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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What did you do for yours last?

If you were with other people you're disqualified from answering.

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

I drank a whole bottle of rum and threw up in my bed

But I did also get dumped just before my birthday so I was drowning my sorrows for that, and for spending my birthday alone

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Probably went fishing with my dog, Shook hands with the unemployed, d*unk a six pack and had a little weep.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Uh. Last year I was unable to see my favourite people because life was a dick and my only human contact was the clinic for my STI testing.

I live in hope that this year will be better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I drank a whole bottle of rum and threw up in my bed

But I did also get dumped just before my birthday so I was drowning my sorrows for that, and for spending my birthday alone "

Oh Christ, I was looking for ideas. Although I've got one already but that wasn't quite what I expected. Shame it wasn't your ex's bed you threw up in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was driving around crying. Seems so long ago now., and that was when I was in a really bad place. I suspect this year will go past like just another day, but still a lot better than last year

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

My last was my 50th and I did absolutely nothing.

Another day, another dollar.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Had a quiet few drinks with myself as I have a lot on, not in a celebrating way, just to take the edge off...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun

Happy birthday!!! That wasn't sarcasm either although it probably reads that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My last was my 50th and I did absolutely nothing.

Another day, another dollar. "

Not on a big one

nooooo!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun

Happy birthday!

Be kind to those exam students!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I went for a pizza with my kids

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I was on my own in Thailand. Had hoped to spend it at a spa but my visa was running out so I spent about 10 hours on a bus instead!

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"I drank a whole bottle of rum and threw up in my bed

But I did also get dumped just before my birthday so I was drowning my sorrows for that, and for spending my birthday alone "

This sounds all too relatable..!

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Happy birthday!

Birthdays are for the young and I do very little. Mines up for renewal soon.

I love to celebrate others but I hate people putting themselves out for me.

I make a nice meal and enjoy a nice bottle of red.

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By *mbergirl1984Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I had a spa day! On my own in peace and quiet!

This year for my 40th I’m planning to be somewhere hot, lying on a beach.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I went on holiday alone for my birthday

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"I was driving around crying. Seems so long ago now., and that was when I was in a really bad place. I suspect this year will go past like just another day, but still a lot better than last year

Me too bud, me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took my camera to shoot photos for the personal project I'm working on. Had loads of good sex before and after so not a big deal to not celebrate my birthday

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"My last was my 50th and I did absolutely nothing.

Another day, another dollar.

Not on a big one

nooooo!!"

You learn to look at things differently when there’s no one to share them with.

I always thought my 50th birthday will be special.

It wasn’t and the world still goes on.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Went for a really long walk.

Listened to my favourite music.

Took myself out for dinner.

Drank my favourite wine.

Had one or more ladywanks, and overall thanked my lucky stars I wasn’t spending it with people who really didn’t give a shit after all…

I really enjoyed it but it would be lovely to have something different next time

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I spent my 42nd birthday in Christchurch New Zealand back in 2020 as covid was kicking off... I took myself out for brunch, then punting on the river Avon... weather was glorious!

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

Always work on my birthday, just another day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drank mimosas, watched movies, cooked steak and ate some cake - was a good day really

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I had COVID, so I felt sorry for myself and ate Jaffa Cakes.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I haven’t celebrated my birthday for years. I suppose it would be different if i was with someone, but that hasn’t been the case for about 15 years (at the same time, I mean).

Last year I worked, didn’t tell anyone, bought my boss lunch then stayed at home!

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun

Happy birthday Zuri!! Did you have a birthday stroke? (at the farm haha). Are your kids getting better or worse grades than normal because you’re marking on your birthday?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was driving around crying. Seems so long ago now., and that was when I was in a really bad place. I suspect this year will go past like just another day, but still a lot better than last year

Me too bud, me too

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun

Happy birthday!!! That wasn't sarcasm either although it probably reads that way."

Ha, thanks. To be honest I hadn't really thought about it until I saw this post!

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Yes! I booked the day off work and had breakfast in bed then changed the sheets. Then I went to a spa for the day, came home and had a takeaway before crawling into fresh sheets. I wanted a me day and it was perfect. I’m going to do the same this year

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun

Happy birthday Zuri!! Did you have a birthday stroke? (at the farm haha). Are your kids getting better or worse grades than normal because you’re marking on your birthday?!"

I've not started yet, it will be after 10

From what I've seen i don't think I could make the grades much worse unfortunately!

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By *ussyslave4youMan
over a year ago

corby

Mine tomorrow, a bit of bad start have funeral in the morning, So hopefully a much nicer evening

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I went to work at a place I hated

It was very cathartic

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Actually makes me feel better knowing I'm not alone with no birthday celebrations. My actual birthday I went to work and in the evening went to teach my jiu jitsu class. Normal day. I was lucky enough to have my best friend take me out at the weekend and spoil me rotten with the presents she bought me. Not ashamed to admit her incredible generosity brought me to tears. She bought me more carefully thought out presents in one go then I have received in my 50 years of life. Tried to hold it together but cracked when she hugged me.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Actually makes me feel better knowing I'm not alone with no birthday celebrations. My actual birthday I went to work and in the evening went to teach my jiu jitsu class. Normal day. I was lucky enough to have my best friend take me out at the weekend and spoil me rotten with the presents she bought me. Not ashamed to admit her incredible generosity brought me to tears. She bought me more carefully thought out presents in one go then I have received in my 50 years of life. Tried to hold it together but cracked when she hugged me."

That's actually really sweet

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I tend to go on holiday for my birthday. At least then I know I'm doing something in a place I want to be. I often go on guided your type holidays and often the hotel or tour guide organise a cake or balloons (or local equivalent) to mark the occasion. I've had some awesome birthdays like this actually!

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun

Happy birthday!!! That wasn't sarcasm either although it probably reads that way.

Ha, thanks. To be honest I hadn't really thought about it until I saw this post!"

Useless fun fact, you share your birthday with Elvis and I share mine with his passing

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun

Happy birthday!!! That wasn't sarcasm either although it probably reads that way.

Ha, thanks. To be honest I hadn't really thought about it until I saw this post!

Useless fun fact, you share your birthday with Elvis and I share mine with his passing

Yes, also David Bowie! Although yours is unlikely to be his death too : )

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

I go to my local cemetery where my late parents ashes are buried and have a brief chat with them, have done it for years and will be doing it again on my birthday later this month.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"My last was my 50th and I did absolutely nothing.

Another day, another dollar. "

Oh you should have gone to Hawaii for your Five O... !

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Ignored it as I've mostly done for the last 24yrs

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"My last was my 50th and I did absolutely nothing.

Another day, another dollar.

Oh you should have gone to Hawaii for your Five O... !"

Ha ha.... and had a Hawaiian pizza that was burnt because you should have cooked it on aloha setting

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Last year. Likely this year

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Last year. Likely this year"

And is that what you want to do? I mean does it make you happy?

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By *o scandalousWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sleep. Had Chinese food. Long bubble bath. More sleep.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Last year. Likely this year

And is that what you want to do? I mean does it make you happy? "

Nothing. I don't particularly mind, I see people but don't celebrate it with the.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Last year. Likely this year

And is that what you want to do? I mean does it make you happy?

Nothing. I don't particularly mind, I see people but don't celebrate it with the. "

That’s not too bad then. As long as you are comfortable with it darling

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Spent it alone and didn't even get a message from any fab friends that knew when my birthday was ?? are they really friends if they don't acknowledge your birthday though ????

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

I went for a carvery and then spent the afternoon at the cinema.

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

Wishing the OP and everyone with a birthday coming up, a better time ahead and a pleasant day!

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By *anManCoolMan
over a year ago

Camborne

Done absolutely nothing. Was on my own and not anyone at my work wished me happy birthday.

Was just another boring Tuesday in December

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By *urvelover87Man
over a year ago

London

Cracked open a bottle of red, cooked myself a new recipe from one of those fancy food blogs then ate it watching Dune.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I fee like I should sit in and do absolutely nothing as a mark for all those that do theirs alone.

But I didn't do my first 17 birthdays in life and this will the first time since where I don't do anything. There's a part of me that doesn't want to go back 'there'.

And my birthday is on a weekend that I'm as free as a bird on.

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By *cflirtyMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun

Happy Birthday xxxx

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By *cflirtyMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

The last birthday I spent alone in hospital

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By *edagainMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun

Happy Birthday x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as last few years. Sat there hoping the phone or doorbell would ring.... it didn't

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Same as last few years. Sat there hoping the phone or doorbell would ring.... it didn't

Oh this makes me sad

I hope you can find something fulfilling for yourself on your next birthday

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"What did you do for yours last?

If you were with other people you're disqualified from answering.

During the day, I took myself out for a day in a hotel swimming pool and sat reading a book, had an ice cream (in November) and wangled a free breakfast. Then I took myself for a late lunch (on my own too) and then to the bank! I sat at home and did some work in the evening. Mr KC didn't get back from a business trip until almost midnight and had departed the previous evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same as last few years. Sat there hoping the phone or doorbell would ring.... it didn't

Oh this makes me sad

I hope you can find something fulfilling for yourself on your next birthday

Very little chance of that happening unfortunately same as xmas etc.

Oh well life goes on

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By *r WhispererMan
over a year ago

brynmawr

Last year I was at work then came home and went straight to bed as I work a later shift .. lots of the previous years I’d be away in Europe somewhere working

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I spent a lovely birthday alone a few years ago, I went to a shepherd's hut on a horse farm for a couple of nights, took some nice food, a bottle of wine, and a good book...it was lovely, walking round the farm, watching the horses, completely relaxing, and curling up with my book at night.I've

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By *osco78Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's been mine today , I've been for a walk in the peaks then I picked my son up after school and he "paid " for us to go to Wendy's

That will do me tbh

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By *XSnoopy72XXMan
over a year ago

snaith

in a another fecking hotel on my own, yes my lifes like the film trains,planes and automobiles i need a fecking better job, rant over

ps my birthday the 23rd of this month and i bet im alone for that lol

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By *rMemberMan
over a year ago

Wimbledon

"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun

Happy birthday Zuri, it's my birthday today too and I spent most of it working and eating cakes from the bakery.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun

Happy birthday Zuri, it's my birthday today too and I spent most of it working and eating cakes from the bakery."

It involved cake, not so bad.

Happy birthday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took myself out for dinner

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I had my 50th on my own in Ibiza. Flew out, hired a car, drove north. Visited tons of beaches, snorkeled in the wilds, went hiking, did a cacao ceremony and ecstatic dance, partied, ate gorgeous food, chatted to strangers. I trusted that it would be great.. And it was!

I stayed in finca on a communal land and two others had birthdays too. They had organised a party with djs under the fig trees and I danced all night wooo!

I definitely had a little cry on my actual birthday and felt a bit lonesome..until I remembered where I was!

It's not for everyone but I love a solo adventure. Somehow it's easier and more simple.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I should add that I had planned to climb mountains in Scotland but the weather in August was horrendous.. I peeped at skyscanner and found a super cheap flight and made it up from there.

Just put in your date and destination everywhere.. See where it takes you.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Jusr checked my phone photos last one alone was 2021. I checked into an AirBnB, got up around 5am, drove to the coast and photographed the sun rising over Dunstanburg castle. Then walked along the Coast to Bamburg & took a small boat to Farne and photographed thousands of seals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a kebab, it was a memorable kebab and I preferred the company of myself. It was nice.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

It was just another day, I did bugger all, think I probably watched a load of shite on netflix or prime

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Its no big deal I've spent many in recent years on my own

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By *use and wolfCouple
over a year ago

angus

"What did you do for yours last?

If you were with other people you're disqualified from answering.

Got hammered and decided my birthday, like Christmas, is just another day to let pass without ceremony. We put too much emphasis on "big" days.

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By *use and wolfCouple
over a year ago

angus

That was 6 years ago btw...

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Went to work just like any other day.

I haven’t celebrated my birthday since I was about 20/21. It’s a kids thing and I have no desire to own an action man anymore.

The mr

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

I'll tell you in a couple of days unless I get disqualified

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

Spent the last 4 birthday s and Christmas and New year on my own. X

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I worked worked from morning to night, 16 hours in a hotel in the Lake District. It's just another day to me nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What did you do for yours last?

If you were with other people you're disqualified from answering.

Went to Turtle Bay had all three courses and a couple of cocktails then went to some pubs. Loved every minute.

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