FabSwingers.com forum: Do you struggle...

By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

With getting people to do the sex with you?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not at all

Must be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People in general? Not as much as some guys I know

Attractive people I like? Yes. They’re rare to find on top of the usual difficulties of pulling

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Not at all

You're hot kinky and like to deep throat! That's like me saying it's easy to breathe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relatively. Maybe compared to many of the men on here I don’t struggle at all. Compared to many of the women in my life, I struggle a lot more.

The game is the game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man I’m just out here doing my thing

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Nope not with the people I want to do the sex with

It’s finding the time to do it

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By *inacolada3Couple
over a year ago

kettering

Nope !

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

No. The power of having a pulse and a vagina.

The main issue is diary syncing.

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London

Yes, but, again, I’m not looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to find people I want to do the sex with.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I don't do the sex thing on here now, too much like hard work

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Not at all

You're hot kinky and like to deep throat! That's like me saying it's easy to breathe!"

To be fair, finding the people I want to do it with is hard work.

Luckily I don't need to find any more for the foreseeable

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

What Cookie and Meli said. ^^^

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I struggle to find people I want to do the sex with.

May I offer myself as an availability?

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Not at all

You're hot kinky and like to deep throat! That's like me saying it's easy to breathe!

To be fair, finding the people I want to do it with is hard work.

Luckily I don't need to find any more for the foreseeable

You haven't had me yet!

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"What Cookie and Meli said. ^^^

Damn boobies!

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"What Cookie and Meli said. ^^^

Damn boobies!"

That makes it sound like there's so much shenanigans going on but I'd say it's only once a month with people outside our relationship. Occasionally more. We're quality over quantity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t even find someone who I want a bloody coffee with!

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"What Cookie and Meli said. ^^^

Damn boobies!

That makes it sound like there's so much shenanigans going on but I'd say it's only once a month with people outside our relationship. Occasionally more. We're quality over quantity.

I'm elite

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By *urvelover87Man
over a year ago

London

Yep. I blame the stars tho, Mercury being in conjunction with Venus and my neighbour's car really influences my life at this moment.

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Often. Not always. It just sometimes takes a while to find the people who want it with me, but it does happen.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No i have boobs.

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By *issMBWoman
over a year ago

North

Nope. The main issue is finding the time with the people I want to do the sex with.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"With getting people to do the sex with you?"

I actually had to ask someone to get off me so I could write this.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I struggle to find people I want to do the sex with.

This. I *want* to be a raging slut but I'm demisexual, so it just doesn't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if I’m a man and I don’t really struggle, does that mean I’m peng?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It's really easy, we have a hot twosome in the pipeline for later.

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"It's really easy, we have a hot twosome in the pipeline for later."

Tonight? You're hot though!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

People who don't fit what I'm looking for - fending them off like you wouldn't believe

Those who do fit what I'm looking for - not so easy

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"People who don't fit what I'm looking for - fending them off like you wouldn't believe

Those who do fit what I'm looking for - not so easy

Yeah, this.

(Hi btw!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's really easy, we have a hot twosome in the pipeline for later."

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

No, I find it more difficult to find those I'm interested in, and having the sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it difficult to find someone I'd like to do it with

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By *ayK2023Woman
over a year ago

Burntisland

Hard to sift through the mad people. Overwhelming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Struggle? I can see 2 people in this thread I’d get naked with

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I struggle. It’s a whole Groucho Marx fiasco.

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I find it difficult to find someone I'd like to do it with "

Same. I only want you. And raven. And quack. And a fair few others maybe. But you too!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a vag. No struggle getting men to offer it. Just haven't found any men I want to do the deed with yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I struggle. It’s a whole Groucho Marx fiasco. "

Marx you say

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I struggle. It’s a whole Groucho Marx fiasco.

Marx you say

You so Karl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I struggle. It’s a whole Groucho Marx fiasco.

Marx you say

You so Karl. "

I know Das (Kapital) right

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I struggle. It’s a whole Groucho Marx fiasco. "

I'm more Harpo - I chase after women but they all run away from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With getting people to do the sex with you?"

I don't think getting sex is the hard part. It's having sex with somebody that you find desirable, that you enjoy their company that is also sexually compatible.

Most nights I go out I end up being approached by people I find attractive.

But I always assume they approach me to be friendly (unless they make it very obvious that's not the case) and I'm also out to spend time with the people I went out with not to try and take someone home.

Its also not the time to have a conversation about what I'm looking for sexually to see if they are compatible as that would be weird and presumptuous to bring up. So I don't pursue alot of potential opportunities.

I think if I was just looking to go out and have ons then it probably wouldn't be that hard.

It's just not really what I'm after.

And I'm not gonna lie to women that I'm after love and a relationship to try and have my wiley way with them.

Online is good to find compatibility first, but as a way of showing who you are thorugh it, I'm not a fan.

I don't communicate well via txt.

So just going out and having random sex irl, possibly not that hard?

Trying to find someone compatible, that lives near me, who wants the dame as me, and stays that way?

Quite challenging.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"With getting people to do the sex with you?"

No I just struggle with " can't be arsed" syndrome

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