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By *Misschiefx OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

London

At communicating? How are your communication skills? I'm reading an interesting book about it ATM and it's something I think about a lot as a writer too.

What are your communication top tips?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

5/10

Could do better.

Awkward as fuck.

Way to literal.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask those that I don’t text back.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Terrible lol

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m better at writing them down.

In person I’m quite reserved, unless I’m absolutely tamping (in which case it will just be anger coming out).

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I am brilliant at communicating. Just a shame everyone else is terrible at understanding me.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I think I’m a good communicator, in that I can articulate my point/s. However sometimes I have selective mutism so I’m not always desiring of communicating them.

The key thing, I think in communicating, is understanding the difference and nuance of intent versus how something is understood/received by the listener, and the fact that your intent doesn’t negate someone else’s receipt of your words. Communication, good communication, is in the exchange and bringing forth of mutual understanding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

zero. Px

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"I am brilliant at communicating. Just a shame everyone else is terrible at understanding me."

Depends if you're speaking the same language lol

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Not as good as I used to think!

Sometimes I forget to listen actively, and in my excitement to identify with the speaker, I realise afterwards I was just waiting for a gap to speak, rather than Really listening

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Um.

I'm good at communicating in so much as I make genuine effort to express what I think and feel to the people who should know it.

I'm terrible in that the way I word vomit and express myself is somewhat off kilter for most people and sometimes people struggle to interpret what I'm saying in the way it's intended

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By *Misschiefx OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

London


"I think I’m a good communicator, in that I can articulate my point/s. However sometimes I have selective mutism so I’m not always desiring of communicating them.

The key thing, I think in communicating, is understanding the difference and nuance of intent versus how something is understood/received by the listener, and the fact that your intent doesn’t negate someone else’s receipt of your words. Communication, good communication, is in the exchange and bringing forth of mutual understanding."

Agreed, so many misunderstanding come from people not thinking about the receiving part of their communication and assuming it is understood in the same way it is intended. Clarification goes a long way

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By *Misschiefx OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Not as good as I used to think!

Sometimes I forget to listen actively, and in my excitement to identify with the speaker, I realise afterwards I was just waiting for a gap to speak, rather than Really listening "

You and prey to the fairies are both describing a very ADHD experience.

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By *GermanInLondonMan
over a year ago

London

Verbally I think not too good in English. And in German I would struggle as well now.

Written moderate.

Tip for communication.... If it's an important written one sleep a night over it and read again before sending.

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