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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why do couples say they occasionaly meet as singles too for the right people then when you message them asking if one of the couple will meet they message back saying that wouldnt be fair on their other half .

grrrrrr gets us so annoyed.

if you dont want to leave your other half behind then dont put that you do on your profile.!!!!!

just a waste of time reading the dam profile otherwise .

wot does everyone else think or is it just us

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"why do couples say they occasionaly meet as singles too for the right people then when you message them asking if one of the couple will meet they message back saying that wouldnt be fair on their other half .

grrrrrr gets us so annoyed.

if you dont want to leave your other half behind then dont put that you do on your profile.!!!!!

just a waste of time reading the dam profile otherwise .

wot does everyone else think or is it just us "

As you mentioned... they say they meet as singles for the right people... you weren't the right people .... sorry

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"just a waste of time reading the dam profile otherwise"

We often think it's a waste of time writing a profile as no one seems to read it!!

On our profile: "Do not wink us without attaching a message” what do we get?

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I concur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...........

On our profile: "Do not wink us without attaching a message” what do we get? "

.......hot buttered tea cakes??????

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"...........

On our profile: "Do not wink us without attaching a message” what do we get?

.......hot buttered tea cakes??????"

mmmm with lurpak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...........

On our profile: "Do not wink us without attaching a message” what do we get?

.......hot buttered tea cakes??????

mmmm with lurpak"
now ur talking

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


".......hot buttered tea cakes??????"

Yes please with a cup of tea of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its not the fact that we may not be the right people its the fact of saying well i dont want to leave my partner out.

this to me says there is no intention of meeting as a single to be honest..all be it possibly miss interpreted with how the reply was send but if they genuinly dont want to play without eachother then its simple...dont put that you do in your profile or am i getting it wrong again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".......hot buttered tea cakes??????

Yes please with a cup of tea of course "

kettle's on

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


".......hot buttered tea cakes??????

Yes please with a cup of tea of course "

tetley

ahem or any other brand of good tea x

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"kettle's on "

It'll be cold bi the time we et there unless you got a tea cosy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"kettle's on

It'll be cold bi the time we et there unless you got a tea cosy "

everything always cosy here....well...since the boiler blew up and i been huddled round the woodburner...lolol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"its not the fact that we may not be the right people its the fact of saying well i dont want to leave my partner out.

this to me says there is no intention of meeting as a single to be honest..all be it possibly miss interpreted with how the reply was send but if they genuinly dont want to play without eachother then its simple...dont put that you do in your profile or am i getting it wrong again "

Sometimes you need to read between the lines - they may not mean what they said in their reply to you as they were wanting to be kind and not be harsh in their not wanting to meet you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol cheers for clearing that up zoe lol and ooops the message i was guna put on here went to you in pm instead ,,,my appologies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe what they actually mean is that they might meet the right singles on their own? who knows, theres nowt stranger than folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you guys are prepared to wait until the weekend I'll be making fruit scones, filled with strawberry jam and fresh cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always hard to play as a couple anyway as you have to fancy both of them to start with. You also have to feel relaxed and it's usually difficult for one half or the other playing alone so can we ask a question why would yo not try to meet a single if thats who you both wanted to play with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you guys are prepared to wait until the weekend I'll be making fruit scones, filled with strawberry jam and fresh cream "

yummmy - cup of earl grey or builders?

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"If you guys are prepared to wait until the weekend I'll be making fruit scones, filled with strawberry jam and fresh cream "

I hate strawberry jam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another possibility is that they may be open to the idea of meeting as a single after they've established a relationship of some level playing as a couple first, and once they all know each other and feel comfortable with each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another possibility is that they may be open to the idea of meeting as a single after they've established a relationship of some level playing as a couple first, and once they all know each other and feel comfortable with each other.

"

very true indeed it takes a while for everyone to feel secure enouugh for that

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