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"Explain it to yourself. You like what you like. Don’t limit yourself to labels. If you like a phallic shaped cock up your ass, you like it. So what? " Haha thanks | |||
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"1. Nothing to explain. You like what you like. Why analyse it ? (pun not intended). 2. It's called a prostate. It's a thing. There, that was easy, huh ?" I suppose | |||
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"Ok,, i don’t find men 1 tiny bit attractive, ive never once looked st a man and thought,, oh yesss But i find a convincing CD/trans/shemale the sexiest thing ever Bigger dick the better I usually dildo my arse cos it feels so good, not because i like the gay aspect,, but because it makes me cum HARD EXPLAIN THAT " Enjoying anal doesn't make you gay. There's some internalised homophobia you might want to think about going on here. | |||
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"Enjoying anal doesn't make you gay. There's some internalised homophobia you might want to think about going on here. " Indeed, and sorry OP if I came across as flippant. . Be strong, o man! lust, enjoy all things of sense and rapture: fear not that any God shall deny thee for this. . Analysing yourself and trying to find where you fit in in the grand scheme of things is a fruitless exercise, because humans are mutable and dynamic. . Like what you like, and enjoy it. . Because come the great reckoning, when whichever entity (if any) is going to meet you with a clipboard, sheet of paper and pencil and ask, "So, what were you then?", I'd wager most would say, "Well, I don't really know, really. I was a bit of this, and a bit of that, but I'm not really sure." Said entity will pause, suck the end of their pencil, and say, "Ah. Human. Nice. In you pop." Tick. | |||
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"Nowt wrong with that, just like what you like and go with the flow. It’s not that much different from straight guys liking the thought of being pegged by a woman surely ?" You could be right | |||
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"Ok,, i don’t find men 1 tiny bit attractive, ive never once looked st a man and thought,, oh yesss But i find a convincing CD/trans/shemale the sexiest thing ever Bigger dick the better I usually dildo my arse cos it feels so good, not because i like the gay aspect,, but because it makes me cum HARD EXPLAIN THAT Enjoying anal doesn't make you gay. There's some internalised homophobia you might want to think about going on here. No homophobia,, a phobia is an i rational fear I dont care what anyone does,, no ill feelings,, i just dont fancy men, simple as that " | |||
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"Totally agree -pleasure is in the eye of the beholder " X | |||
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Imo wanting to stick phallic objects up your rear end makes you at least bi-curious...
But hey...so what if you are? | |||
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"Ok,, i don’t find men 1 tiny bit attractive, ive never once looked st a man and thought,, oh yesss But i find a convincing CD/trans/shemale the sexiest thing ever Bigger dick the better I usually dildo my arse cos it feels so good, not because i like the gay aspect,, but because it makes me cum HARD EXPLAIN THAT " I can’t if you can’t. I know exactly why I would be attracted to a Trans woman. Because she’s hot and sexy!   . But I’m straight. So go figure.  | |||
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"Whatever works for you OP. Doesn’t need an explanation. " Must say you look absolutely gorgeous x | |||
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"Whatever works for you OP. Doesn’t need an explanation. Must say you look absolutely gorgeous x" You’re v kind thank you | |||
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"Ok,, i don’t find men 1 tiny bit attractive, ive never once looked st a man and thought,, oh yesss But i find a convincing CD/trans/shemale the sexiest thing ever Bigger dick the better I usually dildo my arse cos it feels so good, not because i like the gay aspect,, but because it makes me cum HARD EXPLAIN THAT " To be fair I started playing with my arse and enjoyed it. Although I don’t fancy men, I started playing with cock and really enjoyed it. For me it’s the cock fun. That said for that reason I call my self bisexual. Just go with the flow mate. Enjoy it. Maybe you might try cock one day. I didn’t think I would  | |||
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"Ok,, i don’t find men 1 tiny bit attractive, ive never once looked st a man and thought,, oh yesss But i find a convincing CD/trans/shemale the sexiest thing ever Bigger dick the better I usually dildo my arse cos it feels so good, not because i like the gay aspect,, but because it makes me cum HARD EXPLAIN THAT I can’t if you can’t. I know exactly why I would be attracted to a Trans woman. Because she’s hot and sexy! . But I’m straight. So go figure. "Exactly | |||
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You like what you babe, labels are all they are just enjoy doing you…. Literally x | |||
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"Nowt wrong with that, just like what you like and go with the flow. It’s not that much different from straight guys liking the thought of being pegged by a woman surely ?" exactly too many people have to be labelled it's up to the individual I never judge x | |||
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"Totally agree -pleasure is in the eye of the beholder " very true | |||
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"Ok,, i don’t find men 1 tiny bit attractive, ive never once looked st a man and thought,, oh yesss But i find a convincing CD/trans/shemale the sexiest thing ever Bigger dick the better I usually dildo my arse cos it feels so good, not because i like the gay aspect,, but because it makes me cum HARD EXPLAIN THAT " sounds good to me | |||
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"Ok,, i don’t find men 1 tiny bit attractive, ive never once looked st a man and thought,, oh yesss But i find a convincing CD/trans/shemale the sexiest thing ever Bigger dick the better I usually dildo my arse cos it feels so good, not because i like the gay aspect,, but because it makes me cum HARD EXPLAIN THAT " Nothing to explain. Human sexuality is a cornucopia of variety. Enjoy yourself, don't hurt or infringe on the rights of others, and all will be well in the garden. | |||
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""I'm only gay when I'm having a wank"
Imo wanting to stick phallic objects up your rear end makes you at least bi-curious...
But hey...so what if you are?"I'm only gay when I wank made me gigglr | |||
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"Whatever works for you OP. Doesn’t need an explanation. " Xx | |||
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"Enjoy what you enjoy OP, don't get hung up on what society dictates in labelling it. My personal opinion in your liking "tranny's" as you say ,I think in your mind you possibly think that because of the feminine looks and clothing it makes it more acceptable to enjoy the cock best of both worlds so to speak. It could be the taboo aspect, making it feel extra naughty. I can't see a problem with any of it but perhaps subconscious hang ups or something is holding you back. Just relax let go and enjoy it. I would if i wasn’t scared to death and ultra self conscious " | |||
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"To some extent don't worry about the labels, as long as its not harming anyone else, you do you and rejoice in finding things that give you please. That said can you please be respectful of other people, the word used for transgender people used in the title is considered offensive by some as it has a history of being used to belittle the group which is unfortunate as I don't think it was your intention at all." Nobody ever died from Being offended Thats the trouble with is world,, offended,, a word threw around by snowflakes that can’t bare to here ,, in their opinion ‘hurty words’ That said ,, the words i use are not offensive unless the people reading them are soft arsed and touchy about themselves Just saying | |||
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"If your finker tears thru the the toilet papee when wiping you just had anal" hahaha | |||
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"You like your guys with tits then it seems. Not a lot to explain there. " Hahaha x | |||
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"Whatever floats your boat don't be worrying about what other people think if you enjoy it keep going." Xxx | |||
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"Nobody ever died from Being offended " . But people do suffer harm through being offended. We are not all wired the same. We all have different thresholds for pain, be it emotional or otherwise. So isn't it simply easier (and kinder) not to offend someone in the first place ? If a person's default setting is to self-regulate and be inoffensive, that's got to be a whole lot better than saying any old shit and pissing everyone off, right ? . With regards to "words i use are not offensive unless the people reading them are soft arsed and touchy about themselves", you are not the gatekeeper of other people's emotions or feelings. . If you use offensive words and offend people, then that's on you, not them. . You are responsible for what comes out of your mouth or is written on the page. . Be nice. Be kind. As others should be unto you. | |||
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"Nobody ever died from Being offended . But people do suffer harm through being offended. We are not all wired the same. We all have different thresholds for pain, be it emotional or otherwise. So isn't it simply easier (and kinder) not to offend someone in the first place ? If a person's default setting is to self-regulate and be inoffensive, that's got to be a whole lot better than saying any old shit and pissing everyone off, right ? . With regards to "words i use are not offensive unless the people reading them are soft arsed and touchy about themselves", you are not the gatekeeper of other people's emotions or feelings. . If you use offensive words and offend people, then that's on you, not them. . You are responsible for what comes out of your mouth or is written on the page. . Be nice. Be kind. As others should be unto you. " Honestly People need to get a grip Suck it up and grow up FFS the world is in a mess And babies need a little safe space because someone disagrees with them or gives them some home truth Personally ive no time for these fragile little soft gets Sorry but ive not All this cry baby professional offended brigade is a product of social media Probably the worst invention since religion | |||
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"Too many people get hung up on labels, or how others perceive them. "labels are important to some people they would rather pay loads more money for a V W van rather than drive a tranny | |||
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"I migrate between fabguys and fabswingers, and I find on here that men with no stated interest in TV/CD on their profile message saying they want to fuck me, now have they misread my profile? Have they seen one or two pics on my profile and not spotted my dick, or are they just hedging their bets and looking for any hole is a goal? I have met men on here that don't openly state they like TV's but for sure they've enjoyed every moment but then asked me not to do a verification for them as they have women and couples on their verifications list, it's a strange old world, but whatever our sexual orientation we are not alone "Xx | |||
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"Too many people get hung up on labels, or how others perceive them.
labels are important to some people they would rather pay loads more money for a V W van rather than drive a tranny "Hahaha | |||
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"Ah see I take click up my ass as I like the getting fucked aspect
You like what you babe, labels are all they are just enjoy doing you…. Literally x"Xx | |||
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"Nobody ever died from Being offended . But people do suffer harm through being offended. We are not all wired the same. We all have different thresholds for pain, be it emotional or otherwise. So isn't it simply easier (and kinder) not to offend someone in the first place ? If a person's default setting is to self-regulate and be inoffensive, that's got to be a whole lot better than saying any old shit and pissing everyone off, right ? . With regards to "words i use are not offensive unless the people reading them are soft arsed and touchy about themselves", you are not the gatekeeper of other people's emotions or feelings. . If you use offensive words and offend people, then that's on you, not them. . You are responsible for what comes out of your mouth or is written on the page. . Be nice. Be kind. As others should be unto you. Honestly People need to get a grip Suck it up and grow up FFS the world is in a mess And babies need a little safe space because someone disagrees with them or gives them some home truth Personally ive no time for these fragile little soft gets Sorry but ive not All this cry baby professional offended brigade is a product of social media Probably the worst invention since religion " Out of interest is there nothing anyone could say to you about your interest in TV//CD/shemales as you put it that you would find offensive or negatively emotionally in other ways? Or would absolutely any kind of comment directed at you be fine and you would just shrug it off? Would anything go? | |||
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"Ok,, i don’t find men 1 tiny bit attractive, ive never once looked st a man and thought,, oh yesss But i find a convincing CD/trans/shemale the sexiest thing ever Bigger dick the better I usually dildo my arse cos it feels so good, not because i like the gay aspect,, but because it makes me cum HARD EXPLAIN THAT " Hello, can you not call us trannies or shemales thanks? They're slurs and not likely to put you in our good books. Trans woman, Transgender person, are fine. Or crossdresser/transvestite (which is different, as crossdressers are usually men who like to wear women's clothing) - a transgender woman. | |||
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"If you need a quick guide Trans woman, transgender woman: someone born "male"* who now identifies and lives as a woman. Usually on hormones, may or may not have had genital surgery depending on their preference and choices Crossdresser, transvestite: Usually a man, who still identifies as a man, but likes to wear women's clothes sometimes for various reasons. *Bit more complicated than that, this is the simplified version" I need to take this opportunity to ask questions and learn: You have fantastic tits!! Are they surgically developed or a product of hormones? I have terrible 5 o clock shadow but trans women don’t. How are you getting such smooth skin? Is it the hormones again? Apologies if I’ve offended through being genuinely ignorant. I am just curious. | |||
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"If you need a quick guide Trans woman, transgender woman: someone born "male"* who now identifies and lives as a woman. Usually on hormones, may or may not have had genital surgery depending on their preference and choices Crossdresser, transvestite: Usually a man, who still identifies as a man, but likes to wear women's clothes sometimes for various reasons. *Bit more complicated than that, this is the simplified version I need to take this opportunity to ask questions and learn: You have fantastic tits!! Are they surgically developed or a product of hormones? I have terrible 5 o clock shadow but trans women don’t. How are you getting such smooth skin? Is it the hormones again? Apologies if I’ve offended through being genuinely ignorant. I am just curious." Well I pretty much chose to open myself up to questions by responding here. There is plenty information on this if you google around, but: Thanks! They're entirely natural i.e. my body made them. If you give anyone enough estrogen they will develop breasts. Doesn't really matter what genitals you were born with. Estrogen: softer skin, slower body and facial hair growth, breast growth, higher body fat %, lower body muscle %. Changes to fat distribution, smell, sweating, and about a million other things. Many trans women have hair removal e.g. laser, but some still have to shave (I do still, removing hair completely takes fucking ages and isn't cheap) Oh and as it's another question people ask, some trans women get a pussy made surgically and some don't, for a million reasons including surgical risks, dysphoria, how comfortable they are with what they have. And some people are happy using their dick, others aren't. Some can still get good erections, some don't (various reasons including what hormones you're on) Some prefer calling it their dick, girldick, clit etc. We're all people and vary massively. | |||
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"Ok,, i don’t find men 1 tiny bit attractive, ive never once looked st a man and thought,, oh yesss But i find a convincing CD/trans/shemale the sexiest thing ever Bigger dick the better I usually dildo my arse cos it feels so good, not because i like the gay aspect,, but because it makes me cum HARD EXPLAIN THAT " Ahhhh you are Fab Straight Alpha male | |||
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"Ok,, i don’t find men 1 tiny bit attractive, ive never once looked st a man and thought,, oh yesss But i find a convincing CD/trans/shemale the sexiest thing ever Bigger dick the better I usually dildo my arse cos it feels so good, not because i like the gay aspect,, but because it makes me cum HARD EXPLAIN THAT Ahhhh you are Fab Straight Alpha male "Haha | |||
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"Ok,, i don’t find men 1 tiny bit attractive, ive never once looked st a man and thought,, oh yesss But i find a convincing CD/trans/shemale the sexiest thing ever Bigger dick the better I usually dildo my arse cos it feels so good, not because i like the gay aspect,, but because it makes me cum HARD EXPLAIN THAT Ahhhh you are Fab Straight Alpha male "Exactly this^^^^^^^^. If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck then it’s probably a duck unless said duck is on fab and identifies as a goose. Have fun op. T | |||
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"Ok,, i don’t find men 1 tiny bit attractive, ive never once looked st a man and thought,, oh yesss But i find a convincing CD/trans/shemale the sexiest thing ever Bigger dick the better I usually dildo my arse cos it feels so good, not because i like the gay aspect,, but because it makes me cum HARD EXPLAIN THAT Ahhhh you are Fab Straight Alpha male " | |||
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"Ok,, i don’t find men 1 tiny bit attractive, ive never once looked st a man and thought,, oh yesss But i find a convincing CD/trans/shemale the sexiest thing ever Bigger dick the better I usually dildo my arse cos it feels so good, not because i like the gay aspect,, but because it makes me cum HARD EXPLAIN THAT Ahhhh you are Fab Straight Alpha male "xxx | |||
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"I’m confused, you are confessing the bigger the dick the better so are you trying to justify your bisexuality to the people of the forum or yourself with this thread? "Bisexuality,? No Not at all,, as i said i find trannys hot Convincing trannys,, i mean so feminine they look Like women,, not just a fella in knickers I like a big dildo in me Bigger the better,, Thats why i find a hot tranny such a turn in You see i think Of them as a female with a cock,, I could never and would never want to go near a fella as a fella | |||
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"I’m confused, you are confessing the bigger the dick the better so are you trying to justify your bisexuality to the people of the forum or yourself with this thread?
Bisexuality,?
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Not at all,, as i said i find trannys hot
Convincing trannys,, i mean so feminine they look
Like women,, not just a fella in knickers
I like a big dildo in me
Bigger the better,,
Thats why i find a hot tranny such a turn in
You see i think
Of them as a female with a cock,,
I could never and would never want to go near a fella as a fella "Still bisexual whether you accept that or not | |||
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"I don't get people's obsession with labels. I like what I like and only matters to me and the people I'm doing it with. For me labels that matter." To most people labels matter and that’s just the world we live in today. If example you are a man but if you identify yourself as a woman I and others have to call you by the pronoun she her etc. That’s a label and to that person it’s possibly very important and to me it’s important not to offend someone by using the wrong label that you state is not important to you which I fully respect because that’s your opinion. The op is a certain way inclined sexually but doesn’t want to be identified as such now there is a label for that but I won’t go there out of respect for the op. Being straight is a label as is being bi-sexual as is being old or ugly or indeed stupid. Love your label and be comfortable in your label because people get narky when you miss label them Edwin the transgender community. I offer mr Sam Smith as evidence . Labels are here to stay in this brave new world so embrace them unless you are delusional. T | |||
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"I don't get people's obsession with labels. I like what I like and only matters to me and the people I'm doing it with. For me labels that matter. To most people labels matter and that’s just the world we live in today. If example you are a man but if you identify yourself as a woman I and others have to call you by the pronoun she her etc. That’s a label and to that person it’s possibly very important and to me it’s important not to offend someone by using the wrong label that you state is not important to you which I fully respect because that’s your opinion. The op is a certain way inclined sexually but doesn’t want to be identified as such now there is a label for that but I won’t go there out of respect for the op. Being straight is a label as is being bi-sexual as is being old or ugly or indeed stupid. Love your label and be comfortable in your label because people get narky when you miss label them Edwin the transgender community. I offer mr Sam Smith as evidence . Labels are here to stay in this brave new world so embrace them unless you are delusional. T" I think we somewhat agree on this. I think there's a difference between labels as an identity (which are important) and ones which are descriptors -and ones which are somewhat forced and can be arbitrary | |||
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"The say our g spot is in our arse so that’s why u like it were made to think it’s wrong but thes a lot of men like to get pegged off there gfs or wife’s but it don’t mean the want cock lol " We all like what we like and as long as it’s consensual then it’s not wrong imho | |||
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"Well this was a refreshing thread. These threads normally descend into "you're gay mate, accept it". But this has mostly been, "you do you, don't worry about labels". Fab has progressed! " Give it ten minutes  | |||
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"Clicked on this thread because of its controversial title and I wasn’t disappointed. " | |||
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"This is such a British thing to say." Thanks,,, cos im 100% British haha | |||
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"Explain it to yourself. You like what you like. Don’t limit yourself to labels. If you like a phallic shaped cock up your ass, you like it. So what? " This | |||
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