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By *ringbackfingering OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

What's your stance, want to see one straight away or would you prefer to talk/get to know a little before the schlong?

Currently have them for friends only, thinking about going public

Your thoughts?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Your choice. Having one will attract those who want that and put off those who are against it. Not having one will put off those who do want to see one immediately.

Depends on who you're trying to attract really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’d hung send it

If not, don’t

Pretty simple

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't think this is a decision to make by committee. To thine own self be true.

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By *ancelotLovejoyMan
over a year ago

Penryn

Always like to show mine off

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I wouldn't want to sêê one but then it's all academic: I mostly engage with women on here who, thankfully, are devoid of phalluses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't, it's like a budgies tongue

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Honestly... Tired of seeing them. It's never going to be what I'm attracted to in a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go public with your boo thing. So we know it’s real x

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's on your profile, ok, I know what this site is about. I'm not offended by penis. To really impress me though make it a 'boing' video. Those are always a winner.

If it's in my DMs and I haven't asked for it, including if it's your profile pic (because how is that any different?), you're getting blocked.

But that's me.

Best bet is to read profiles and see what is/isn't requested by the particular person you're messaging.

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By *ringbackfingering OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"If it's on your profile, ok, I know what this site is about. I'm not offended by penis. To really impress me though make it a 'boing' video. Those are always a winner.

If it's in my DMs and I haven't asked for it, including if it's your profile pic (because how is that any different?), you're getting blocked.

But that's me.

Best bet is to read profiles and see what is/isn't requested by the particular person you're messaging. "

Thank you

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By *lder.Woman
over a year ago

Not Local

I like to see how a cock is part of a man's body, so done as whole body shots. Your cock as part of you, rather than you just being the cock. I'm not particulary looking to meet though, I just like seeing naked man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t, friends only just means you see my face, only time someone sees mine is if they ask for one direct or they’re taking off my boxers. I tend to find most want something to look forward to.

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By *ilks xXxWoman
over a year ago

East Mids


"What's your stance, want to see one straight away or would you prefer to talk/get to know a little before the schlong?

Currently have them for friends only, thinking about going public

Your thoughts?"

I personally think an eclectic mix of photos is the best way ….. not all cock heavy though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your stance, want to see one straight away or would you prefer to talk/get to know a little before the schlong?

Currently have them for friends only, thinking about going public

Your thoughts?"

If messaging, it dependents really. Maybe wait a couple before you pull out the big guns at least to gauge how it will be received. Rather going straight in with a picture of the cock.

In regards to a profile I think at least one dick pic amongst other pictures won't do you any harm. But that's my opinion

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I can't, it's like a budgies tongue "

Your cock is furry?

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door


"I can't, it's like a budgies tongue "
that made my brain sing 2 little dicky birds song i dont know why ok carry on

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's your profile op, if you want to make one public that's up to you.

Just don't send them in messages, unless soneone asks for it.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

its your choice op,,

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I don’t know many women who will see a cock and think ‘I’m going to meet him solely based on his cock’

So I’d say if you’ve got a selection of pics showing you off then it’s fine to throw one in.

We instantly delete profile pics of cocks and profiles who send them in messages - we aren’t going to be compatible if you feel that best represents you

K

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

As a profile pic or in a first message it’s areal turnoff to me and could result in being blocked but if you have cock on show as part of a full body pic or in amongst a variety of profile pics that’s fine. I must admit that the ones where cum is dripping from a close up dick make me feel icky so I do block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cock pics unlessed asked for.

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

I think you can be more creative, as a man, with bulges or having part visible.

Any full on erection pics I have are ‘friends only’ and that’s if a woman wants to friend me and see, not for general consumption and not as a profile pic. I’m average, not a huge whanger, so I’m not using it as my unique selling feature.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not arsed about seeing one at all, much prefer body/face pics.

If anyone wants to see it they'll ask.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t wanna see it!!!

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I’ve taken a bold approach. I’ve done a pop art poster of my chap from all different angles and states of presentation.

It’s pasted to the notice board in my block of flats. I figure that way people can choose to call or not.

Currently debating whether to stick one in the newsagent window.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I’ve taken a bold approach. I’ve done a pop art poster of my chap from all different angles and states of presentation.

It’s pasted to the notice board in my block of flats. I figure that way people can choose to call or not.

Currently debating whether to stick one in the newsagent window."
Lovely profile and pics.

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