FabSwingers.com forum: Mental stimulation

By *ags73 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

Is there a member profile that just does it for you in terms of what they’ve written, their pics, their status updates and their forum content that you just think yeah, yes please.

And have you messaged them?

For me that’s yes and no as I’m a big shitebag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes lots of profiles a clever username, witty bio & of course pics any of those appeal to me,i have messaged but i assume a random message comes off bad rarely get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely. I messaged them too.

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By *ady IncognitoWoman
over a year ago

I love a funny, intelligent profile.

My hot list is full of them.

No, obviously I haven't actually *messaged* these people...that would be scary!

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By *ags73 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

"I love a funny, intelligent profile.

My hot list is full of them.

No, obviously I haven't actually *messaged* these people...that would be scary! "

Love your profile. I’m not sure I have a favourite maybe a diplodocus as I saw dippy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. There’s many. And the reason that would make me message immediately.

Others are just good photos or good text, but when there’s a profile that I see as ticking everybox where I believe we’d get along, I try to introduce myself. And there’s lots.

My advise op, send a dm, take a jump into the unknown and find out if they think the same way as you.

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By *issMBWoman
over a year ago

North

Yes absolutely. I add them to my hotlist and 9 times out of 10 I'll message them as well.

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Yes indeed,and I've messaged a couple of them. 1 of which I'm excited to meet soon

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By *ags73 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

My advise op, send a dm, take a jump into the unknown and find out if they think the same way as you.

Carpe Diem.

(Gulp)

Thanks

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I'm always puzzled by this, I like profiles that show someone personality but don't get the "stimulate me mentally thing" isn't it a mix of what you say in a message, your profile and pics that get a response? E.g from someone who you tick all those boxes.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes I have messaged first because of all the above and I'm very glad I did

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By *ags73 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

"I'm always puzzled by this, I like profiles that show someone personality but don't get the "stimulate me mentally thing" isn't it a mix of what you say in a message, your profile and pics that get a response? E.g from someone who you tick all those boxes. "

I think my question is how you define showing personality?

Funny or good pics or ?

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By *ags73 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

"Yes I have messaged first because of all the above and I'm very glad I did

Brilliant. Well in you.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Not because of a profile maybe more what they put here

A profile is just sales propaganda means nothing to me

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I think my question is how you define showing personality?

Funny or good pics or ?

Oh I see, well I'm at a loss there then. I've always assumed my profile shows my personality but not sure currently.

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