FabSwingers.com forum: Abuse of women on Fabs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok, I stumbled across the message snapshot of an abusive man posted on petitepeppa 's profile and I was shocked at it's content.

Is this a common experience here on Fabs? I mean, when women complain here of abuse, I just think it's someone saying "ok f off then" or "you're ugly" or something after being rejected.

But the guy there was really evil sounding.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Ok, I stumbled across the message snapshot of an abusive man posted on petitepeppa 's profile and I was shocked at it's content.

Is this a common experience here on Fabs? I mean, when women complain here of abuse, I just think it's someone saying "ok f off then" or "you're ugly" or something after being rejected.

But the guy there was really evil sounding.

I saw that .. by no means is it ok to talk to anyone in that manner .. what I found weird was why there was only that message showing .. what none of us know is the conversation they had what was said

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Ok, I stumbled across the message snapshot of an abusive man posted on petitepeppa 's profile and I was shocked at it's content.

Is this a common experience here on Fabs? I mean, when women complain here of abuse, I just think it's someone saying "ok f off then" or "you're ugly" or something after being rejected.

But the guy there was really evil sounding.

Yes some horrible abuse out there and to be fair some ladies can be incredibly abusive to men as well. I've certainly had it and once from somebody with a very sweet and polite looking profile talking about how manners are so important and cost nothing.

However, don't think naming and shaming people and publicly posting pics of messages is allowed as she has done on her profile. This place would become like the Wild West if people were allowed to post screenshots of private chats.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Ok, I stumbled across the message snapshot of an abusive man posted on petitepeppa 's profile and I was shocked at it's content.

Is this a common experience here on Fabs? I mean, when women complain here of abuse, I just think it's someone saying "ok f off then" or "you're ugly" or something after being rejected.

But the guy there was really evil sounding.

That's why I say there's two sides two everything.. I'm sure there was more conversation than the one message shown

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

PS hopefully she had reported the message

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Ok, I stumbled across the message snapshot of an abusive man posted on petitepeppa 's profile and I was shocked at it's content.

Is this a common experience here on Fabs? I mean, when women complain here of abuse, I just think it's someone saying "ok f off then" or "you're ugly" or something after being rejected.

But the guy there was really evil sounding.

That's why I say there's two sides two everything.. I'm sure there was more conversation than the one message shown "

Yes quite possibly. Doesn't excuse what he has written but who knows perhaps she said some abusive things to him as well.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Wouldn't encourage sharing screenshots of messages neither as it's against site rules.. there's some psycho on here sending messages to people about me I can't be bothered to share it on here though

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Ok, I stumbled across the message snapshot of an abusive man posted on petitepeppa 's profile and I was shocked at it's content.

Is this a common experience here on Fabs? I mean, when women complain here of abuse, I just think it's someone saying "ok f off then" or "you're ugly" or something after being rejected.

But the guy there was really evil sounding.

That's why I say there's two sides two everything.. I'm sure there was more conversation than the one message shown

Yes quite possibly. Doesn't excuse what he has written but who knows perhaps she said some abusive things to him as well. "

That's my point exactly.. as said in previous moment I don't condone that behaviour full stop but I'm sure there's more to the story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not going to break rules and say what's in messages but

That isn't the worst message that can be sent

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Ok, I stumbled across the message snapshot of an abusive man posted on petitepeppa 's profile and I was shocked at it's content.

Is this a common experience here on Fabs? I mean, when women complain here of abuse, I just think it's someone saying "ok f off then" or "you're ugly" or something after being rejected.

But the guy there was really evil sounding.

Yes it's really out of context, but shouldn't use that word whatever was before.

(90% sure she's local to me, if I remember right)

What I don't understand is how a partial screenshot of a message can be uploaded without breaking any rules?

I was banned for quoting myself.

(A poem I messaged)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Posting any photo that the profile holder isn't in is against site rules. Posting the contents of private messages via screenshot on your profile or in the forum is against site rules.

Always report abusive messages so admin can issue a warning, temporary ban or suspension.

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