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"Hi at the risk of getting slated,as a married man on here looking for genuine couple for mfm 3sum and friendship,what is it I am missing about swingers? I consider myself quite good looking non pushy and genuine but don't understand why such a problem to take things further chats go well but meets don't materialise,is it the fact I chat to the wrong people/they aren't really a couple or I just don't understand??? " It could be any number of reasons but if couples don't accommodate, you can't obviously, and the plethora of "genuine" single men that can...well, who gets first dibs you reckon? | |||
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"the hardest part is that I know if I got a meet everything would be ok " And so says every other single guy that doesn't get what swinging is about. I don't mean that nastily but just be yourself on your profile and in messages and everything else will follow. If it doesn't then maybe swinging isn't for you. | |||
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"Hi at the risk of getting slated,as a married man on here looking for genuine couple for mfm 3sum and friendship,what is it I am missing about swingers? I consider myself quite good looking non pushy and genuine but don't understand why such a problem to take things further chats go well but meets don't materialise,is it the fact I chat to the wrong people/they aren't really a couple or I just don't understand??? " See my post, I have been up front with people ref the post, but you will always get people who just think its wrong of you to be doing this. I say to them, its my life and I will live it the way I do. I do not judge people. Hope it all works out for you. | |||
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"Thanks for replies guys understand what your saying however as I'm upfront about it people know this,a lot of couples say it's not for them but some say its not a problem yet are happy to chat and then nothing,the hardest part is that I know if I got a meet everything would be ok(that's not meant in an arrogant way just I'm confident it would be fine) help?? lol " You need to see this from the couples point of view. You arrange a meet with a couple who are okay with the fact that you're married, and then at the last minute your wife reminds you that you are supposed to be doing something else and you have to cancel. What is the couple now going to think of you????? You arrange a meet with a couple who are okay with the fact that you're married, and then you rather stupidly leave your phone laying around, your wife picks it up and scrolls through your 'recent activity'. The next thing you know, you've got an irate couple on the phone asking why your wife has been threatening them with all kinds of crap! What are the couple going to think of you then..???? That's just two of the pitfalls a couple has in meeting a married guy for a private meet - whether he's upfront about being married or not. Any couple with any common sense will err on the side of caution and, having thought about the possible ramifications of going through the meet with you, will blow you out. It's as simple as that. The only way which is reliable for both YOU and any couple you play with, is to go to a club. At least then if either of you blows the other out, you can still get to play with others. For the couples POV it's a simple case of safety and security, and they will go with caution every time... | |||
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" But most of all I fail to see how when they play with couples they have any respect for that couples relationship and for the female half when their own is so unimportant. " Personally, if I were in a couple THIS would be the reason I'd not play with married people. | |||
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