when you realise that your different from everyone else, I always knew I was, I remember back in the 70’s and yes I can remember that far back just

But I would be out with my mates and it was like a running commentary of what they had done and they used to say to me how come you never say anything, I said I guess I am just a private person, well I could not tell them my thoughts are totally different from yours.

But it all surfaced when I was about 40 I think the trigger was watching the movie body of evidence with Madonna and Willham Defoe I found myself enthralled in the aspects in the movie and then it all started to make scene and why I never could get a nilla relationship to work because of this.

Any anyone should know that it’s the sub that chooses the Dom not the other way round, the search still goes on sometimes I think its more like the holy grail, I think it would be easier to find that, now there’s a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One person's normal, is another person's kinky.

It can be quite funny/interesting discovering what some people think is kinky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So is kinky the same as dirty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So is kinky the same as dirty? "

To me, sex in any form is never dirty. I only ever use the word dirty to humiliate a sub when he is doing something that he thinks he loves but thinks he shouldn't. Like .... Enjoying being fucked by my strap on. I would encourage him by telling him what a dirty little bitch he was. But in reality I don't see it as a dirty act at all

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By *axwellTattMan
over a year ago

knutsford

"So is kinky the same as dirty? "

No it’s a different way, because once you try it you will think of normal sex nilla as we call it as a little boring, you see it goes back to the concepts of the ying yang, the mind feeds the body and the body feeds the mind, they work in harmony and you experiences very deep emotions.

These thoughts never go away either they just stay there for every, you think about them through the day at least once. When I left BDSM I thought I can go back to nilla err nope its not as easy as that it took some time suppress that part of me, however its like any kind of memories you can control them and suppress them but they have a habit of popping back into your life again.

It’s odd because I have this conversation on a BDSM site and a lot of Doms said would not comment on this but some Doms I knew said yes it dose.

I am referring to in subs they going into subspace where they float off and we got into a conversation something like this and the question was asked do Doms have the same and a lot said no, but a few of us had experienced well I don’t know what subspace is like because I am not a sub, but what I experienced was in play once with a sub we were so in tuned with each other this brown mist descended on me and it was the most pleasurable experience I have ever encountered.

So I do believe if subspace exits so must Dom space, as at the end of the day we are humans what one feels the others has to, though a lot of Doms as so far up their own assholes they would never admit it.

But then I am not just your average Dom

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So is kinky the same as dirty?

I'd love to be your sub

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