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"The howling winds of the desert, the sands of time, they come for all of us." You're not even old pfttt | |||
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"I don’t know what I don’t know "How do we learn to know what we should know? And the people we should have heard of. The phrase "you haven't heard of xxx!" Is aimed at me far too often. Is there an email newsletter or summat? | |||
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"I don’t know what I don’t know
How do we learn to know what we should know? And the people we should have heard of. The phrase "you haven't heard of xxx!" Is aimed at me far too often. Is there an email newsletter or summat? "Urban Dictionary is your friend | |||
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"The howling winds of the desert, the sands of time, they come for all of us. You're not even old pfttt Age is relative. To some I'm ancient, from the age of the dinosaurs. At my volunteering they call me an infant "Do you get patronised by tweens and teens though? | |||
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How do we learn to know what we should know? And the people we should have heard of. The phrase "you haven't heard of xxx!" Is aimed at me far too often. Is there an email newsletter or summat?
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"The howling winds of the desert, the sands of time, they come for all of us. You're not even old pfttt Age is relative. To some I'm ancient, from the age of the dinosaurs. At my volunteering they call me an infant
Do you get patronised by tweens and teens though?"I don't really have them in my social circle, so no. People in their 20s, yeah, sometimes. | |||
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"The howling winds of the desert, the sands of time, they come for all of us. You're not even old pfttt Age is relative. To some I'm ancient, from the age of the dinosaurs. At my volunteering they call me an infant
Do you get patronised by tweens and teens though?
I don't really have them in my social circle, so no.
People in their 20s, yeah, sometimes."You can always tell Pickle to zip it | |||
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"The howling winds of the desert, the sands of time, they come for all of us. You're not even old pfttt Age is relative. To some I'm ancient, from the age of the dinosaurs. At my volunteering they call me an infant
Do you get patronised by tweens and teens though?
I don't really have them in my social circle, so no.
People in their 20s, yeah, sometimes.
You can always tell Pickle to zip it "not just him! | |||
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"I love using slang I don’t fully get in the context I think it’s right. No cap It’s fun, it’s a good way to rizz the youth, on god no cap. Cap though. " This is a support thread. Don't you come on here with your capping!! | |||
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"The howling winds of the desert, the sands of time, they come for all of us. You're not even old pfttt Age is relative. To some I'm ancient, from the age of the dinosaurs. At my volunteering they call me an infant
Do you get patronised by tweens and teens though?
I don't really have them in my social circle, so no.
People in their 20s, yeah, sometimes.
You can always tell Pickle to zip it
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"I love using slang I don’t fully get in the context I think it’s right. No cap It’s fun, it’s a good way to rizz the youth, on god no cap. Cap though. This is a support thread. Don't you come on here with your capping!!" My bad fam. SMDH | |||
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Weekly email? "Any word your child mutters, just stick it in there. They'll soon think you're phat | |||
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"I love using slang I don’t fully get in the context I think it’s right. No cap It’s fun, it’s a good way to rizz the youth, on god no cap. Cap though. This is a support thread. Don't you come on here with your capping!! My bad fam. SMDH "  | |||
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"I was watching Scandal and an issue with a sex tape was the topic. First time I’ve heard of Eiffel Towering. Had to Google it
Every day is a school day as they say. "And should I also Google? | |||
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Weekly email?
Any word your child mutters, just stick it in there. They'll soon think you're phat"They fucking talk a LOT, Willy. And they tell me I'm fat and old already? | |||
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"Rizz, means charisma or cool. Fire, mean hot or good. No cap, means not a lie. Simp, means a weak or fem man That is all I can remember at the moment. Not bad for a man in his 40s." I need some study cards to learn all this. It's menopause, I feel 87.  | |||
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"Rizz, means charisma or cool. Fire, mean hot or good. No cap, means not a lie. Simp, means a weak or fem man That is all I can remember at the moment. Not bad for a man in his 40s." Based | |||
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"I ‘low key’ like Call The Midwife "So you kinda like it? You like it but no-one should know?  | |||
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"Rizz, means charisma or cool. Fire, mean hot or good. No cap, means not a lie. Simp, means a weak or fem man That is all I can remember at the moment. Not bad for a man in his 40s. Based " Stop it now (wags finger) | |||
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"A 'roadman' is a nefarious individual who may conduct a lot of legally questionable activities away from their primary home address "Brilliant definition. Wish I could recall my son's version. | |||
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Need to Google rizz. That's in the house lingo now. Good catch ."Simp is old has been around since I was in my mid 20s. Rizz I genuinely had no idea existed until few weeks ago | |||
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"The only way for the boomers to combat this is to bring back their slang Start calling them scallywags " Rapscallion! | |||
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"Roadman is one of those words I’m weary of because it’s also become coded racist language of white middle class people. " Ffs Steve. Nobody likes a black guy that makes everything about race | |||
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"Roadman is one of those words I’m weary of because it’s also become coded racist language of white middle class people. " Did your teacher have metre long rulers they used to scare the shit out of you? If they did... imagine that. weary. wary. know the difference. love the difference | |||
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"Rizz, means charisma or cool. Fire, mean hot or good. No cap, means not a lie. Simp, means a weak or fem man That is all I can remember at the moment. Not bad for a man in his 40s. I need some study cards to learn all this. It's menopause, I feel 87. "It gets even worse when in your 80s and have 3 grandkids under 13  | |||
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"Roadman is one of those words I’m weary of because it’s also become coded racist language of white middle class people. Ffs Steve. Nobody likes a black guy that makes everything about rice n' peas." • Fixed... ^  | |||
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"Roadman is one of those words I’m weary of because it’s also become coded racist language of white middle class people. Ffs Steve. Nobody likes a black guy that makes everything about race" Are there roadwomen? Equal opportunities coded racism, if you please!!  | |||
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"There are so many words! I usually Google or urban dictionary it
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Simp is an old one, surely?"The modern employment is a decidedly vulgar acronym denoting a (usually male) who lavishes all their affections on a decidedly unappreciative woman. | |||
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"Roadman is one of those words I’m weary of because it’s also become coded racist language of white middle class people. Did your teacher have metre long rulers they used to scare the shit out of you? If they did... imagine that. weary. wary. know the difference. love the difference "Thanks. I’m tired but thanks | |||
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"Roadman is one of those words I’m weary of because it’s also become coded racist language of white middle class people. Ffs Steve. Nobody likes a black guy that makes everything about rice n' peas. • Fixed... ^ "I love rice and peas. I might make some this weekend | |||
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"Roadman is one of those words I’m weary of because it’s also become coded racist language of white middle class people. Ffs Steve. Nobody likes a black guy that makes everything about race Are there roadwomen? Equal opportunities coded racism, if you please!! "Yes- but people who do road are in my experience just referred to as road. *sorry. Tired lol | |||
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"Rizz, means charisma or cool. Fire, mean hot or good. No cap, means not a lie. Simp, means a weak or fem man That is all I can remember at the moment. Not bad for a man in his 40s." You know you're getting old when you read something like this and think its actually really informative lol. I just assumed simp was simple. Had no idea what no cap could of meant. | |||
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"King's English or nothing please." Fuck the king and his shitty English. | |||
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"Roadman is one of those words I’m weary of because it’s also become coded racist language of white middle class people. " It is? My son seemed to think it was same as chav. But he's pretty sheltered tbh. | |||
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"It's always useful to google these things so you can keep on top of them "But I forget as soon as I Google it. There's no hope for me | |||
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"King's English or nothing please." Sorry, don't know that. Define? | |||
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"My favourite thing about fab is how young it makes me feel. Because in reality I am not and the youth of today and their language are constant reminders of that. The slang of my youth is slowly being replaced by terms I don’t know. But my 15 year old brother is useful to keep me up to date" You have to bear in mind that culturally the rest of the UK, with maybe the exception of Birmingham, lags behind London in terms of slang, among other things. There's non-londoners only now learning of words that I was using in the mid 2000's Since I've been in the North West some people are still wearing clothing styles up here that haven't been seen in London since 2010. | |||
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"Roadman is one of those words I’m weary of because it’s also become coded racist language of white middle class people. It is? My son seemed to think it was same as chav. But he's pretty sheltered tbh." It is _sometimes_ used in a specific way to describe Black men wearing trackies and a hoodie or people with a pouch. Or that speak slang. It’s one of those microaggressions that if you know you know. But I’d say someone that’s road lives a very particular life. I wouldn’t describe them as chavs at all but I know the term is used in that way too. Blah blah blah | |||
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Simp is an old one, surely?
The modern employment is a decidedly vulgar acronym denoting a (usually male) who lavishes all their affections on a decidedly unappreciative woman.
"That's an interesting way to define it as it makes the male seem very hard-done by. And the woman a bitch. I've always seen it as men who suck up to women in the unlikely hope of action. | |||
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Simp is an old one, surely?"Simp isn’t that like being all soppy over a crush? | |||
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"I was watching Scandal and an issue with a sex tape was the topic. First time I’ve heard of Eiffel Towering. Had to Google it
Every day is a school day as they say. "In my day Eiffel Towering is just being spit-roasted??? Or have the youngsters improved on the old classic? | |||
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"There are so many words! I usually Google or urban dictionary it
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Simp is an old one, surely?
The modern employment is a decidedly vulgar acronym denoting a (usually male) who lavishes all their affections on a decidedly unappreciative woman.
That's an interesting way to define it as it makes the male seem very hard-done by. And the woman a bitch. I've always seen it as men who suck up to women in the unlikely hope of action. "Ostensibly, in its most lewd definition, it stands for, ‘Suckers Idolizing Mediocre Pussy’. However, the word itself historically has other, altogether less vulgar connotations I.e it is an abbreviated denotation for a simpleton. Interestingly, from what I can ascertain, none of its usages have ever been in a positive sense. | |||
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"My favourite thing about the _slang_ of the youth is the fact that it is a mix of so many different cultures and variations of English. It’s massively influenced by Black cultures around the world. It’s a variation of English. A way of communicating. A language that you slip into around familiar people or strangers that get it. When you don’t speak any language you feel excluded. But actually it’s rather beautiful. I hate more than anything people that try and pretend that variations of English are less than or are annoying just because they don’t speak it. And fab is one of those places but it’s a general thing I’ve found in my life. It’s why even though you can be born here you still get the ‘you speak so well’ when you’re code switching Etc etc. " Another way of looking at how you excellently described it is that anyone outside the little bubble that understands the slang is excluded and has no clue what is being said … which makes it a very ineffective way of communicating. | |||
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"There are so many words! I usually Google or urban dictionary it
Heard simp and rizz recently!
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Simp is an old one, surely?
The modern employment is a decidedly vulgar acronym denoting a (usually male) who lavishes all their affections on a decidedly unappreciative woman.
That's an interesting way to define it as it makes the male seem very hard-done by. And the woman a bitch. I've always seen it as men who suck up to women in the unlikely hope of action.
Ostensibly, in its most lewd definition, it stands for, ‘Suckers Idolizing Mediocre Pussy’.
However, the word itself historically has other, altogether less vulgar connotations I.e it is an abbreviated denotation for a simpleton.
Interestingly, from what I can ascertain, none of its usages have ever been in a positive sense.
"Simp is an important one because it’s common and guys need to be called out on it. Many don’t even realise they’re doing it No cap | |||
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"There are so many words! I usually Google or urban dictionary it
Heard simp and rizz recently!
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Simp is an old one, surely?
The modern employment is a decidedly vulgar acronym denoting a (usually male) who lavishes all their affections on a decidedly unappreciative woman.
That's an interesting way to define it as it makes the male seem very hard-done by. And the woman a bitch. I've always seen it as men who suck up to women in the unlikely hope of action.
Ostensibly, in its most lewd definition, it stands for, ‘Suckers Idolizing Mediocre Pussy’.
However, the word itself historically has other, altogether less vulgar connotations I.e it is an abbreviated denotation for a simpleton.
Interestingly, from what I can ascertain, none of its usages have ever been in a positive sense.
Simp is an important one because it’s common and guys need to be called out on it. Many don’t even realise they’re doing it
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"There are so many words! I usually Google or urban dictionary it
Heard simp and rizz recently!
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Simp is an old one, surely?
The modern employment is a decidedly vulgar acronym denoting a (usually male) who lavishes all their affections on a decidedly unappreciative woman.
That's an interesting way to define it as it makes the male seem very hard-done by. And the woman a bitch. I've always seen it as men who suck up to women in the unlikely hope of action.
Ostensibly, in its most lewd definition, it stands for, ‘Suckers Idolizing Mediocre Pussy’.
However, the word itself historically has other, altogether less vulgar connotations I.e it is an abbreviated denotation for a simpleton.
Interestingly, from what I can ascertain, none of its usages have ever been in a positive sense.
Simp is an important one because it’s common and guys need to be called out on it. Many don’t even realise they’re doing it
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"My favourite thing about the _slang_ of the youth is the fact that it is a mix of so many different cultures and variations of English. It’s massively influenced by Black cultures around the world. It’s a variation of English. A way of communicating. A language that you slip into around familiar people or strangers that get it. When you don’t speak any language you feel excluded. But actually it’s rather beautiful. I hate more than anything people that try and pretend that variations of English are less than or are annoying just because they don’t speak it. And fab is one of those places but it’s a general thing I’ve found in my life. It’s why even though you can be born here you still get the ‘you speak so well’ when you’re code switching Etc etc. Another way of looking at how you excellently described it is that anyone outside the little bubble that understands the slang is excluded and has no clue what is being said … which makes it a very ineffective way of communicating. " But the point of language is that it’s used to communicate, generally, with people that do understand it. The obvious limit of this type of language exists only with people who are unable to codeswitch. Which is not because of the language but because of other social factors that are likely impacting their education (where they learn ‘good’ English). I’ve seen fabbers communicate in Spanish with other people and I have no idea what they’re saying, and perhaps I’m excluded, but they’re communicating with people that DO understand. If they did that in conversation with me that’s entirely different. But this language, or this variation of the English language, is great. And it’s great because in many ways it actually transcends geography. | |||
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"There are so many words! I usually Google or urban dictionary it
Heard simp and rizz recently!
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Simp is an old one, surely?
The modern employment is a decidedly vulgar acronym denoting a (usually male) who lavishes all their affections on a decidedly unappreciative woman.
That's an interesting way to define it as it makes the male seem very hard-done by. And the woman a bitch. I've always seen it as men who suck up to women in the unlikely hope of action.
Ostensibly, in its most lewd definition, it stands for, ‘Suckers Idolizing Mediocre Pussy’.
However, the word itself historically has other, altogether less vulgar connotations I.e it is an abbreviated denotation for a simpleton.
Interestingly, from what I can ascertain, none of its usages have ever been in a positive sense.
Simp is an important one because it’s common and guys need to be called out on it. Many don’t even realise they’re doing it
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Friends don’t let friends simp. On god "… this is not you | |||
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*this is how we talk now!
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"There are so many words! I usually Google or urban dictionary it
Heard simp and rizz recently!
Mr
Simp is an old one, surely?
The modern employment is a decidedly vulgar acronym denoting a (usually male) who lavishes all their affections on a decidedly unappreciative woman.
That's an interesting way to define it as it makes the male seem very hard-done by. And the woman a bitch. I've always seen it as men who suck up to women in the unlikely hope of action.
Ostensibly, in its most lewd definition, it stands for, ‘Suckers Idolizing Mediocre Pussy’.
However, the word itself historically has other, altogether less vulgar connotations I.e it is an abbreviated denotation for a simpleton.
Interestingly, from what I can ascertain, none of its usages have ever been in a positive sense.
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"How am I supposed to keep up with the lingo? Is lingo even a word I'm allowed to use? Yesterday my son mentioned roadmen. I still don't understand his garbled explanation for a word I've never heard before. What else don't I know? What else don't you know? "The Roadmen? Sounds like a psychedelic band from around 1967 | |||
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"What gets me is when they text me and put 'kk'. It's 'OK', not 'kk'. Why do it?! It's still just 2 letters to type which are beside each other on the keyboard." I had a text from my son in the next room. He ended with ALR.  | |||
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"How am I supposed to keep up with the lingo? Is lingo even a word I'm allowed to use? Yesterday my son mentioned roadmen. I still don't understand his garbled explanation for a word I've never heard before. What else don't I know? What else don't you know?
The Roadmen? Sounds like a psychedelic band from around 1967"But you know what it means this century now, yeah? | |||
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"Rizz, means charisma or cool. Fire, mean hot or good. No cap, means not a lie. Simp, means a weak or fem man That is all I can remember at the moment. Not bad for a man in his 40s. You know you're getting old when you read something like this and think it’s actually really informative lol. I just assumed simp was simple. Had no idea what no cap could of meant. " What’s with you 26 & 31year olds bangin on about bein old ??? | |||
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"My favourite thing about the _slang_ of the youth is the fact that it is a mix of so many different cultures and variations of English. It’s massively influenced by Black cultures around the world. It’s a variation of English. A way of communicating. A language that you slip into around familiar people or strangers that get it. When you don’t speak any language you feel excluded. But actually it’s rather beautiful. I hate more than anything people that try and pretend that variations of English are less than or are annoying just because they don’t speak it. And fab is one of those places but it’s a general thing I’ve found in my life. It’s why even though you can be born here you still get the ‘you speak so well’ when you’re code switching Etc etc. Another way of looking at how you excellently described it is that anyone outside the little bubble that understands the slang is excluded and has no clue what is being said … which makes it a very ineffective way of communicating. " Or a very effective way of excluding those outside your group | |||
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"Roadman is one of those words I’m weary of because it’s also become coded racist language of white middle class people. It is? My son seemed to think it was same as chav. But he's pretty sheltered tbh." He's right, I think in general the youth call roadmen very similar to chav, definitely not middle class. Hanging outside sports direct in large groups with their sports attire and puffer jackets | |||
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Simp is an old one, surely?
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"What gets me is when they text me and put 'kk'. It's 'OK', not 'kk'. Why do it?! It's still just 2 letters to type which are beside each other on the keyboard." That one annoys me too, that and ye, it's yes! Tinder x | |||
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"Roadman is one of those words I’m weary of because it’s also become coded racist language of white middle class people. It is? My son seemed to think it was same as chav. But he's pretty sheltered tbh. He's right, I think in general the youth call roadmen very similar to chav, definitely not middle class. Hanging outside sports direct in large groups with their sports attire and puffer jackets" Yes that's exactly what he referred to. Can't say it's a word that I will start using! | |||
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"Roadman is one of those words I’m weary of because it’s also become coded racist language of white middle class people. It is? My son seemed to think it was same as chav. But he's pretty sheltered tbh. He's right, I think in general the youth call roadmen very similar to chav, definitely not middle class. Hanging outside sports direct in large groups with their sports attire and puffer jackets" That is not a roadman. | |||
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"Roadman is one of those words I’m weary of because it’s also become coded racist language of white middle class people. It is? My son seemed to think it was same as chav. But he's pretty sheltered tbh. He's right, I think in general the youth call roadmen very similar to chav, definitely not middle class. Hanging outside sports direct in large groups with their sports attire and puffer jackets That is not a roadman. "From the dictionary: "a man whose job is to repair or care for roads" | |||
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"My favourite thing about the _slang_ of the youth is the fact that it is a mix of so many different cultures and variations of English. It’s massively influenced by Black cultures around the world. It’s a variation of English. A way of communicating. A language that you slip into around familiar people or strangers that get it. When you don’t speak any language you feel excluded. But actually it’s rather beautiful. I hate more than anything people that try and pretend that variations of English are less than or are annoying just because they don’t speak it. And fab is one of those places but it’s a general thing I’ve found in my life. It’s why even though you can be born here you still get the ‘you speak so well’ when you’re code switching Etc etc. Another way of looking at how you excellently described it is that anyone outside the little bubble that understands the slang is excluded and has no clue what is being said … which makes it a very ineffective way of communicating. Or a very effective way of excluding those outside your group" Cry about it
No but in all serious, that’s what all language is. And all variations of it. People are only upset because they don’t understand it. Do you get upset that you don’t understand French as well? | |||
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"Roadman is one of those words I’m weary of because it’s also become coded racist language of white middle class people. It is? My son seemed to think it was same as chav. But he's pretty sheltered tbh. He's right, I think in general the youth call roadmen very similar to chav, definitely not middle class. Hanging outside sports direct in large groups with their sports attire and puffer jackets That is not a roadman.
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"a man whose job is to repair or care for roads"
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"My favourite thing about the _slang_ of the youth is the fact that it is a mix of so many different cultures and variations of English. It’s massively influenced by Black cultures around the world. It’s a variation of English. A way of communicating. A language that you slip into around familiar people or strangers that get it. When you don’t speak any language you feel excluded. But actually it’s rather beautiful. I hate more than anything people that try and pretend that variations of English are less than or are annoying just because they don’t speak it. And fab is one of those places but it’s a general thing I’ve found in my life. It’s why even though you can be born here you still get the ‘you speak so well’ when you’re code switching Etc etc. Another way of looking at how you excellently described it is that anyone outside the little bubble that understands the slang is excluded and has no clue what is being said … which makes it a very ineffective way of communicating. Or a very effective way of excluding those outside your group Cry about it
No but in all serious, that’s what all language is. And all variations of it. People are only upset because they don’t understand it. Do you get upset that you don’t understand French as well? "some people do... It's the French's fault. They should speak English like normal people. and not that weird American English, that's just wrong. | |||
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"My favourite thing about the _slang_ of the youth is the fact that it is a mix of so many different cultures and variations of English. It’s massively influenced by Black cultures around the world. It’s a variation of English. A way of communicating. A language that you slip into around familiar people or strangers that get it. When you don’t speak any language you feel excluded. But actually it’s rather beautiful. I hate more than anything people that try and pretend that variations of English are less than or are annoying just because they don’t speak it. And fab is one of those places but it’s a general thing I’ve found in my life. It’s why even though you can be born here you still get the ‘you speak so well’ when you’re code switching Etc etc. Another way of looking at how you excellently described it is that anyone outside the little bubble that understands the slang is excluded and has no clue what is being said … which makes it a very ineffective way of communicating. Or a very effective way of excluding those outside your group Cry about it
No but in all serious, that’s what all language is. And all variations of it. People are only upset because they don’t understand it. Do you get upset that you don’t understand French as well?
some people do...
It's the French's fault. They should speak English like normal people. and not that weird American English, that's just wrong."The funniest thing is people don’t even want to, deep down, communicate with the people that speak this language amongst themselves. They’re just mad that they don’t understand something. | |||
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"My favourite thing about the _slang_ of the youth is the fact that it is a mix of so many different cultures and variations of English. It’s massively influenced by Black cultures around the world. It’s a variation of English. A way of communicating. A language that you slip into around familiar people or strangers that get it. When you don’t speak any language you feel excluded. But actually it’s rather beautiful. I hate more than anything people that try and pretend that variations of English are less than or are annoying just because they don’t speak it. And fab is one of those places but it’s a general thing I’ve found in my life. It’s why even though you can be born here you still get the ‘you speak so well’ when you’re code switching Etc etc. Another way of looking at how you excellently described it is that anyone outside the little bubble that understands the slang is excluded and has no clue what is being said … which makes it a very ineffective way of communicating. Or a very effective way of excluding those outside your group Cry about it
No but in all serious, that’s what all language is. And all variations of it. People are only upset because they don’t understand it. Do you get upset that you don’t understand French as well?
some people do...
It's the French's fault. They should speak English like normal people. and not that weird American English, that's just wrong.
The funniest thing is people don’t even want to, deep down, communicate with the people that speak this language amongst themselves. They’re just mad that they don’t understand something. "Yeah, something like that. I don't get it. I was taught when I was a toddler that not everything is for me. Is that not a universal lesson? | |||
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"My favourite thing about the _slang_ of the youth is the fact that it is a mix of so many different cultures and variations of English. It’s massively influenced by Black cultures around the world. It’s a variation of English. A way of communicating. A language that you slip into around familiar people or strangers that get it. When you don’t speak any language you feel excluded. But actually it’s rather beautiful. I hate more than anything people that try and pretend that variations of English are less than or are annoying just because they don’t speak it. And fab is one of those places but it’s a general thing I’ve found in my life. It’s why even though you can be born here you still get the ‘you speak so well’ when you’re code switching Etc etc. Another way of looking at how you excellently described it is that anyone outside the little bubble that understands the slang is excluded and has no clue what is being said … which makes it a very ineffective way of communicating. Or a very effective way of excluding those outside your group Cry about it
No but in all serious, that’s what all language is. And all variations of it. People are only upset because they don’t understand it. Do you get upset that you don’t understand French as well?
some people do...
It's the French's fault. They should speak English like normal people. and not that weird American English, that's just wrong.
The funniest thing is people don’t even want to, deep down, communicate with the people that speak this language amongst themselves. They’re just mad that they don’t understand something.
Yeah, something like that. I don't get it.
I was taught when I was a toddler that not everything is for me. Is that not a universal lesson?"If I answer that question I’ll be in trouble | |||
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"This thread went exactly like I expected. Bridging the gap between generations and between social groups. "You should hear the dialect of some of the older generation up here! Lots of younglings wouldn't understand a thing! "Hast tha owt moist?" | |||
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"My favourite thing about the _slang_ of the youth is the fact that it is a mix of so many different cultures and variations of English. It’s massively influenced by Black cultures around the world. It’s a variation of English. A way of communicating. A language that you slip into around familiar people or strangers that get it. When you don’t speak any language you feel excluded. But actually it’s rather beautiful. I hate more than anything people that try and pretend that variations of English are less than or are annoying just because they don’t speak it. And fab is one of those places but it’s a general thing I’ve found in my life. It’s why even though you can be born here you still get the ‘you speak so well’ when you’re code switching Etc etc. Another way of looking at how you excellently described it is that anyone outside the little bubble that understands the slang is excluded and has no clue what is being said … which makes it a very ineffective way of communicating. Or a very effective way of excluding those outside your group Cry about it
No but in all serious, that’s what all language is. And all variations of it. People are only upset because they don’t understand it. Do you get upset that you don’t understand French as well?
some people do...
It's the French's fault. They should speak English like normal people. and not that weird American English, that's just wrong.
The funniest thing is people don’t even want to, deep down, communicate with the people that speak this language amongst themselves. They’re just mad that they don’t understand something.
Yeah, something like that. I don't get it.
I was taught when I was a toddler that not everything is for me. Is that not a universal lesson?
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"This thread went exactly like I expected. Bridging the gap between generations and between social groups.
You should hear the dialect of some of the older generation up here! Lots of younglings wouldn't understand a thing!
"Hast tha owt moist?""No idea what you said. Wa wa wa. I’m excluded. | |||
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"This thread went exactly like I expected. Bridging the gap between generations and between social groups.
You should hear the dialect of some of the older generation up here! Lots of younglings wouldn't understand a thing!
"Hast tha owt moist?"
No idea what you said.
Wa wa wa. I’m excluded. "help help we're so oppressed | |||
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"This thread went exactly like I expected. Bridging the gap between generations and between social groups.
You should hear the dialect of some of the older generation up here! Lots of younglings wouldn't understand a thing!
"Hast tha owt moist?"
No idea what you said.
Wa wa wa. I’m excluded.
help help we're so oppressed" | |||
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"This thread went exactly like I expected. Bridging the gap between generations and between social groups.
You should hear the dialect of some of the older generation up here! Lots of younglings wouldn't understand a thing!
"Hast tha owt moist?"
No idea what you said.
Wa wa wa. I’m excluded. "Literal translation " do you have anything wet?" aka "what is available to drink?" See. It's not just the peng young tings doing the secret lingo | |||
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"This thread went exactly like I expected. Bridging the gap between generations and between social groups.
You should hear the dialect of some of the older generation up here! Lots of younglings wouldn't understand a thing!
"Hast tha owt moist?"
No idea what you said.
Wa wa wa. I’m excluded.
Literal translation " do you have anything wet?" aka "what is available to drink?"
See. It's not just the peng young tings doing the secret lingo "we Stan a multilingual queen  | |||
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"Roadman is one of those words I’m weary of because it’s also become coded racist language of white middle class people. It is? My son seemed to think it was same as chav. But he's pretty sheltered tbh. He's right, I think in general the youth call roadmen very similar to chav, definitely not middle class. Hanging outside sports direct in large groups with their sports attire and puffer jackets That is not a roadman. "Well I can only say how Google and younger school age kids are using the term, but how you use it is entirely up to you | |||
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"Roadman is one of those words I’m weary of because it’s also become coded racist language of white middle class people. It is? My son seemed to think it was same as chav. But he's pretty sheltered tbh. He's right, I think in general the youth call roadmen very similar to chav, definitely not middle class. Hanging outside sports direct in large groups with their sports attire and puffer jackets That is not a roadman. "Fucks sake. I will end the thread more confused that I started! | |||
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"The answer's memes - it's always memes. Preferably of the dank variety, maybe deep fried if you're feeling adventurous. Should cover everything except TikTok lingo but TikTok lingo needs to be yeeted into space anyway. Bonus: for nsfw slang, check out thirst tweets. Happy exploring "Ok fam No cap | |||
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"My favourite thing about the _slang_ of the youth is the fact that it is a mix of so many different cultures and variations of English. It’s massively influenced by Black cultures around the world. It’s a variation of English. A way of communicating. A language that you slip into around familiar people or strangers that get it. When you don’t speak any language you feel excluded. But actually it’s rather beautiful. I hate more than anything people that try and pretend that variations of English are less than or are annoying just because they don’t speak it. And fab is one of those places but it’s a general thing I’ve found in my life. It’s why even though you can be born here you still get the ‘you speak so well’ when you’re code switching Etc etc. Another way of looking at how you excellently described it is that anyone outside the little bubble that understands the slang is excluded and has no clue what is being said … which makes it a very ineffective way of communicating. Or a very effective way of excluding those outside your group Cry about it
No but in all serious, that’s what all language is. And all variations of it. People are only upset because they don’t understand it. Do you get upset that you don’t understand French as well?
some people do...
It's the French's fault. They should speak English like normal people. and not that weird American English, that's just wrong."Or Australian.  | |||
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"How am I supposed to keep up with the lingo? Is lingo even a word I'm allowed to use? Yesterday my son mentioned roadmen. I still don't understand his garbled explanation for a word I've never heard before. What else don't I know? What else don't you know? "It’s the new word for chavs. The mr | |||
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"How am I supposed to keep up with the lingo? Is lingo even a word I'm allowed to use? Yesterday my son mentioned roadmen. I still don't understand his garbled explanation for a word I've never heard before. What else don't I know? What else don't you know?
It’s the new word for chavs.
The mr "There's some disagreement there. Which leaves me unable to be cool. Again. Damn it. | |||
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"Roadman is one of those words I’m weary of because it’s also become coded racist language of white middle class people. It is? My son seemed to think it was same as chav. But he's pretty sheltered tbh. He's right, I think in general the youth call roadmen very similar to chav, definitely not middle class. Hanging outside sports direct in large groups with their sports attire and puffer jackets That is not a roadman.
Well I can only say how Google and younger school age kids are using the term, but how you use it is entirely up to you "What the word has come to mean because of its (mis)use by particular groups, yeah. Actually goes back to my original point about the term having been used in microaggressive ways. But it would be wrong of me to pretend that meanings of words can’t evolve so perhaps it does mean this to you and your children but not to me or my peers (or my 15 year old brother). And in a way that’s the beauty of language. There’s something to be said about the way that this variation of language has come from certain cultures but has been adopted by a completely different one. And in the process words have changed meaning. But I cba on fab. Maybe a masters topic  | |||
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"Roadman is one of those words I’m weary of because it’s also become coded racist language of white middle class people. It is? My son seemed to think it was same as chav. But he's pretty sheltered tbh. He's right, I think in general the youth call roadmen very similar to chav, definitely not middle class. Hanging outside sports direct in large groups with their sports attire and puffer jackets That is not a roadman.
Well I can only say how Google and younger school age kids are using the term, but how you use it is entirely up to you
What the word has come to mean because of its (mis)use by particular groups, yeah. Actually goes back to my original point about the term having been used in microaggressive ways. But it would be wrong of me to pretend that meanings of words can’t evolve so perhaps it does mean this to you and your children but not to me or my peers (or my 15 year old brother). And in a way that’s the beauty of language.
There’s something to be said about the way that this variation of language has come from certain cultures but has been adopted by a completely different one. And in the process words have changed meaning. But I cba on fab. Maybe a masters topic "PhdD. Absolutely | |||
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