FabSwingers.com forum: Have you ever

By *ora the explorer OP Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not even looked at a message because the username has put you off so much?

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Yeah a few times

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

"Not even looked at a message because the username has put you off so much?"

No but at times it would be so easy too.

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By *hunkyBuggaMan
over a year ago

Devon

As a single male, I read every message as they are so few and far between

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By *undance_KidMan
over a year ago

London

Sometimes because of the profile pic too.

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By *relanddirectMan
over a year ago

cheshire

Never receive messages haha

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Yeah a few times "

I do it all the time. I got called a shallow bitch because of it

. Maybe I am then, I don’t know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single male, I read every message as they are so few and far between

Truth

Never been so busy with so many messages that I couldn’t at least just open it and see

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I haven't even read this thread

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Never receive messages haha "

What! With those tightey whiteys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah… analdestroyer69 doesn’t fill me with joy

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I haven't even read this thread

does my user name put you off?

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I ignore some but mainly cos im in a bad mood rather than a stupid name i probly wont answer tho but thats cos i dont like people more than awt

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No as i tend to read the message before anything else. Afterwards i have once.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Sometimes because of the profile pic too."

Oh god yeah that’s a whole other reason on it’s own not to open them

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"No as i tend to read the message before anything else. Afterwards i have once."

Ah. I do it the other way round. Read profile first. If the rest hasn’t put me off first

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I ignore some but mainly cos im in a bad mood rather than a stupid name i probly wont answer tho but thats cos i dont like people more than awt"

. I do wonder if I’m bordering on misanthropy sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I changed my username, I thought "BIGBULLHEAVYCUMMERPUSSYDESTROYER" was a bit aggressive and maybe a tad offputting

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

"I ignore some but mainly cos im in a bad mood rather than a stupid name i probly wont answer tho but thats cos i dont like people more than awt

. I do wonder if I’m bordering on misanthropy sometimes. "

do you really think iv any idea what that would mean come on nora and no im not googling it i know the fab rules

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I ignore some but mainly cos im in a bad mood rather than a stupid name i probly wont answer tho but thats cos i dont like people more than awt

. I do wonder if I’m bordering on misanthropy sometimes.

do you really think iv any idea what that would mean come on nora and no im not googling it i know the fab rules"

I’ve not told ya lately how much I loves you kiddo

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

"I ignore some but mainly cos im in a bad mood rather than a stupid name i probly wont answer tho but thats cos i dont like people more than awt

. I do wonder if I’m bordering on misanthropy sometimes.

do you really think iv any idea what that would mean come on nora and no im not googling it i know the fab rules

I’ve not told ya lately how much I loves you kiddo

"
heard it before

like you

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I ignore some but mainly cos im in a bad mood rather than a stupid name i probly wont answer tho but thats cos i dont like people more than awt

. I do wonder if I’m bordering on misanthropy sometimes.

do you really think iv any idea what that would mean come on nora and no im not googling it i know the fab rules

I’ve not told ya lately how much I loves you kiddo

heard it before

like you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not even looked at a message because the username has put you off so much?"

Yes, and/or the profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Px

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Yeah lol there's some godawful ones out there lol

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Yeah… analdestroyer69 doesn’t fill me with joy

He would

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Yeah defo - and/or their profile pic is a massive ‘nope not today sunshine - I’ve just eaten’

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Nope. Some of them make me chuckle.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"No as i tend to read the message before anything else. Afterwards i have once.

Ah. I do it the other way round. Read profile first. If the rest hasn’t put me off first "

Yes i think I'm probably rare to do it the way i do.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Only if it's clearly a fake account.

I really doubt a 10/10 hot woman is gonna call herself fillmeholesdaddy

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"As a single male, I read every message as they are so few and far between

Truth

Never been so busy with so many messages that I couldn’t at least just open it and see "

It’s not to do with being busy with messages though. If I only got 2 a month it would still put me off.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"As a single male, I read every message as they are so few and far between

Truth

Never been so busy with so many messages that I couldn’t at least just open it and see

It’s not to do with being busy with messages though. If I only got 2 a month it would still put me off.

Bloody thumb. I hate thumbs. I didn’t even press the thumb!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. I got one from a name that reminded me of a tv show I would watch as a kid and it grossed me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah defo - and/or their profile pic is a massive ‘nope not today sunshine - I’ve just eaten’

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Yeah. I got one from a name that reminded me of a tv show I would watch as a kid and it grossed me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely anything with breed me in is a no go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

"Yeah. I got one from a name that reminded me of a tv show I would watch as a kid and it grossed me out

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dick n dom?

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By *ubbyandHisHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Glasgowish

yeah i often think wtaf was going through your head when you thought that was an intriguing username lol

also profile pics too - single guy profiles whose main photo is a female obv on their dick but the majority of the pic is a random female - pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I always read all my messages, but I don't receive that many so it doesn't take much time.

Depending on what is said, and what their profile is like, as to whether I reply. I may reply telling them their username is gross, or just delete it.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Yeah. I got one from a name that reminded me of a tv show I would watch as a kid and it grossed me out

dick n dom?

Could be Curious George

. Or The Backyardigans

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Yes, because I wish to ascertain if the 'quality' and substance of the message aligns with the less-than-savoury username.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes absolutely but mostly when it’s a profile picture that includes a close up of her … yip you get the picture, I’m sure I miss out on chatting to some lovely people as I probably shouldn’t be so judgmental however my mind is instantly switched off so it’s a none starter.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Yes absolutely but mostly when it’s a profile picture that includes a close up of her … yip you get the picture, I’m sure I miss out on chatting to some lovely people as I probably shouldn’t be so judgmental however my mind is instantly switched off so it’s a none starter."

Is it judgemental though? I suppose it is. But is being judgemental a bad thing? I probably am but it’s worked for me. I can know by a pic/username/profile content that someone will definitely not be for me. If that’s judgmental then I’ll take it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely! Some names do put me off

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By *wesomecoupleCouple
over a year ago

east of england

i have, some username are just too weird.

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes Nora - and then I found message filters

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Yes Nora - and then I found message filters

You can’t filter by user name PB!

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Yes Nora - and then I found message filters

You can’t filter by user name PB!"

Well the stupid names are usually owned by blokes so yeah, you can

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Yes Nora - and then I found message filters

You can’t filter by user name PB!

Well the stupid names are usually owned by blokes so yeah, you can

Ahhhhhh I see! Haha most are to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately so

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the damn time! Do people genuinely not realise?

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"Not even looked at a message because the username has put you off so much?"

Yup...a few times.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Yup...

usually anyone calling themselves alpha or daddy

Or anything incredibly crude

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Not even looked at a message because the username has put you off so much?"
yes and or the pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I’ve always looked at the message.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Many, many times, and I’m unapologetically honest. Especially if it contains any references to cum

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

No as I'm a man and I get so few I have to cherish the ones I do get lol

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"No as I'm a man and I get so few I have to cherish the ones I do get lol"
do you have them framed?

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