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By *heFabtastics OP   Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

I’ve kinda been wondering why when receiving a new message or wink from another couple and you go and look at their profile and there’s public pictures and videos 90% of the time it’s just the female half in them? Don’t get me wrong that’s great for me (M) but my other half would like to see as well but the men nearly all of the time are behind the camera. If we’re looking through profiles to send a message then she wants to see who she could potentially shagging

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

A commonly raised point. And one that will never be truly resolved.

When straight couples message and ask if I'm interested, when there's only pictures of the straight girl and maybe a single sad cock shot to go on.

They always seem so huffy when I ask what I'm supposed to be interested in

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By *heFabtastics OP   Couple
over a year ago

brentwood


"A commonly raised point. And one that will never be truly resolved.

When straight couples message and ask if I'm interested, when there's only pictures of the straight girl and maybe a single sad cock shot to go on.

They always seem so huffy when I ask what I'm supposed to be interested in "

It’s only really dawned on me that this is the case and I find it a bit odd

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We both adore ladies so the photo ratio kind of works for us.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"A commonly raised point. And one that will never be truly resolved.

When straight couples message and ask if I'm interested, when there's only pictures of the straight girl and maybe a single sad cock shot to go on.

They always seem so huffy when I ask what I'm supposed to be interested in

It’s only really dawned on me that this is the case and I find it a bit odd "

It's when they say they don't want to scare people off with pictures of the Mr.

That always tickles me

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Simple solution would be that you could pin photos to the top. This way you could have a few of the man near the top and knock yourself out with snapping pictures of the women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it greatly depends on what the couple are looking for.

Would imagine if they are looking for either a single male or bi woman, mainly for the female to play with, then they would try to attract people using pictures of the female

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I believe it to be the result of tradition, an old charter, or something

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By *istr3ssWoman
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees


"A commonly raised point. And one that will never be truly resolved.

When straight couples message and ask if I'm interested, when there's only pictures of the straight girl and maybe a single sad cock shot to go on.

They always seem so huffy when I ask what I'm supposed to be interested in "

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It's something raised often, it bugs me too, as much as I like the ladies I want to see if there's any attraction to the man I'm expected to sleep with.

I've done with the whole try get pics via inbox it's like pulling teeth at times, I just ignore profiles with no pics of the man and assume there isn't any for a reason.

We meet together our photos are together what you see is what you get.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well actually I find in most cases that the couples with majority female pictures is actually the men running it

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

We have a few of me, but let's be honest it's hardly ever going to be an equal number of male to female pics! Nature of the beast I guess

Mr

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

It is one of life’s mysteries OP…

And why I have very rarely messaged couples in the past.

For a bi MFF I need to be attracted to both people

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If only the lady meets I totally get why they just show her, otherwise I think even one or two of him should be there.

I'm straight and half a couple and have found this frustrating for years.

Now if a couple messages us and they don't have any pics of him and don't attach one, we delete the message.

Harsh? Maybebut past experience has shown it can then take ages to see him and then I often there's no attraction.

Obviously people are free to run their profile however they choose, but i see many profiles who just show her moaning they can't attract women/couples or that men just address her and not him.

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

We try to have a mix of both on ours, although there are a few more of me (Mrs)

S xxxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do what we do and don't interact with them. We're sure they have genuine reasons but on the occasions we've agreed to meet couples after we've had to ask for a photo of the guy he's turned out to be a very reluctant participant, only wants to watch his partner with another guy or on one particularly depressing occasion with another woman which considering I'm straight and had emphasised that fact was very awkward.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ryde

With us, it's a case of hubby only really functions as voyeur and bodyguard, so there is no real need to put photos of him on there.

He is also rather camera-shy, but there are a couple with him in, OK, he has a gimp-mask on in one of them, but there are a couple.

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By *ilyandronCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Agree, really need to update our profile.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We don’t bother chatting to couples profiles with just the ladies pics and occasionally they’ll have a cock pic of the guy.

If they are both meeting you would think pics of both would be useful but if we suggest sending more pics of Mr, the conversation turns into an epic adventure to obtain said pics.

It’s a useful filtering tool.

K

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By *heFabtastics OP   Couple
over a year ago

brentwood


"Agree, really need to update our profile."

Nowt wrong with your profile it got us all hot under the collar

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By *cotCouple666Couple
over a year ago

Central Belt

We're guilty of this and it's actually really frustrating for me (Mrs/Miss) that he is so camera shy when it comes to posting pictures here. I'm lucky he was happy to let me post the one bodyshot we do have on our profile (plus one other of his cock in my mouth).

I love his body and wish he'd let me show it off more. Especially since we are looking to meet women only at the moment. I'll always send a face pic of both of us when messaging, but I'm well aware of the need for more public photos of him. He puts his reluctance down to his work and "you never know who's looking" Unless he gets naked with everyone he comes in to contact with I doubt he's obviously recognisable from the neck down.

Frustrated Beth x

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1


"We're guilty of this and it's actually really frustrating for me (Mrs/Miss) that he is so camera shy when it comes to posting pictures here. I'm lucky he was happy to let me post the one bodyshot we do have on our profile (plus one other of his cock in my mouth).

I love his body and wish he'd let me show it off more. Especially since we are looking to meet women only at the moment. I'll always send a face pic of both of us when messaging, but I'm well aware of the need for more public photos of him. He puts his reluctance down to his work and "you never know who's looking" Unless he gets naked with everyone he comes in to contact with I doubt he's obviously recognisable from the neck down.

Frustrated Beth x"

I don’t get this. You are looking to meet a single woman. Presumably to fuck both.

Would I just be expected to guess what he looks like?

I’d just ignore your messages and not even entertain a conversation. It’s not blind date.

So tell him to get over his shyness

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Hopefully we have a good mix of both. Admittedly, there’s more pictures of me in the friends only album.

Always surprises me that people would expect to meet up without knowing what the guy looks like.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I believe it to be the result of tradition, an old charter, or something "
The 1812 charter of independence

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We're guilty of this and it's actually really frustrating for me (Mrs/Miss) that he is so camera shy when it comes to posting pictures here. I'm lucky he was happy to let me post the one bodyshot we do have on our profile (plus one other of his cock in my mouth).

I love his body and wish he'd let me show it off more. Especially since we are looking to meet women only at the moment. I'll always send a face pic of both of us when messaging, but I'm well aware of the need for more public photos of him. He puts his reluctance down to his work and "you never know who's looking" Unless he gets naked with everyone he comes in to contact with I doubt he's obviously recognisable from the neck down.

Frustrated Beth x"

Does he actually want to do this?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Agree, really need to update our profile."
love the red boots, don't change a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Recurring issue. We actually mention this on our profile description. If contacting, please make sure the male half can provide pics if little to none are in public photos of profile.

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By *cotCouple666Couple
over a year ago

Central Belt


"We're guilty of this and it's actually really frustrating for me (Mrs/Miss) that he is so camera shy when it comes to posting pictures here. I'm lucky he was happy to let me post the one bodyshot we do have on our profile (plus one other of his cock in my mouth).

I love his body and wish he'd let me show it off more. Especially since we are looking to meet women only at the moment. I'll always send a face pic of both of us when messaging, but I'm well aware of the need for more public photos of him. He puts his reluctance down to his work and "you never know who's looking" Unless he gets naked with everyone he comes in to contact with I doubt he's obviously recognisable from the neck down.

Frustrated Beth x

I don’t get this. You are looking to meet a single woman. Presumably to fuck both.

Would I just be expected to guess what he looks like?

I’d just ignore your messages and not even entertain a conversation. It’s not blind date.

So tell him to get over his shyness "

Exactly! If I was here on a singles profile I'd do the same. Told him this a hundred times.

What's mad is he's not shy in any other way. Just these damn pictures

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I'd like to think we have a good mix of both of us on ours

Tinder

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By *cotCouple666Couple
over a year ago

Central Belt


"We're guilty of this and it's actually really frustrating for me (Mrs/Miss) that he is so camera shy when it comes to posting pictures here. I'm lucky he was happy to let me post the one bodyshot we do have on our profile (plus one other of his cock in my mouth).

I love his body and wish he'd let me show it off more. Especially since we are looking to meet women only at the moment. I'll always send a face pic of both of us when messaging, but I'm well aware of the need for more public photos of him. He puts his reluctance down to his work and "you never know who's looking" Unless he gets naked with everyone he comes in to contact with I doubt he's obviously recognisable from the neck down.

Frustrated Beth x

Does he actually want to do this?"

It was his idea and I was the one who was a bit reluctant in the beginning. Now I'm the one who's developed a real taste for it

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By *J_OuizziCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

This is something that we picked up on when we joined Fab.

It's great seeing pictures of the ladies, but we both want to see the men too! It's really important to be able to say "Yeah, they are *both* hotties!"

We try to have a reasonable mix of both of us on show for that reason.

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By *heFabtastics OP   Couple
over a year ago

brentwood


"We're guilty of this and it's actually really frustrating for me (Mrs/Miss) that he is so camera shy when it comes to posting pictures here. I'm lucky he was happy to let me post the one bodyshot we do have on our profile (plus one other of his cock in my mouth).

I love his body and wish he'd let me show it off more. Especially since we are looking to meet women only at the moment. I'll always send a face pic of both of us when messaging, but I'm well aware of the need for more public photos of him. He puts his reluctance down to his work and "you never know who's looking" Unless he gets naked with everyone he comes in to contact with I doubt he's obviously recognisable from the neck down.

Frustrated Beth x

I don’t get this. You are looking to meet a single woman. Presumably to fuck both.

Would I just be expected to guess what he looks like?

I’d just ignore your messages and not even entertain a conversation. It’s not blind date.

So tell him to get over his shyness

Exactly! If I was here on a singles profile I'd do the same. Told him this a hundred times.

What's mad is he's not shy in any other way. Just these damn pictures "

Tell him to get his cock out the ladies demand it

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