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"I don't know. I think it's daft "Howdy! What time is it over there in america | |||
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"Some people on the forums are grumpy this evening. I’ve put south west, if someone’s in the north then you are going to know roughly it’s lots miles away. If people want to google debauchery then that’s on them " I'll let you off then 
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"Why are people doing that? It makes for hard work knowing where people are. " If you’re a site supporter it gives you a distance between profiles based on postcode. Also gives a distance between mobile phones based on magic. | |||
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"Sorry. But then again, I couldn’t tell you where Milton Keynes is! " Its under the sink, usually inbetween the disinfectant and the bleach | |||
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"Sorry. But then again, I couldn’t tell you where Milton Keynes is! " The land of a million roundabouts? | |||
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"Why are people doing that? It makes for hard work knowing where people " 
So just ask them?
Why would you need to know the accurate location of people you haven't met yet or maybe have no intentions of meeting, & more to the point why would anyone be naive enough to publicise their whereabouts with any kind of precision knowing it can be viewable by all on an open online forum?
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"Why are people doing that? It makes for hard work knowing where people
So just ask them?
Why would you need to know the accurate location of people you haven't met yet or maybe have no intentions of meeting, & more to the point why would anyone be naive enough to publicise their whereabouts with any kind of precision knowing it can be viewable by all on an open online forum?
Internet usage 101 "I agree....why should someone have to give their precise location.... we're not on the continent....just a small enough Island.... People don't disclose their exact location because of safety & discretion....I'm certain when a connection/chemistry/rapport/trust has being formed with a potential meet exact location will be disclosed then.... | |||
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why does someone need anything more than that until we want to meet up? | |||
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"Why are people doing that? It makes for hard work knowing where people
So just ask them?
Why would you need to know the accurate location of people you haven't met yet or maybe have no intentions of meeting, & more to the point why would anyone be naive enough to publicise their whereabouts with any kind of precision knowing it can be viewable by all on an open online forum?
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"Why are people doing that? It makes for hard work knowing where people
So just ask them?
Why would you need to know the accurate location of people you haven't met yet or maybe have no intentions of meeting, & more to the point why would anyone be naive enough to publicise their whereabouts with any kind of precision knowing it can be viewable by all on an open online forum?
Internet usage 101 makes location finder more useful if you like to meet people local "Location finder uses GPS, so how would knowing what town they're in make that more useful? Unless you're spoofing your own GPS location for whatever reason | |||
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"Why are people doing that? It makes for hard work knowing where people are. " That's just the point. They don't want to be easily found. Never know what kind of person is looking right? Maybe someone calling you stupid. Or they do finding themselves. T | |||
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"Made up places are stupid " Quite agree... | |||
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"Why are people doing that? It makes for hard work knowing where people are. If you’re a site supporter it gives you a distance between profiles based on postcode. Also gives a distance between mobile phones based on magic. " Where do you find this info? X never noticed it when i view a profile x | |||
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"Why are people doing that? It makes for hard work knowing where people are. If you’re a site supporter it gives you a distance between profiles based on postcode. Also gives a distance between mobile phones based on magic. Where do you find this info? X never noticed it when i view a profile x " On a profile you have “verification summary” then underneath it “distance” x | |||
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"^ this is true. Even when I get talking to someone, I’ve just said I’m North Manchester. That then gives an indication of whereabouts. why does someone need anything more than that until we want to meet up? "Because they want to calculate the exact mileage, how much time it will take to do a round trip and the petrol cost before they decide if you're worth pursuing. And trust me that's true! Many men will state the want travel over a certain time or distance. | |||
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"^ this is true. Even when I get talking to someone, I’ve just said I’m North Manchester. That then gives an indication of whereabouts. why does someone need anything more than that until we want to meet up?
Because they want to calculate the exact mileage, how much time it will take to do a round trip and the petrol cost before they decide if you're worth pursuing. And trust me that's true! Many men will state the want travel over a certain time or distance.
"I imagine it is true. Is that not normal though? I’d work out how much time it would take me too. I wouldn’t meet someone hours away. It’s not feasible for me no matter how much I like them so they wouldn’t be worth pursuing. | |||
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"^ this is true. Even when I get talking to someone, I’ve just said I’m North Manchester. That then gives an indication of whereabouts. why does someone need anything more than that until we want to meet up?
Because they want to calculate the exact mileage, how much time it will take to do a round trip and the petrol cost before they decide if you're worth pursuing. And trust me that's true! Many men will state the want travel over a certain time or distance.
I imagine it is true. Is that not normal though? I’d work out how much time it would take me too. I wouldn’t meet someone hours away. It’s not feasible for me no matter how much I like them so they wouldn’t be worth pursuing. "I don’t think that’s unusual, just seems practical to me I’m not in the business of one offs. If I’m gonna take the time to get to know someone, it’s because I want to meet fairly often If you live 90 miles away then, sadly, logistically that can’t work | |||
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"^ this is true. Even when I get talking to someone, I’ve just said I’m North Manchester. That then gives an indication of whereabouts. why does someone need anything more than that until we want to meet up?
Because they want to calculate the exact mileage, how much time it will take to do a round trip and the petrol cost before they decide if you're worth pursuing. And trust me that's true! Many men will state the want travel over a certain time or distance.
I imagine it is true. Is that not normal though? I’d work out how much time it would take me too. I wouldn’t meet someone hours away. It’s not feasible for me no matter how much I like them so they wouldn’t be worth pursuing. "It’s such a relief to hear you say this Nora, it explains why you’ve never pursued me for a meet, there was me thinking it was ‘cause you thought I was an arse. | |||
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"^ this is true. Even when I get talking to someone, I’ve just said I’m North Manchester. That then gives an indication of whereabouts. why does someone need anything more than that until we want to meet up?
Because they want to calculate the exact mileage, how much time it will take to do a round trip and the petrol cost before they decide if you're worth pursuing. And trust me that's true! Many men will state the want travel over a certain time or distance.
I imagine it is true. Is that not normal though? I’d work out how much time it would take me too. I wouldn’t meet someone hours away. It’s not feasible for me no matter how much I like them so they wouldn’t be worth pursuing. "To be fair I do look up the location and calculate if I can do it - because it would be me travelling. | |||
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"Last time i gave my location out on a site like this, ended up with a restraining order and having to move. "OMG! That's horrendous! | |||
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"^ this is true. Even when I get talking to someone, I’ve just said I’m North Manchester. That then gives an indication of whereabouts. why does someone need anything more than that until we want to meet up?
Because they want to calculate the exact mileage, how much time it will take to do a round trip and the petrol cost before they decide if you're worth pursuing. And trust me that's true! Many men will state the want travel over a certain time or distance.
I imagine it is true. Is that not normal though? I’d work out how much time it would take me too. I wouldn’t meet someone hours away. It’s not feasible for me no matter how much I like them so they wouldn’t be worth pursuing. "Yes we all do it. Although to be fair I've travelled many miles for someone. But I couldn't go that far now as life circumstances have changed. I'd still travel an hour ish each way but further than that is more difficult. I was just answering Woody though, because saying North Manchester isn't specific enough for someone to work out the journey. So that why they'd want more than that before an actual meet. There are places in Hertfordshire that are still an hour from me. | |||
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"^ this is true. Even when I get talking to someone, I’ve just said I’m North Manchester. That then gives an indication of whereabouts. why does someone need anything more than that until we want to meet up?
Because they want to calculate the exact mileage, how much time it will take to do a round trip and the petrol cost before they decide if you're worth pursuing. And trust me that's true! Many men will state the want travel over a certain time or distance.
I imagine it is true. Is that not normal though? I’d work out how much time it would take me too. I wouldn’t meet someone hours away. It’s not feasible for me no matter how much I like them so they wouldn’t be worth pursuing.
It’s such a relief to hear you say this Nora, it explains why you’ve never pursued me for a meet, there was me thinking it was ‘cause you thought I was an arse. "Nah. Right first time. I think you’re an arse | |||
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"^ this is true. Even when I get talking to someone, I’ve just said I’m North Manchester. That then gives an indication of whereabouts. why does someone need anything more than that until we want to meet up?
Because they want to calculate the exact mileage, how much time it will take to do a round trip and the petrol cost before they decide if you're worth pursuing. And trust me that's true! Many men will state the want travel over a certain time or distance.
I imagine it is true. Is that not normal though? I’d work out how much time it would take me too. I wouldn’t meet someone hours away. It’s not feasible for me no matter how much I like them so they wouldn’t be worth pursuing.
Yes we all do it. Although to be fair I've travelled many miles for someone. But I couldn't go that far now as life circumstances have changed. I'd still travel an hour ish each way but further than that is more difficult. I was just answering Woody though, because saying North Manchester isn't specific enough for someone to work out the journey. So that why they'd want more than that before an actual meet. There are places in Hertfordshire that are still an hour from me. "Yeah same. I think we’re about that from each other . Although I’d ask them and tell them in a conversation. Herts is as much as I’m willing to give on my profile x | |||
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"They don't need to know specifics until way further down the line. Even though I do live in Manchester, that's as specific as I get until later on." | |||
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"Okay, I get the Safety issue , but could someone find my address from my profile? I've no face showing and MK is a big place" And everyone gets lost there. They’d never find you anyway!! | |||
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"Okay, I get the Safety issue , but could someone find my address from my profile? I've no face showing and MK is a big place And everyone gets lost there. They’d never find you anyway!!" Well what's the odds a slobbering axe murderer is going to find me? | |||
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"Okay, I get the Safety issue , but could someone find my address from my profile? I've no face showing and MK is a big place" It might be, but, say "Gleadsmoss" is a tiny place (no I don't live there, nor does anyone I know on Fab, it's something that came up in something unrelated to Fab). If you list your location as there, even with no face pictures, people from the area might be able to connect the dots. | |||
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"Okay, I get the Safety issue , but could someone find my address from my profile? I've no face showing and MK is a big place And everyone gets lost there. They’d never find you anyway!! Well what's the odds a slobbering axe murderer is going to find me? "MK is big though. My village isn’t! | |||
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"Have people lost their sense of humour, surely it’s a bit of fun. Once I’ve started chatting to someone I let them know my location if I’m intending we will meet. " But what if you find out they're hundreds of miles away and your initial chat was useless? I'm not after full postcodes etc, I mean general area like s county name, | |||
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"Okay, I get the Safety issue , but could someone find my address from my profile? I've no face showing and MK is a big place" I recognised my friend and his wife have started a profile on here. Their faces are blurred but you can tell it's them. If they didn't share their location, I'd be none the wiser. | |||
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"Okay, I get the Safety issue , but could someone find my address from my profile? I've no face showing and MK is a big place And everyone gets lost there. They’d never find you anyway!! Well what's the odds a slobbering axe murderer is going to find me?
MK is big though. My village isn’t! "Your county might be big enough | |||
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"Have people lost their sense of humour, surely it’s a bit of fun. Once I’ve started chatting to someone I let them know my location if I’m intending we will meet. " ^^ this. 100% | |||
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"Have people lost their sense of humour, surely it’s a bit of fun. Once I’ve started chatting to someone I let them know my location if I’m intending we will meet. But what if you find out they're hundreds of miles away and your initial chat was useless? I'm not after full postcodes etc, I mean general area like s county name, " Because I’d ask them in the first couple of messages. There’s loads about me I’d tell people that I wouldn’t have in my profile for every other nosey fucker to know, including my location. | |||
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"Okay, I get the Safety issue , but could someone find my address from my profile? I've no face showing and MK is a big place And everyone gets lost there. They’d never find you anyway!! Well what's the odds a slobbering axe murderer is going to find me?
MK is big though. My village isn’t!
Your county might be big enough "My county is there. Or is it….. do I actually live in Herts | |||
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"I thought Milton Keynes was a made up name." It’s kinda like a big Lego land | |||
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"Okay, I get the Safety issue , but could someone find my address from my profile? I've no face showing and MK is a big place" It’s just mitigating risk I’ve spotted fab users in Tesco, that was largely helped by the fact a knew from their profile what Tesco they use because there’s only 1 in this town | |||
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"I thought Milton Keynes was a made up name. It’s kinda like a big Lego land " With roundabouts and a confused Lego football team. Probably made of Lego players too. | |||
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"I thought Milton Keynes was a made up name. It’s kinda like a big Lego land " Went there shopping once, it was crap x | |||
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"I thought Milton Keynes was a made up name. It’s kinda like a big Lego land Went there shopping once, it was crap x " Yeah I’m not a fan | |||
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"I thought Milton Keynes was a made up name. It’s kinda like a big Lego land Went there shopping once, it was crap x Yeah I’m not a fan " Big dicks though?? | |||
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"I thought Milton Keynes was a made up name. It’s kinda like a big Lego land Went there shopping once, it was crap x " I hate the parking | |||
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"I thought Milton Keynes was a made up name. It’s kinda like a big Lego land Went there shopping once, it was crap x Yeah I’m not a fan Big dicks though?? " . | |||
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"My location used to be a hive of scum and villainy. If you'd seen the estate I live on you'd likely agree." ( ) | |||
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"Even the real places don't matter if you are not from them "__ That was exactly my first thought. I could mansplain it to the OP if he needs it (Mr.)  | |||
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"Why are people doing that? It makes for hard work knowing where people are. " It i specifically to make it hard for people to know where someone is. Duh. | |||
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"Last thing anyone with an ounce of common sense should do is make it easier for themselves to be located by the types of sociopathic, sexual weirdos who tend to frequent sites like this in large volume. Especially if you're a woman or transgender." Totally agree with this comment. | |||
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