FabSwingers.com forum: What do you think of me?

By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It’s been a little while since I posted this thread, so let’s bring a moment of self reflection, introspection and non reactive thought about others to the forums, as it can be helpful.

It might seem a strange idea but at it’s heart is the intent for us to be more rounded and understanding people.

Self reflection is an important tool in understanding what, why and how we act but so is how others honestly see us.

Post that you’re in on the thread, then respond to others via private message with honest opinions about people. Not nasty, not sycophantic, honest appraisals of how you feel about them, this isn’t a chance to try to ‘get in’ with that hottie, this should be a self improvement exercise.

The intent is to honestly see how others view us, if you give criticism, then please be constructive with it. Remember to be kind folks. Let’s see how this goes...

Remember to respect filters, if you can’t directly message someone, then don’t post it on the thread, it’s meant to be private and personal.

Please also do send messages, passivity only lessens the interaction and those that often complain about not receiving messages, also tend to be the ones that didn’t send any.

Away you go folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In!

By the way OP- I like you. You’re good people.

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

Out

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

In.

But you already know the bases on what I think of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *egDaySkipperMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Roast me like a sounds dinner baby

I'm in

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Always happy to hear others opinions.

Tea, you were a very chilled and welcoming chap when I met you at the Manchester social

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

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By *lubchuckerMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

I'm in

Don't hold back

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By *hunkyBuggaMan
over a year ago

Devon

Very much in! Love this sort of thing

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

I know it's supposed to be private and personal but others should know.

Pickle and the gatekeeper are both very nice chaps who are friendly and easy to talk to. Ladies would not be disappointed in their company and guys would find them equally good socially.

Sorry if this goes against the spirit of the thread OP.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

Ok I'm up for some honesty today, I'm in.

Em x

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I’m in and will have a Quick Look on the thread to share some happy thoughts before I go off on my travels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bookmarking for after work - one of my favourite threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I'm in and braced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing yet so im out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds intriguing. I’m in.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Ignorance is bliss. I'm out

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

Oh fuck I’m not sure….. yeah ok I’m in….

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm in. I like these threads

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I'm about to fill in my end of year appraisal thingy (late), so all constructive comments accepted and might make it into the final draft

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan
over a year ago

Londontown

Hey OP....nice idea. I'm in

Curious, what are we basing these "what I think of you's" (don't want to call them judgements or opinions), on?

Is this a thread for members who know each other a bit more intimately rather than words and photos?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Count us in, I was quite surprised from the last one of these.

Mrs

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Prey… you need more dresses with pockets in your life gorgeous.

Scottish Guy - you need to look after yourself a little better and let your friends help more often.

PW - you’re gorgeous inside and out. I wish you could see that.

Tea Monkey - my thoughts for you are private and not suitable for the forum

I think you know those already.

Now I must really go off on my travels. Be back later.

Ps. My list is not exhaustive just some ramblings of a LB x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not in (although if anyone has any negative criticism they want to fire into my inbox your are more than welcome). But I'm just here to say everyone I've interacted with in here has seemed pretty lovely.

I joined to be a shagger and seduce all the locals in the northeast with what i believed was charm and wit.

I got rejected by all the locals in the North East due to my lack of charm and wit.

I stayed because of you guys, you lot are alright you know

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm in. Always interested in improving myself as much as I can, and decent feedback is an invaluable part of that.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ll join and send some messages throughout the day

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Last time I took part in one of these I was both surprised and embarrassed.

A few people were very complimentary about my forum contributions but I don't pay enough attention to individual posters to be able to reciprocate.

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By *oe11109Man
over a year ago

Barrow in Furness

Go on then, im in

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

In and will participate.

Btw Op, even though we're on opposite ends of the ideological spectrum I respect you and think you're an all round good guy who's insightful and introspective. Good thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In. But you’re wrong!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure I'm in. Why not

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Go on

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By *uckowskiMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I'll bite.

I'm in! For realsies! No givesees backsees!

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By *adgerMan
over a year ago

york

In for a penny!

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By *ristolboy1005Man
over a year ago

bristol

I'm in

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Oh my this is an oldie but a goodie, just like you OP

In! I'm in introspective mood right now.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m probably not prolific enough on the forums to get many responses but am interested to know, so I’m in!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Ín. Cautiously... tentatively...

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By *emidemiWoman
over a year ago

basingstoke

Ok, I’m in.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

Oh bugger it lol I'm in

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

It must be the weather, or the moon phase or maybe because B is away but I'm in that sort of thinky mood. In.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Tentatively dipping my toe in x

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I may regret this but in...

Tinder

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

In!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm in! Admittedly a tad late possibly...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Still in

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By *GermanInLondonMan
over a year ago

London /Liverpool/Manchester/Leeds

Ohh I am late but still in if possible

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I’ll be in for a little while.

I’m sure I’ll regret it

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Tea, darling, you already know what I think of you. And just FYI I kept the message you sent me when I last participated in this because it makes me smile when I feel sad

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Oh and for others in the thread, I’m sorry but I’ve not been around for a while so I don’t really know any of you but if you are here, especially in the forums, then I already know you are fascinating people who one day I might get to know better. Until then, have a spectacular week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Self Improvement exercise?

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

I've had a couple of lovely messages off the back of this thread.

Thanks OP.

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By *GermanInLondonMan
over a year ago

London /Liverpool/Manchester/Leeds

Same here. Some great messages and positivity in less than an hour!

Thanks all for ending this day in such a positive way!

And thanks for the thread OP!

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

Ye have made a grumpy girl smile tonight, thank you

Em x

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I know what most think of me will be ranging from nothing to a waste of a legendary shag

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Finally finished doing mine! Such a slowcoach

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent one. I got one in return.

It’s always a good thread. Thanks for the fun op.

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By *hunkyBuggaMan
over a year ago

Devon

Sent some! Good fun thanks OP

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