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Fine lines aka wrinkles

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By *inkylips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Now I’ve hit 45 I’m starting to look my age, tired eyes, lines that just won’t disappear no matter how much make up you shovel on it. What I wanted to know does this bother you, does this take away how you deem someone attractive. Especially younger people, I know they say they like older but is it when that older persons face hasn’t withered like a crumpled map or do they not care?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

From looking at your photos I suspect fine lines will be if no consequence to anyone .

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Goodness no, I like faces with character. We all get wrinkles and I find most attractive those who age gracefully (in looks - you should act disgracefully haha)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it really matters. I like to think I'm going to embrace aging. I like wrinkles and lines. A year or so ago my skin started to show signs of aging. I've got some forehead lines appearing and lots of little creases and lines under my eye. My skin isn't as smooth as it used to be. I think most women look better as they are, rather than the botox look. But if it's making you miserable then you do have the option to change it. But I really don't think many people care about lines and wrinkles. I understand though! I would change a few things about my appearance in a heartbeat if I could. So do what makes you happiest but do it for yourself.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I have so many lines on my face but they really don’t bother me, they’re just another part of me and I embrace them.

I have some skin care products that I use for my neck and chest area to try and compensate for any sun damage

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Wouldn't bother me, if I'm attracted to someone who's my age or older, I'd be extremely surprised if they had skin like porcelain!

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

It’s the idiosyncrasies and what people might deem imperfections physically that I fall for. It’s your history imprinted, unique to you. I’m reframing aging as something imbued with the beauty of our souls.

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By *inkylips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"From looking at your photos I suspect fine lines will be if no consequence to anyone . "

body wise I can wear things that help and make me feel confident but if I was to go on a social I don’t think a balaclava would be seen as acceptable

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By *hadowtoothMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Everyone gets older. Remember you may have benefited from experience along the way. Someone may benefit from your experience. Try to keep your composure if they in turn pass on some experience along the way. After all you might have enjoyed the experience.

The wrinkles won't go away. I can confess to being sucked off twice by an old granny. Her choice of porno. Didn't learn much from the experience. If your partners don't get older, and it gets easier, you are onto a winner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 37, the wrinkles on my face look like a subway map. It's tragic!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the slightest.

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By *inkylips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"Goodness no, I like faces with character. We all get wrinkles and I find most attractive those who age gracefully (in looks - you should act disgracefully haha)"

This is my plan

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

There's no shame in looking the age you are

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By *inkylips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"I don't think it really matters. I like to think I'm going to embrace aging. I like wrinkles and lines. A year or so ago my skin started to show signs of aging. I've got some forehead lines appearing and lots of little creases and lines under my eye. My skin isn't as smooth as it used to be. I think most women look better as they are, rather than the botox look. But if it's making you miserable then you do have the option to change it. But I really don't think many people care about lines and wrinkles. I understand though! I would change a few things about my appearance in a heartbeat if I could. So do what makes you happiest but do it for yourself."

I’m not what you would call a classically attractive person anyway so to me the lines are something that is just a natural progression and won’t be doing anything about it unless there was a miracle cream. Thank you I know what you mean, I would only ever do it for myself

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By *inkylips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"I have so many lines on my face but they really don’t bother me, they’re just another part of me and I embrace them.

I have some skin care products that I use for my neck and chest area to try and compensate for any sun damage "

I am trying to be like this

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By *inkylips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"It’s the idiosyncrasies and what people might deem imperfections physically that I fall for. It’s your history imprinted, unique to you. I’m reframing aging as something imbued with the beauty of our souls.

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What a lovely way to put it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na it wouldn’t or doesn’t bother me at all … if people are that shallow and judgmental over something so natural they I wouldn’t give them the time of day … it’s part of what makes you well you !! X

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Now I’ve hit 45 I’m starting to look my age, tired eyes, lines that just won’t disappear no matter how much make up you shovel on it. What I wanted to know does this bother you, does this take away how you deem someone attractive. Especially younger people, I know they say they like older but is it when that older persons face hasn’t withered like a crumpled map or do they not care? "

Like Mrs nice said you've nothing to worry over.you are and will remain forever beautiful.

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By *inkylips OP   Woman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"I'm 37, the wrinkles on my face look like a subway map. It's tragic!!"

I’ve never ridden the subway….. sorry bad joke Though I look at other people and don’t think anything of it…. It’s just looking in that mirror at myself that makes me question things

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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In all honesty? I'd notice wrinkles, more so if there are attempts to hide them. I wouldn't be less attracted to someone because of them.

The vast majority of users on here have wrinkles. I don't think it's a bad thing in the slightest. I like seeing someone's story, the way a person's eyes light up and softly crinkle. The wrinkles around lips from smiling with joy in moments that will remain with them.

There's beauty in youth, sure. There's also beauty in those comfortable in their skin, whatever age that is. Embrace it OP.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

To quote John Legend.

"Perfect imperfections"

You look amazing OP

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I'm 37, the wrinkles on my face look like a subway map. It's tragic!!

I’ve never ridden the subway….. sorry bad joke Though I look at other people and don’t think anything of it…. It’s just looking in that mirror at myself that makes me question things"

If you don't smoke then send me private message I'll tell of product that can help .but if you smoke nothing can be done .until you give it up .

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By *arkcrystalMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"To quote John Legend.

"Perfect imperfections"

You look amazing OP"

I second that beautiful

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Let's face it OP, you're pretty much washed up now, you may as well resign to the fact that you're old and start hanging out with old gits like me

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

I’m other people it doesn’t bother me. I think I was more concerned about going grey but have embraced that. I will keep plastering on the face, neck, eye, busy and all over cream to try to keep them at bay .

No Rox and plastic surgery is not for, I think that catches up with you in the end, fair play to anyone brave enough who does resort to that.

Be confident in being you and the best you can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think anyone that expects your fave to be wrinkle free at 45 is setting unrealistic expectations

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I think anyone that expects your fave to be wrinkle free at 45 is setting unrealistic expectations "

I barely have any and I’m 53! It’s not unheard of. And no I’ve had nothing done

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I think anyone that expects your fave to be wrinkle free at 45 is setting unrealistic expectations "

I'm almost 59 and don't have any wrinkles at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The older I get the more I appreciate the signs of a life lived well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's much more about how you feel than whether others will judge you - because those that do aren't worth it. We all age!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

They don't bother me, I have aged disgracefully and proud of it

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