FabSwingers.com forum: Whats more intimate

By *etefromderby OP Man
over a year ago

Derby

Whats more intimate? Me and my girlfriend were chatting the other day and was on about our first sort of date,

So we had parked up not far from her house and we hadn't kiss at all at this point yet,

but she took my cock out and sucked me off till shot my cum down her throat, I asked her to go back to her house so we fuck but she wasn't letting me fuck her!(she lived alone)

So is lady do u think fucking someone is more intimate than swollening someones cum?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I think if you’ve swallowed someone’s cum then anything else is like closing the barn door after the horse has bolted.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think either is necessarily intimate.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I think if you’ve swallowed someone’s cum then anything else is like closing the barn door after the horse has bolted."

Tell that to Bill Clinton

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I think if you’ve swallowed someone’s cum then anything else is like closing the barn door after the horse has bolted.

Tell that to Bill Clinton

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes.

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By *hy_bbw24Woman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

This is totally subjective, my own personal opinion is neither!

Intimacy can mean different things to different people.

Grabbing a cock and sucking it and/or being fucked is not what I would class as intimacy

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I don't think either is necessarily intimate. "

I agree.

Real intimacy for me is opening up to someone emotionally and telling them my thoughts/fears/hopes/insecurities etc.

And I’m not prone to do that with many people.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don't think either is necessarily intimate.

I agree.

Real intimacy for me is opening up to someone emotionally and telling them my thoughts/fears/hopes/insecurities etc.

And I’m not prone to do that with many people. "

I'm the same. Also holding someone's hand, that's intimacy for me

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I don't think either is necessarily intimate.

I agree.

Real intimacy for me is opening up to someone emotionally and telling them my thoughts/fears/hopes/insecurities etc.

And I’m not prone to do that with many people.

I'm the same. Also holding someone's hand, that's intimacy for me"

Oh god yes.

I want someone to hold my hand.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I wouldn’t say either are particularly intimate OP tbh

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By *nlyessexCouple
over a year ago

Hornchurch

I would say a cuddle with a cup of tea on the sofa watching a film is

The other is sex and that’s exciting

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"I don't think either is necessarily intimate.

I agree.

Real intimacy for me is opening up to someone emotionally and telling them my thoughts/fears/hopes/insecurities etc.

And I’m not prone to do that with many people. "

Yeah this.

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

But plenty of people do.

Partly because of some shitty old belief about notches on bedposts or whatever. Because blow jobs don't count.

All a load of crap and I agree with the others here. Neither are my idea of intimacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intimate? Haha. Both sound just sexy. Intimate would be a whole different scenario.

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan
over a year ago

Londontown

Wouldn't consider either intimate. Sexual acts are carnal.

Intimacy is being fully vulnerable, and be brave enough to expose it to someone without fear of judgement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think either is necessarily intimate.

I agree.

Real intimacy for me is opening up to someone emotionally and telling them my thoughts/fears/hopes/insecurities etc.

And I’m not prone to do that with many people.

Yeah this."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intimacy is honesty, not sure it's that available on here.

Going back to the sex point, I started a serious relationship with someone off here. After a while, I found that she did not consider giving a blowjob as having sex. She also said that she'd had no sexual partners prior to me for about a year, but later said that she'd had sex with some guys recently, but that they were not "sexual partners". I got it, sort of, but felt that it was odd to think that way, and did feel misled. She would also tell me things about where she's had sex, and then forget she'd told me. When I'd say playful things related to what she'd told me, she'd say that she'd never done them. I didn't like it at all. End of any intimacy because I lost trust and faith in her. That's part of why I'm back here now.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Whats more intimate? Me and my girlfriend were chatting the other day and was on about our first sort of date,

So we had parked up not far from her house and we hadn't kiss at all at this point yet,

but she took my cock out and sucked me off till shot my cum down her throat, I asked her to go back to her house so we fuck but she wasn't letting me fuck her!(she lived alone)

So is lady do u think fucking someone is more intimate than swollening someones cum? "

Never cease to amaze me the questions that get asks here.

Lol

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

I don't consider that intimate. Sex ? Yes. Intimate ? No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats more intimate? Me and my girlfriend were chatting the other day and was on about our first sort of date,

So we had parked up not far from her house and we hadn't kiss at all at this point yet,

but she took my cock out and sucked me off till shot my cum down her throat, I asked her to go back to her house so we fuck but she wasn't letting me fuck her!(she lived alone)

So is lady do u think fucking someone is more intimate than swollening someones cum? "

Well that obviously wasn’t her first time hahaha

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

When hungry, it could just be a survival instinct, rather than intimacy.

Many would view their sexual engagement with each act differently. Getting penetrated may feel very different to penetration too. Sexual behaviour can be like an athletic pursuit, rather than intimacy too

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Intimate for me are those happy hours of cock worship and things that are decided as the dynamic evolves.

I can happily suck a dick without giving a shit. But I don't fuck people that I don't actively want to have that way. And the casual dick sucking in clubs is not even close to the hours I like to spend on the people who matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I class intimacy as her touching my mind not touching or sucking my cock in the blink of an eye, those things can be intimate when a connection is established between the both of you and that type of intimacy and connection is more what I’m about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats more intimate? Me and my girlfriend were chatting the other day and was on about our first sort of date,

So we had parked up not far from her house and we hadn't kiss at all at this point yet,

but she took my cock out and sucked me off till shot my cum down her throat, I asked her to go back to her house so we fuck but she wasn't letting me fuck her!(she lived alone)

So is lady do u think fucking someone is more intimate than swollening someones cum? "

both are just sex, intimate is long kisses and touches and sexy chat to me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I think it depends on the dynamic you have with someone. There's varying levels of intimacy isn't there? I could never, and have never, given oral sex to a random person.

So for me there is a certain level of intimacy I guess but the real deciding factor is the relationship (as in any relationship) I have with another.

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