FabSwingers.com forum: Swinger site or fantasy?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone hope you are all good! Just a quick question I’d like to ask.

I know I’m one of many single guys on here which of course makes it much harder.

But in the past 3 weeks I’ve been here, I’ve had a good few couples (verified with pics) and a couple women make plans then either go AWOL, ignore you or block you for no reason?

So it begs the question, is this a real swinger site where people love meeting and making new friends, or is it just a place for fantasy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The couples are usually just men. Fake men.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Some people use it for fantasy. Some use it go actually meet people and go to clubs

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Do you really think this site is as successful as it is, if it is filled with fantasists and people who don't meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The couples are usually just men. Fake men. "

So the couples who are fake cause they’re men are in fact fake men so women pretending to be men pretending to be a couple? Explains a lot.

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By *egDaySkipperMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It is what it is. It works for some and doesn't work for others.

Have no expectations and you'll have no disappointments.

I honestly don't expect to meet anyone off here, I just count myself lucky when I do, because my friends list is full of hotties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The couples are usually just men. Fake men.

So the couples who are fake cause they’re men are in fact fake men so women pretending to be men pretending to be a couple? Explains a lot.

I said what I just said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had equal success from fabs as I have from those “local milfs in you area want sex with you now!” Adds

Take from that what you may

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We actually meet if we arrange to and that's the only promise we do make though ! but some on here are living a fantasy and the old saying is just as true today as ever ...If it seems to good to be true ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is what it is. It works for some and doesn't work for others.

Have no expectations and you'll have no disappointments.

I honestly don't expect to meet anyone off here, I just count myself lucky when I do, because my friends list is full of hotties

Very good point. I have been chilled, as you say some are attracted some aren’t that’s life. It just seems everytime you have a meaningful fun chat and organise plans, it’s instant backtracking.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

A chat, no matter how “meaningful” does not always necessarily mean sex is guaranteed.

Everyone is allowed to change their mind.

Apply that to your fab logic and you’ll be fine.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

"It is what it is. It works for some and doesn't work for others.

Have no expectations and you'll have no disappointments.

I honestly don't expect to meet anyone off here, I just count myself lucky when I do, because my friends list is full of hotties

May I ask... What sort of fun chat? Sextalk? Explicit? Erotically charged? Explicit innuendo?

That's what these profiles are looking for. Next time try not to engage into that. The fakes lose interest quickly. The real couples that want to meet are usually more business like and won't bother with chit chat. Quick exchange of face pics, one or two questions about the profile, and then arrange a social meet.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Oh... And I forgot to say, we are of course a fake couple too. Lena is a bloke and I am a busty woman (Lars).

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Fab is entirely real.

Not all the people on fab are entirely real.

My advice OP… make connections first. Don’t rush into arranging meets and always do a social one first to make sure the person is who they say they are. My advice is always the same to everyone not just because you’re a newbie.

Hope you find what you’re looking for and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is entirely real.

Not all the people on fab are entirely real.

Hope you find what you’re looking for and have fun

Don’t listen to a word of this

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Fantasy your better of going to a swinging club or an organised event

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
over a year ago

Usually Dundee and around

It works for some guys and doesn't for others. Depends if you are what folk are looking for and how you approach the interactions...

I have had more than a few meets over the years. I would still say I get 50% no shows. So try not to make special arrangements. And have a Plan B (and C & D).

And that's not to say back up meets... but the plan to just have a night out if folk don't turn up!

Happy Fabbing!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Fab is real and people really meet.

However, it has the same problem that any part of the internet does - some people are all talk and no trousers. And love winding people up.

I think this is exacerbated by the nature of the site - sexual fantasies that people have, but less people are willing to go through with them. So people love to talk about a thirty man gangbang with a marching band and having their boss and family member walk in, ending in a river of golden shower, but can most people actually go through with even one part of that, no matter how much it turns them on? No.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Hi everyone hope you are all good! Just a quick question I’d like to ask.

I know I’m one of many single guys on here which of course makes it much harder.

But in the past 3 weeks I’ve been here, I’ve had a good few couples (verified with pics) and a couple women make plans then either go AWOL, ignore you or block you for no reason?

So it begs the question, is this a real swinger site where people love meeting and making new friends, or is it just a place for fantasy?"
fantasy

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

They change their mind, if someone "better" comes across.

Doesn't mean you've done anything wrong.

Probably some has a fantasy or bucket list, then chicken out in last minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 weeks!! I'm surprised you had any replies yet.. Keep going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a fantasist. All my verifications are from paid reviewers. I meet no one.

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By *ooliganMan
over a year ago

Preston

I think a lot of people use the site because they like the idea but never follow it through...

I see a lot more activity at this time of year - presumably people make a NY resolution to have more fun, but when push comes to shove, they revert back to sitting on the sidelines.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ryde

It's a mixture of both, but you get a lot of guys just tossing themselves off over correspondence. This is either as themselves, masquerading as women or as the make component of a couple.

We would like the site to be a bit more insistent about photo-verification, as it would out some of the bullshitters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If by swingers site you mean you just send a message and 20 minutes you’ll be balls deep then …. You’ve came to right place

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think a lot of people use the site because they like the idea but never follow it through...

I see a lot more activity at this time of year - presumably people make a NY resolution to have more fun, but when push comes to shove, they revert back to sitting on the sidelines."

It's one NY resolution they never talk about in the media.

Get fit, eat better, do yoga, gangbangs, journalling habit, tend to that garden...

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

I have had a few meets from here that have gone really well and enjoyed them maybe only one that didn’t go so well . But I must admit a couple of times I’ve paid for a club and bottled it

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I'm the dude, playing the dude disguised as another dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s hard going to a club as a single male.

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By *ullyMan
over a year ago

Near Clacton

I have met a few guys, but those that contact chat then block or ignore are usually guys getting their jollies by messaging and or photo collectors!

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Get fit, eat better, do yoga, gangbangs, journalling habit, tend to that garden..."

So getting busy like the gym, should be back to normal by Easter?

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Hi everyone hope you are all good! Just a quick question I’d like to ask.

I know I’m one of many single guys on here which of course makes it much harder.

But in the past 3 weeks I’ve been here, I’ve had a good few couples (verified with pics) and a couple women make plans then either go AWOL, ignore you or block you for no reason?

So it begs the question, is this a real swinger site where people love meeting and making new friends, or is it just a place for fantasy?"

We are very real, our veris speak for themselves. We see real people in clubs or at homes or hotels. But, there are a lot of fantasists who chat, wank, then disappear.

Club meets are way more reliable as they are already there.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Get fit, eat better, do yoga, gangbangs, journalling habit, tend to that garden...

So getting busy like the gym, should be back to normal by Easter?"

something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my fantasy to be fucked and pegged by females and passed around in company. And sucking cocks for the females fun. So this site is good for sharing fetishes. If it comes true, awesome xx

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By *WINGStars23Couple
over a year ago

Northwest UK

It's definitely for meeting for us. We aren't here to get anybody off online, it's so much better in person. Sadly their are so many AW's (Armchair Wankers) around.

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By *stwo2023Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Hi everyone hope you are all good! Just a quick question I’d like to ask.

I know I’m one of many single guys on here which of course makes it much harder.

But in the past 3 weeks I’ve been here, I’ve had a good few couples (verified with pics) and a couple women make plans then either go AWOL, ignore you or block you for no reason?

So it begs the question, is this a real swinger site where people love meeting and making new friends, or is it just a place for fantasy?"

Both and neither at the same time

Evie

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By *ooliganMan
over a year ago

Preston

"It's one NY resolution they never talk about in the media.

Get fit, eat better, do yoga, gangbangs, journalling habit, tend to that garden..."

But let's face it, we all make it!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Both there's people come for a wank, people that just wanna chat, people that will meet and also people that change their minds.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like any online place people are here with very different motivations.

The common denominator in your experiences however, is you. And it's the only thing you have any control over. A different approach might be needed to vet those you're talking to. If the pattern continues look at how the conversations went and try something different next time.

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